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gimme_that · 04-01-2010, 08:19 AM

Need help ladies and gents. What is the most efficient and safe way to secure a prepay booking with a possibly touring provider who has a good reputation via a myraid of websites... not TOFTTS but the verified ladies.

The only ones I can think of include real world info to some extent.....but I want to at least discuss viable options.

Western union needs a real name.....but a 3rd party could help?

Loading a card is cool but still real world info is needed to do it in a way......
There are the best I have. With ATFs and utr ladies real world info has not been an issue on both sides for me and her.

PAYPAL is not an option. ANYONE can add pros and cons to these or others please.

Guest032514-1 · 04-01-2010, 10:53 AM

I don't see the issue? Does she have a already? Get a refill pack.

Go into walgreens. Buy the refill card. Add up top 500 at the register. Use cash to pay. Take the refill card and the 2 receipts and email her the reload numbers or call and give them to her.

Buying a - basic same deal (same cost). Just give her all the numbers and hand her the card you bought when you meet. SHE registers the card, not you.

go dot sweetie.

causewaycommuter · 04-01-2010, 12:46 PM

Could you also get on of those prepaid credit cards at Walmart? If she wants $$ paid up front, then only put $$ on the card and give her the number? Or if she has a credit card, could you transfer the funds to her account?

HSP · 04-02-2010, 03:13 AM

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Originally Posted by causewaycommuter

Could you also get on of those prepaid credit cards at Walmart? If she wants $$ paid up front, then only put $$ on the card and give her the number? Or if she has a credit card, could you transfer the funds to her account?

I would say the Wal-Mart cards are the best. Easy to get, and easy to use.

gimme_that · 04-03-2010, 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by babee

go dot sweetie.

This seems to be a very good option you provided thus far. Thanks.

gimme_that · 04-03-2010, 10:14 PM

There is more info about plus and minuses of cards here if anyone needed this in the future.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?p=218097

Guest030911 · 04-03-2010, 11:04 PM

Prepay???? That goes against the hobbyists laws and credos. On some websites, you could get court-martialed for seditious ideas like that.

Why would you want to prepay and why not use cash on the spot ?

mrbig2284 · 04-04-2010, 02:00 AM

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Prepay???? That goes against the hobbyists laws and credos. On some websites, you could get court-martialed for seditious ideas like that.

thats right.... if my references aint gone get her done then she just wont get done. i dont work hard for mey money,but that dont mean i wanna take a chance and have someone take it from me. if i got to prepay then it should be ok for me to keep the real money in my pocket and pay in person with the FAMOUS WHITE ENVOLOPE full of news paper,and if she dont check the donation before i leave ...then were even right? to hell with that prepay idea..... i would rather just call DALLAS and pay in person

gimme_that · 04-04-2010, 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by cpi3000

Prepay?...why not use cash on the spot?

The main reason is because Im attempting to book an overnight appt. with a lady in another state for less than about 20 percent of her overall fee. That percentage covers her travel expenses in advance, which wouldnt exceed many ladies regional hourly rates here and then some, so its a relatively small risk to reward issue 4 me although riskier on my part. More so for her of course to limit the chance of a ncns and for me to see a lady in an area where typically great ladies I seek are scarce.
Does that in a way change your stance, or would it still be a NO-GO even then?
I can honestly say some HDH's and porn stars require prepay to solidify bookings. However Im not a proponent R avid supporter of paying N advance N general. Dis was only reserved 4 ladies who were reputable, verified, N not advertized 4 touring my city @ any future time dat I desired 2c. No other scenerio would qualify in my eyes. Im still in the club lol.

SkipperRon · 04-04-2010, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by gimme_that

...Does that in a way change your stance, or would it still be a NO-GO even then?...

Is it POSSIBLE for a pre-paid arrangement to eventually work out - sure.

But there are so many stories and experiences about such deals going sour that IMHO prepaid should be included in the 'hobbyiest guide to the galaxy' as a NEVER (!!!)

gimme_that · 04-04-2010, 09:44 AM

I whole heartededly agree. But there is accountability on both sides too. If I prepay and get *ucked figuratively instead of literally I wont have a pity party but I will inform you guys who it was given sufficient amount of time for her to save face. I wouldnt post it as an alert because I knew the risk, but I would post a respectful Coed thread inquiry on her lack of intregrity about said provider if it was the case....whiteknights posting there would not discourage me as long as I was at least accountable for what I said.

Although I could understand if a gent would decide not to post. If she has screening info on you thats tied to your real world info I could understand guys posting late saying things like "she messed me over six months ago." But I'm sure there is a precentage of guys here including myself that wouldnt understand the lapse in time. Most info like that Id share backchannel anyway depending on what she knows about me. The info will get around but its usually slow for those reasons,

laoilman · 04-04-2010, 10:42 AM

There is NO reason for a provider to know anything about my personal life. I will not give out any personal information for any reason. If that's a requirement I will just move on. As far as pay in advance it's definately a risk and each has to evaluate that risk for himself as to worth, but realize it's a risk. Actually, if you think about it, it's still a risk if you hand her the cash. If she is a provider you haven't seen you really don't know what you're going to get for your money, but I guess you will get something.

Guest032514-1 · 04-04-2010, 07:00 PM

It is common for ladies who classify themselves as "Companions", "Courtesans' and "Escorts" to request a deposit on a higher dollar appointment. Espeically with a new client and if she is travelling specifically to meet you. If it's not something you are interested in, then of course, respectfully pass.

There are many ladies who only do longer appointments 4+ hours. Generally, when you are talking overnights (8+ hours), a deposit is requested. Again, if it's not your thing, nobody is forcing you.

The other benefit is when you are talking possibly thousands of dollars, (at least 1k?), it's just prudent to NOT have that large of an amount in cash on your person, in the room etc.

I hope you have a wonderful time GT.

Jacquie · 04-05-2010, 10:48 AM

Agreed with Babee.

Prepaid arrangements have worked out swimmingly with me. I don't do them often. But, it is an uncomfortable risk to have that much money with you for an extended period of time.