question for those who enjoy toys for boys

[maxgame2]

Originally Posted by spicyzoey

You need a curved toy or fingers for a prostate orgasm! Most of all you need to be able to relax into the sensation. Many find it intensely overwhelming at first. Not painful, just... different!

Well how well versed in this are you? Hmmmm are your fingeres curved ?

[hairyhoudini]

Zoey is right. A little prep on your part and girl that knows what she is doing is what you need. Oh and spend a little more for more time. Welcome to the dark side.

[houston_switch]

EW
You like lots of other things too...
Stay well.
h_s

[mesquite]

Wow, first of all thank all of you for your replies. Second of all damn, I never thought of so many possible activities. Too bad Texas is so far away, it seams to me that is where the majority of the kinky beautiful women are.

[Zoey Zacquery]

Just a note: your sphincters are actually rings of muscle which must be in control of their own stretching rather than being stretched by a third party. Therefore what you're really doing is getting them "warmed up" so you're not suddenly unable to relax when you're on the clock with your lady of choice. The more recently you warmed up those muscles, the easier it will be to open you back up again. So how recently you warm up is simply a matter of preference on your part. If you want her to bend you over and do you as soon as she walks in the room, you better have a good size plug in when she gets there! Otherwise whether you warmed up an hour ago or three hours ago, you'll have done yourself a favor and everything will be easier when she is working you open...

Also, there are kinky women everywhere! This site is just used by lots of providers in Texas. I think in Colorado all the action is split up between a bunch of different boards. I know a lady in Denver if you ever need a recommendation!

[ElisabethWhispers]

I'm sure Colorado has wonderful ladies to explore with, too. You'll just have to ferret them out.

[mojoman]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

I'm sure Colorado has wonderful ladies to explore with, too. You'll just have to ferret them out.

Now THAT is kinky

[mm-good]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

An Hitachi wand on your taint while getting teased by experienced hands.

A vibrating egg.

Nice shibari rope to tie up your testicles. Some men really like the way that this feels.

Electricity. Men tend to love it or hate it.

Sounds.

Good ole' fashioned flogging. (You use something that could be considered a toy!

Teeth scrapping up and down your cock.

Teasing and getting you to a point of excitement and then not letting you orgasm.

And if a strap on isn't for you then perhaps a smaller finger might be?

That's all that I can think of this late afternoon.

Gosh ... I love a thread drift! (Yes. They're allowed in this forum. I like freeflowing sexual speak!!!)

Elisabeth

These please!!

[DallasRain]

quote---
An Hitachi wand on your taint while getting teased by experienced hands....CHECK!

Good ole' fashioned flogging. (You use something that could be considered a toy!...CHECK!

Teasing and getting you to a point of excitement and then not letting you orgasm...CHECK!

And if a strap on isn't for you then perhaps a smaller finger might be?...CHECK on both!

LUV IT!!!!!

[mm-good]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

quote---
An Hitachi wand on your taint while getting teased by experienced hands....CHECK!

Good ole' fashioned flogging. (You use something that could be considered a toy!...CHECK!

Teasing and getting you to a point of excitement and then not letting you orgasm...CHECK!

And if a strap on isn't for you then perhaps a smaller finger might be?...CHECK on both!

LUV IT!!!!!

Looking forward to your visit !!

[JessicaKnightly]

Originally Posted by jimmylbob

I have tried strap-on and have come to the conclusion it is not for me. What other "toys for boys" should I consider before giving up on BDSM?

For the original question, I agree with the use of a butt plug before the appt.

As for other toys, I have found this to be my secret weapon. http://www.aneros.com/product/helixsyn/

The ones I buy cost me $90, so if a client wants one I can pick one up for him for an extra $100.

[Zoey Zacquery]

I love the Helix Syn too! That one is great because it is designed to stay in really well during "other activities". It's great for putting into someone and then going out to dinner! Every time the guy squeezes his sphincter muscles, the toy rocks forward and stimulates the prostate. So he can control the pace of his own stimulation while he... does other stuff!

Not the best toy for a guy who wants to experience a lady's active technique, as it's simply a slip-in and go situation where the guy must control his own stimulation. Many guys forget it's even inside them and forget to stimulate themselves until I devilishly remind them. Totally perfect for someone who wants a little prostate stim as the icing on the cake to other activities, though!

[Suess4002]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

quote---
An Hitachi wand on your taint while getting teased by experienced hands....CHECK!

Good ole' fashioned flogging. (You use something that could be considered a toy!...CHECK!

Teasing and getting you to a point of excitement and then not letting you orgasm...CHECK!

And if a strap on isn't for you then perhaps a smaller finger might be?...CHECK on both!

LUV IT!!!!!

All I can say is GOD DAMN!!!