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Originally Posted by babee
Just happened y'day:
Me: Hello?
Female; <My real name>
Me: (eyebrows raised) Hello?
Female: <My real name>
Me: (whothefuckisthis?) Hello?
Female: This is Lori (batshitcrazy) <last name>, so&so's wife.
NOW - this guy's wife popped him like three years ago. He left his IM on ...and it was not good. She found his hobby acct, went to a local board that he was a "big dawg' on, read his posts & reviews....then called the last girl he reviewed, asked her if she knew so&so, idiot provider thought wifey was a provider asking for a ref and gave the wife a good reference. This crazee ass heifer tried to contact every woman her hubby had seen. This was THREE years ago. For three years she has been calling one of my girls..over shit that happened 3&4 years ago. Can you imagine this poor bastard's life? Just crazee.
Suddenly, after all this time....she calls me.
Say what you want - but I am not paid to put up with your batshitcrazy SO. When you give meeting details, my name, my family info etc...you broke confidence. Not me. And I ain't the one. No sirree...
Crazy ass is NOT going to call MY phone, tell me (tell me me!) that I am not going to hang up on her, tell me what I am or am not going to do? The fk? I aint the one.
I didn't go into any damned cover story. Told her flatout she had no biz contacting me & if she rang my phone again, it'd be harassment and hung up.
3 voicemails later of her threatening me, my kids - MY KIDS, my job and her home county Sheriff Department had enough evidence to call her dingbat ass and let her know; Yes, I can and will have her charged with harassment if she contacts me or mine again. Her name, my name and a complaint are lodged. One more contact and yes...she gets arrested and yes, I have no problem doing that.
Why providers put up with this nonsense is beyond me, cause..damn straight..I aint the one.
This situation was actually my whole reason for deciding not to ask for or give refs over the phone.
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This is a sick woman. I certainly understand if she is upset--but that anger should be directed at HIM. For her to temporarilly reflect some of that on the ladies involved is understandable though still not right. To keep being this angry at the women after 3+ years seems far beyond reasonable. To EVER bring a lady's children into it is evil.
