What ladies see AA Gents?

[dumars]

Believe it or not, you are incorrect to a very large degree. Not 100% incorrect, just mostly incorrect.

Fact is, most of the statements made are done so on the insistence of their handlers. Interpret that anyway you want. Some are made based on perception, that is thinking they're going to get ripped off. Lastly, yes, there are some racists among you as there are some among us.

Personally, I like male racists. More PJ for me to feed on! After all, old men need to consume more protein than younger men. That's a fact Jack!

Originally Posted by AriannaKC

Kaylen,

I agree with Jaycee, a very thoughtful thread. I believe an unfortunate one in 2015.

Simply put, women who post that are racist. There's no way to justify saying "no black guys" without coming off as a racist. However that is not the the underlying reason. The reason started long ago when there were only the streets.

Women who are pimped say no black guys because they are being pimped by a black guy who is afraid if she meets someone better, she may jump ship on him and they scare them about black men being aggressive. Pimps will sometimes jump other rob other pimps girls over territory, happens all the time in STL and it's all part of the brainwashing. But those people never get through screening so if you aren't playing in the yucky mudpile of backpage and streetwalkers..then it's irrelevant.

From that essence they create fear, Some women have never even been with a black man and just say it because they think that must be the deal.

A much more accurate stereotype would be, "Assume women who put no AA men, no daty and no kissing" are being pimped and those are her pimp rules. Not all of them, but a lot of them.

I see newbies and only judge based on reputation.

[SexyKaylen]

I hope this will help the guys out a little. I don't know.

[guykc]

How many ladies see SA men or HA,IA,PA,NA.

[Autumnkc]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I see anyone who is respectful, follows my rules and is able to be screened...

Yep! Agreed 100%

[Guest013121]

But in all seriousness, yes, a very thoughtful thread Kaylen.

Notice all the independent ladies on this thread....

[SexyKaylen]

Thanks doll. I try to help with this thread. I see the ladies that responded don't have pimps for sure.in this thread.

Originally Posted by Gemma34

But in all seriousness, yes, a very thoughtful thread Kaylen.

Notice all the independent ladies on this thread....

[Emmie]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I see anyone who is respectful, follows my rules and is able to be screened...

Absolutely!!! No discrimination over here!!

[Enchanterlingum]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I see anyone who is respectful, follows my rules and is able to be screened...

I read this as "able to be screwed."

Sometimes we just see what we want to, lol

[RJinLR]

Originally Posted by Autumnkc

Yep! Agreed 100%

^^^fellas...^^^

Originally Posted by Emmie

Absolutely!!! No discrimination over here!!

^^^fellas...^^^


As a white guy, don't really have a dog in this fight other than (at the risk of being too political) saying that I work in a largely minority setting, about 3/4 of my clients at work are AA...I'm confronted every day with acknowledging my privilege, and it's eye opening to see it even extend outside the bounds of legality.

Kudos to the ladies who posted on here, bc (and they know this) they run the risk of alienating as many white hobbyists as the minority hobbyists they gain. Sad but true. But what they are doing is right.

[Guest090620-1]

Let a man be judged not by the color of his skin, but the content of his character! I agree with several statements here. Most of the ones who are trouble can't make it thru screening and I've also had more problem clients from white men than from any other races. I don't however see Hispanics. Call me racist of you want but the language barrier is simply too much for my patience as I don't just give out my address. If I can't direct you thru my apartment complex, there's no way we can meet up. Every girl is different. Some just have a preference. Others simply don't want to go thru any trouble. Doesn't mean it's always fair but at the end of the day. We have to choose the clients we feel comfortable with. I think all of you ladies would agree we don't just see any guy who claims to have a couple bucks. We've got to weed out the assholes and TRY to protect ourselves. Just because a man is black doesn't mean he is a bad client. There are good ones out there, if you're willing to give them a chance.

[Tempstress Tiff]

Me one

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

"Brothas" are welcomed here.
Funny tho as a provider that does NOT have an anti-minority policy of any kind the requests I get from black men (or other men of color for that matter) are kinda rare.

[Guest030817]

We are all entitled to our preferences. Unfortunately, life experience may tell more about you than you know. As mentioned, screening on reputation is what matters to me. I have not and will not be taken advantage of by any race, so unless I want to list a bunch of if, maybe and so's on my site it's irrelevant. I screen hard and by a gifted intuition. Passing my litmus test can be more impossible for some than changing the color of their skin.

Peace, Love and Joy to all.

[Kitana]

Just as long as you are Respectful, Clean and Treat me as you would like to be treated then Race isn't a issues at all I have a very good client right now who when we first met was so surprised I'd see him and didn't turn him away once he came to see me.... Now some have the issue with size which I'm a Mutt what I like to call it and black men are not the only one's with big packages if your blessed then Race is not what gave you your blessing size doesn't matter to me I'm more of mind and body kinda spirit we all like what we like right some of us use that in this business and I don't normally like to date black men but I do if there is an attraction my mind and body goes to what I like....

[Kitana]

Ladies I Put In A Request If You Would Go Check It Out It's For The Client I Just Spoke About Please Let me Know He Is Worth It If You Can Handle It