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Old 12-28-2016, 06:14 PM   #1
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Default Watersports - How to broach with provider

I'm looking for advice on how to broach the subject with providers. I'm interested in them receiving. Almost no one advertises this and although I did get some responses from an ISO in the end they flake out. Since urine is sterile, this seems like a much safer activity than a lot of other things that routinely are done, so I'm curious as to why it isn't more popular (especially since it is increasing popularity in porn even in the US - in Europe it's pretty much a standard activity). Thoughts? BTW, located in DFW.
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Old 12-28-2016, 08:58 PM   #2
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The fact that a small percentage of companions who enjoy watersports are open to receiving is something that I've also observed. Unfortunately, I don't know if I have any solid advice to offer on how to broach the topic with a provider who isn't already open to being the one showered instead of or in addition to the one on the giving end. Personally, I love both roles and I've had such mesmerizing mutual piss play encounters which were preceded by other types of kinky experiences. A golden shower is such a deeply intimate ritual which can really take a date to a whole other level.

My suggestion would be to post another ISO. From my times visiting Dallas throughout this year, I did note that some of the ladies there can be glib with their ISO responses. But perhaps if you make a post that is a little more thorough and fleshed out (like your above post here in Another Realm), you might attract some ladies who are actually passionate about receiving your fresh nectar. As opposed to ladies who are making a knee-jerk post just for the purpose of responding to any ol' ISO.

Once you get some responses, I'd suggest checking out each provider's post history and website to see how often, if at all, she has referenced or hinted at being open to watersports. If she hasn't it's either because she may be hesitant to speak openly about those desires or she may not be super into it.
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Old 12-28-2016, 09:32 PM   #3
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I'm not real sure I understand the problem. This whole board seems to be about fulfilling desires. Why should this topic be any harder to talk to a provider about than (insert any other kink here)?
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Here's a unique approach: Ask!
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Just do a search on this site for watersports or golden showers and see what pops up.
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What I'm gathering from reading between the lines is that providers will respond to him then, when it's time to set things up or maybe during the date, they back out. Being down to be showered with warm pee is more niche than giving a blow job. Golden showers are considered to be at least a little taboo and some may think it's a humiliating or gross activity. Even in BDSM communities, many folks aren't into watersports and if they are, they don't fancy being on the receiving end. A provider always has the right to change her mind. Also if a she's not into it, it doesn't make sense for her to try to fool herself nor consume the OP's time.
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What I'm gathering from reading between the lines is that providers will respond to him then, when it's time to set things up or maybe during the date, they back out. Being down to be showered with warm pee is more niche than giving a blow job. Golden showers are considered to be at least a little taboo and some may think it's a humiliating or gross activity. Even in BDSM communities, many folks aren't into watersports and if they are, they don't fancy being on the receiving end. A provider always has the right to change her mind. Also if a she's not into it, it doesn't make sense for her to try to fool herself nor consume the OP's time.

Well put, and that sometimes goes for anything from meeting up, to the activities themselves.
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. . . I'm curious as to why it isn't more popular
Really? I have a pretty good idea. Yes, to each his own; but I can see where there would be a very limited number of "takers" on this one. Frankly, I've not ever been moved to try it. I've thrown-up on a few people, though . . . mostly by accident. I found no sexual satisfaction in it, but it has made for a few good stories.

As far as broaching the subject with a provider, I'd suggest "Hey, mind if I pee on ya?" or "Hey, would ya mind peein' on me?", depending on your, er, perspective.
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I think what would be better is to have a session with someone who could be open to water sports but have the first session not have that included, or maybe even a paid coffee date, I myself have thought about offering it since I pee in the shower anyway lol.
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Urine is only sterile until it hits the air. I myself don't mind giving or getting a golden shower but the face is a no go lol.
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^^^^^ I totally agree; I prefer one's pee to land below my neck. Kneeling down and looking at the clear stream showering my breasts is my fave.
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^^^^^ I totally agree; I prefer one's pee to land below my neck. Kneeling down and looking at the clear stream showering my breasts is my fave.
Damn Lena you make it sound like an art form. It's something I enjoy watching on vids but have yet to try it, giving or receiving. It's on my sexual bucket list though.
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Old 01-10-2017, 04:17 PM   #14
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Find a provider who is fairly adventurous. Invest time and see them often. You will start to develope some mutual trust. Then after you have developed that trust ask for some of your more unusual fantasies. Works much better than can I pee on you.
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:08 AM   #15
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Gordo == There's an on-going thread here where several lovely providers in your area talk openly about enjoying both I suggest you contact them.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1535399
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