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cumalot · 03-08-2012, 10:56 AM

We all have our ATF's, the clients have there ATF's and the providers have there ATF's. So as an ATF how did you make him or her feel special? Or should you make him or her feel special?

For me my ATF bought me 3 months of P-411 renewal as a surprise. That really made my day, to think that she would spend money on me like that...and she also etc.....

For her, I give her dead presidents for X-mas, V-day, and any other special occasion that comes up and not during a session. I also help cover purchases that she makes on line.....and ....

charlestudor2005 · 03-08-2012, 11:38 AM

The most recent session I had with my ATF was just this morning. But my ATF is completely free: her name is Rosy Palm. lol

Jackie S · 03-08-2012, 11:46 AM

The answer to the question is "yes".

Guest052912 · 03-08-2012, 12:24 PM

I make all of my friends feel special.

Still Looking · 03-08-2012, 12:28 PM

YES!

GNG · 03-08-2012, 02:19 PM

As of early this afternoon, my ATF can no longer hold that position.

Once I find a new one, I'll be able to offer an answer to this question.

Wakeup · 03-08-2012, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by cumalot

For me my ATF bought me 3 months of P-411 renewal as a surprise. That really made my day, to think that she would spend money on me like that...and she also etc.....

For her, I give her dead presidents for X-mas, V-day, and any other special occasion that comes up and not during a session. I also help cover purchases that she makes on line.....and ....

So did that $60 from her equal the amount you've spent on her not for sessions in that year...yeah...thought not...

Next time just ask her to drop a nickel in your tightie whities, because that's about all she cares about your "feeling special"...

Outdoorsman · 03-08-2012, 03:31 PM

A provider making me "feel" special does not mean, to me, that she makes me feel like I am her mate, boyfriend, that she loves me, etc. etc. When a restaurant I frequent makes me feel special, it is by giving me a discount or going an extra mile, am I still a customer, absolutely. I have no doubts in my mind I would not be getting a discounted dinner if I did not spend multiple dollars in the establishment or give great advertisement or whatever.

Same principle applies to provider ATFs, to me. Has she made me feel special lately? BY taking extra time, discount cuz of my continued support, etc. etc.

The answer to the question is: No, not lately.

Naomi4u · 03-08-2012, 04:03 PM

Yes.

Naomi4u · 03-08-2012, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Wakeuр

So did that $60 from her equal the amount you've spent on her not for sessions in that year...yeah...thought not...

Next time just ask her to drop a nickel in your tightie whities, because that's about all she cares about your "feeling special"...

Sometime I think some of these guys forget that their ATFs are being paid.

cumalot · 03-08-2012, 04:16 PM

Well the key word here is special...Yes there is a lot of money gone that way, but at the end it is the thought that counts and that's what makes things fell special. Just sayin..

jimmycz · 03-08-2012, 05:14 PM

If your ATF does not make you feel special then what in the hell is she doing being your ATF! There are some out there who really do care and that is no BS. Sure it a biz but we are freakin people and not all only care as long as the cash is there. I can hear it now just wait til it runs out. Well hell that has happened and she still did not bail! Now that is something special in a ATF! Oh and maybe that she can suck me dry for hours on end!

mtnman881 · 03-08-2012, 05:25 PM

A nice e-mail & a follow up phone call - and she invited me over to her place for a Leap Year romp. That was a special surprise from a 2 year ago special lady.

Willen · 03-08-2012, 05:26 PM

I don't mean to get into a p***ing match with jimmycz, but he and I look at the criteria for ATF very differently it seems. ALL of my best times/relationships in the hobby have occurred because the lady and I have gotten in sync. So it is not up to her to please me, period. WE have a good time together, which means that I have water to carry. Maybe that means I simply treat her with consideration; maybe it means she likes what I do BCD. I'm not so naive to think I understand the hobby from a provider's perspective, or to flatter myself that they all really like me. But we all want respect, and that leads to doing what you can to please your playmate.

So, my last time with my ATF was not my best time with my ATF, but it was lots of fun after a very unpromising beginning (we'd gone to a club which turned out to be a bore.)

Old-T · 03-08-2012, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Wakeuр

So did that $60 from her equal the amount you've spent on her not for sessions in that year...yeah...thought not...

Next time just ask her to drop a nickel in your tightie whities, because that's about all she cares about your "feeling special"...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Willen

ALL of my best times/relationships in the hobby have occurred because the lady and I have gotten in sync. So it is not up to her to please me, period. WE have a good time together, which means that I have water to carry. Maybe that means I simply treat her with consideration; maybe it means she likes what I do BCD. I'm not so naive to think I understand the hobby from a provider's perspective, or to flatter myself that they all really like me. But we all want respect, and that leads to doing what you can to please your playmate.

Quite a different pair of views. Why do I have the distinct feeling Willen has a higher percentage of good sessions? Hmmm....

It's really a shame when some folks refuse to acknowledge that some people in this corner of the world actually DO like each other, and can mix respect, friendship, etc., and still keep things professional.