Threats from Client's Wife...Help?

[Rockelle]

I just got an email in my yahoo email inbox from the wife of one of my regular clients. She apparently has gotten into his email and he obviously wasn't bright enough to DELETE our correspondence, including some photos I sent him. Here is the message I got just a few minutes ago:

"I know your in ****** and you have a reg JOB I will find you no matter how much money or time it takes and everyone will know your a cheap ass trick for 150 and if your kids go to school in ******* every PTA mom will know what you are already printed the pics those will go up 2 WORRY BITCH YOU SHOULD BE"

I have family on the particular PTA to which she is referring, and I am not sure what, if anything I should do.

I'm just wondering if anyone has any experience in this type of thing....

[London Rayne]

Just another stupid hobbyist who not only asks for pics, but probably emailed you from his home computer that his wife can put spyware on...and they worry about US not deleting their info lol.

Honey, you should never send pictures...ever, because now this woman knows who you are and where you live. I am guessing you sent face shots too? I was actually just saying something about this the other day, on what "could" happen. Not much you can do but not respond to her. Block her emails. If she goes psycho, call the freaking cops! They don't care what you do on the side if you are reporting a crime at the time...you're not tricking at the time you report her for stalking you, so they won't care. Been there done that. They don't care what you do if some crazy whore is after you!

[Guest041413-2]

Originally Posted by Rockelle

I just got an email in my yahoo email inbox from the wife of one of my regular clients. She apparently has gotten into his email and he obviously wasn't bright enough to DELETE our correspondence, including some photos I sent him. Here is the message I got just a few minutes ago:

"I know your in ****** and you have a reg JOB I will find you no matter how much money or time it takes and everyone will know your a cheap ass trick for 150 and if your kids go to school in ******* every PTA mom will know what you are already printed the pics those will go up 2 WORRY BITCH YOU SHOULD BE"

I have family on the particular PTA to which she is referring, and I am not sure what, if anything I should do.

I'm just wondering if anyone has any experience in this type of thing....

(read this post and learn the fuck how to behave in these circs: http://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=1841639#post1841639)
To speak of your "regular" client in this demeaning manner...that is low class. Poor smuck probably valued every moment of discourse between the two of you (hint: that's why he saved everything, low class)...little did he know what he really was working with. You want sympathy and you speak of a hobby brethren like this...FUCK You, and I hope you get everything coming at you.

We've all been in this position at some point. Don't act brand new. You are not a tribute to the hobby/provider world .

My babe is a tribute to this beautiful world though!...Damn, I'm glad I never wasted my time nor hard earned $$$ with your low class ass. If you get any sympathy, it won't be from Houston. We role hard in Htown.

[London Rayne]

WTF....HE is the dumb azz who left his freaking PC wide open and she is low class for calling the idiot on it? I have fkin heard it all! You must be him lol or there would not be so much anger in your post. Here's a clue...DON'T USE YOUR HOME COMPUTER!!! At the very least, have the freaking COMMON SENSE to delete the emails. It makes no difference WHY he saved this crap...he is MARRIED with a wife to think about!

It is NOT the provider's problem after you leave dude! YOU are responsible for hiding your own dirty secrets! We do our part, do yours! You want discretion? Look in the mirror! I am sick to death of getting phishing spam from all the idiots who are too stupid to take me off a contact list of a dead email! Dayum...some guys are their own worst enemies, and you want to gripe about providers not being discreet...wtf ever!

The fact you are even typing this crap to her is beyond ludicrous. Such a stand up guy you must be to wish harm on a woman and her children for what YOUR BRO did! Pathetic! I hope his wife beats the fk out of him and you too lol!

[FK]

Rockelle, Ignore the wife. Never Ever Respond. Delete. Just Delete.
Any kind of response is an admission.

All is fair in love and war. How ironic you have that on your profile.

How is Rockelle or any other provider expected to control what the gentleman does when he is away from her, regular or not; and vice versa as well?

"I am an adult and I knew when I began to hobby this could be an end result. I made the decision to hobby. The ladies did not make it for me. I am responsible for my own actions and no one else. For me to try and place the blame on anyone else does not fly."

The quoted words above are not my words but from a hobbyist I knew in the past who spoke these very words to me when he contacted me to let me know that his wife had found out he was hobbying. He was a true gentleman who took his medicine and didn't try to get someone else to take it for him.

[Guest041413-2]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

WTF....HE is the dumb azz who left his freaking PC wide open and she is low class. I have fkin heard it all! You must be him lol or there would not be so much anger in your post. Here's a clue...DON'T USE YOUR HOME COMPUTER!!! At the very least, have the freaking COMMON SENSE to delete the emails. It makes no difference WHY he saved this crap...he is MARRIED with a wife to think about! It is NOT the provider's problem after you leave dude! YOU are responsible for hiding your own dirty secrets! We do our part, do yours! You want discretion? Look in the mirror!

If your avatar weren't so damn sexy, I would argue this point. But, I do have to say, my avatar is sexier. Now, we can argue that point. How about some sensual wrestling?

LR, I will never offend you (too damn sexy). I was just commenting on her disparaging remarks regarding her ManWhore.

Sorry I offended you. I apologize to you only, not her. Bye babe. Damn, I can't wait 'til Melody is back in Houston. I need to work out some aggression in a most sensual manner.

[Rockelle]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Just another stupid hobbyist who not only asks for pics, but probably emailed you from his home computer that his wife can put spyware on...and they worry about US not deleting their info lol.

Honey, you should never send pictures...ever, because now this woman knows who you are and where you live. I am guessing you sent face shots too? I was actually just saying something about this the other day, on what "could" happen. Not much you can do but not respond to her. Block her emails. If she goes psycho, call the freaking cops! They don't care what you do on the side if you are reporting a crime at the time...you're not tricking at the time you report her for stalking you, so they won't care. Been there done that. They don't care what you do if some crazy whore is after you!

He is the only guy I sent pictures to. I was brand spanking new at the time, and didn't really have anyone to tell me all this stuff. I am hoping she is just freaking out and angry, and will realize that to out me is to out him. She doesn't know exactly where I live or anything like that.


I won't even bother to reply to Mr Butthurt up there. I am new. I made a newbie mistake, but this guy is a veteran, and he will always have a very special place with me as he was one of my favorite clients. HOWEVER, I don't care how much you like me, delete, delete, delete. Genuine care and concern mixed with common sense would have someone protect that which he hold so dear.


Thank you, London for reaffirming that I am not insane. I made a dumb, rookie mistake, but I am no dummy, and I am a great provider. My clients love me and I love them. Even the not so bright ones. I am actually worried about him at the moment, but don't really have the mental capacity to facilitate the worry right now.

[London Rayne]

You are about to get an azz whooping dude...I'm just saying. This guy was a freaking idiot, and it's not her fault! SHE did her part and it was not HER computer that was left open and found by her husband or SO was it? Stupid men need to stick with match.com. This place is for professionals!

If he had no more respect for his wife than this, he deserves what he gets...period! Smart men who love their wives usually don't fk up this way. They go through great lengths to make sure their secret stays that way.

Honey, many providers send pics...MANY, so don't beat yourself up for that. He still should have had the common freaking sense to delete that crap. I mean a spank bank file on your home pc dude...wtf grow up!

[lisa.lisa0302]

So she is low class because her client got caught. His SO threaten her, not the other way around. Not sure what I would do in the position though.

[Anita Lay]

DON'T, DON'T, DON'T SEND OUT PICTURES AND ENTERTAIN EMAILS...
I understand sending a provider reference info but any paper trails will come back to bite you. OMG....
The only way she would know if you had kids and a real job is through correspondance of emails with that info...
You can tell her you are on adult friend finder and you had no idea he was married and they must have took your advertising and stuck it on some escort site or something. Get dumb acting real QUICK.

[Guest041413-2]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

You are about to get an azz whooping...I'm just saying. This dude was a freaking idiot, and it's not her fault! SHE did her part and it was not HER computer that was left open and found by her husband or SO was it? Stupid men need to stick with match.com. This place is for professionals!

If he had no more respect for his wife than this, he deserves what he gets...period! Smart men who love their wives usually don't fk up this way. They go through great lengths to make sure their secret stays that way.

I like you LR. You just earned a special place in my nasty, debauched and depraved but sensual, remember, very sensual heart.

You are one cool Lady. Ever in Houston, please let me know. My babe knows I am "deranged" and she is cool if I stray!

[Chica Chaser]

Keep your local issues and disputes in your local forums. Stop with the name-calling and disrespect.
I'm happy to dish out the points for those that can't follow the board guidelines, feel free to challenge that stance. Your choice.

[London Rayne]

Get off my azz and back on topic! Yea, I just love Texas...ask anyone heh.

I think her not responding is the best thing to do. If the other woman wants to nut up, call the freaking po po.

[Rockelle]

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Keep your local issues and disputes in your local forums. Stop with the name-calling and disrespect.
I'm happy to dish out the points for those that can't follow the board guidelines. Your choice.

Thank you. I wasn't trying to disrespect anyone. I only posted here to get a broader range of input. My local boards are fairly skimpy, and don't get a lot of feedback on the threads.

[Guest041413-2]

Originally Posted by Rockelle

Thank you. I wasn't trying to disrespect anyone. I only posted here to get a broader range of input. My local boards are fairly skimpy, and don't get a lot of feedback on the threads.

I meant zero offense to you Rockelle as I don't know you. I just know us guys do some stupid shit out of luve. Sorry too you are dealing with the wifey...that's worse than...

But, back to the hijack part, LR you like TEX huh? Come my way, and we will have a tustle for sure. Don't come this way girl...Don't do it, don't, don't okay but I warned you! I like your spunk, oh and your ass too!