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pickupkid · 03-04-2011, 10:36 AM

Which do you use to verify and advertise? P411 or Datecheck

charlestudor2005 · 03-04-2011, 10:47 AM

You mean you didn't include CL/BP???

Actually, one of the best pieces of information (and I haven't seen it anywhere here) is the best ad sites for different parts of the country.

For instance, I think ECCIE is great for TX, OK, AR, LA, NM, and the Southwest generally.

I was recently in Chicago, and the premier site there is RS2K.

There is something different for Nebraska, Kansas, Iowa (I don't remember what it is).

CA has redbook or whatever it's called.

I don't know about the SE or the NE. Nor the NW.

I think it would make a great sticky to have these geographical areas and preferred ad sites paired together.

Naomi4u · 03-04-2011, 10:50 AM

Well to be very honest with you, I love Date-check. I don't use p411 much. I also love escorts.com (Yes I use it) and Backpage.

There are Backpage girls and Backpage advertisers. Lots of reputable ladies like myself use Backpage.
I have gotten pretty steady business from that site. Charles, Don't you know that CL got rid of it's adult section?
I never advertised on CL to know if it was good for biz or not.

I stay away from RoomService. Nuff said.

Chica Chaser · 03-04-2011, 10:51 AM

P411 for me. I was on DateCheck at one point, but never seemed as secure and entry requirements were minimal, for both parties.

I will sticky if good information comes forth

Guest071613-2 · 03-04-2011, 11:27 AM

Ive been using P411 since 2006 and I don't know what I would do without it. Love it and Gina is the bomb.

chipshot · 03-04-2011, 12:25 PM

Indys.com is a good board for PA, OH, NY.... and other areas in the east. It was primarily PA & OH to start, but has had some nice expansion recently.

Lots of good info for both parties involved!

Paige Hunter · 03-04-2011, 12:28 PM

I LIKE P411

Guest061612-1 · 03-04-2011, 12:35 PM

I think that both sites are invaluable for both sides. P411 gives the john a great place to look around where ever in the country he may be. Then he can click on the ECCIE reviews and make an intelligent decision if that provider is right for him. Then he can look at her site on ECCIE to reinforce the issue at hand.
Both sites are great...I am lifetime members on both!

Valerie · 03-04-2011, 12:42 PM

I like both, although P411 does seem to be a bit more strict (which I like)....It's good to have both as a provider who tours because some regions use different ones, I rarely find a client who has a p411 acct when I'm in NYC or Chicago, they usually have datecheck or RSK2000 <----which I do NOT accept....

Lea Madisson · 03-04-2011, 12:45 PM

I like the fact that P411 is run by a woman, Gina.. who has a real concern for the safety of others. I also use Date-Check, even though, I agree with Chica about them being more lax. I also think DC is more concerned about the money side, but that is okay too! Need to make money!

But, I still treat both P411 and Date-Check (and even RS2K, when I am up that way) the same.. I follow up "Okays" and "Highly Recommends" with an email to the provider given those verifications. And, I still make hobbyists send me an email from whatever site they say they belong to!

Screening is important... and you should use all the tools you have at your disposal!

Smooch!

Lea

charlestudor2005 · 03-04-2011, 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

I like the fact that P411 is run by a woman, Gina.. who has a real concern for the safety of others. I also use Date-Check, even though, I agree with Chica about them being more lax. I also think DC is more concerned about the money side, but that is okay too! Need to make money!

But, I still treat both P411 and Date-Check (and even RS2K, when I am up that way) the same.. I follow up "Okays" and "Highly Recommends" with an email to the provider given those verifications. And, I still make hobbyists send me an email from whatever site they say they belong to!

Screening is important... and you should use all the tools you have at your disposal!

Smooch!

Lea

So, I guess it's fair to say: with you, everyone starts off on the DNS list, and each one has to earn his way off of it.

Lea Madisson · 03-04-2011, 01:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

So, I guess it's fair to say: with you, everyone starts off on the DNS list, and each one has to earn his way off of it.

Not at all.. everyone starts on my IWRLTSY list (I Would Really Love To See You) and then I try to find ways to knock them off that list!!! LOL

Actually, a guy rarely knows all the screening that goes on. Such as checking with TSA to see if he is on the Do Not Fly list, or emailing Chris Hansen to make sure the potential client has never been on "To Catch A Predator".

The majority of the time, just being on P411 or any other service is good.. but the extra step takes in account that one time the guy is not who he says he is.

Let's take you for example.. there is enough on here alone that I would have you on my "to do" list just so I could say I had CT!!!!

Smooch (a pre-screening smooch at that!)

Lea

Guest011914-1 · 03-04-2011, 01:38 PM

I love P411 and in the northeast bestgfe.com is widely used....as well as e.com...I still and always will avoid BP....IMHO...to each their own and in my IMHO it's dangerous and low class...sorry don't mean any disrespect

Lea Madisson · 03-04-2011, 01:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

So, I guess it's fair to say: with you, everyone starts off on the DNS list, and each one has to earn his way off of it.

Let me share another screening technique with Charles...

In addition to P411, I would probably do a little screening with a phone conversation with you. By your avatar, I would assume you are a Jimmy Buffett fan.. So I might start a conversation about JB and then find out that the real JB you are a fan of is Justin Beiber!!!! Now, that would send up red flags!!!

So, you see, it's a great idea to have a good box of screening tools available at all times for all situations!!

Smooch!

Lea

Guest011914-1 · 03-04-2011, 01:45 PM

oh yea Lea Justin Beiber fever is a true DNS.....

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

Let me share another screening technique with Charles...

In addition to P411, I would probably do a little screening with a phone conversation with you. By your avatar, I would assume you are a Jimmy Buffett fan.. So I might start a conversation about JB and then find out that the real JB you are a fan of is Justin Beiber!!!! Now, that would send up red flags!!!

So, you see, it's a great idea to have a good box of screening tools available at all times for all situations!!

Smooch!

Lea