I don't think you'll truly receive the *honest feedback* your seeking.
Why? Because the ladies that choose not to see black me or certain men of other races. Do so for their own *personal*
reason. And such those reasons may hit a very personal haunting nerve that may dig up some very personal tragedy in their lives. And speaking out as to why they've made the choice of whom they choose not to see. Simply isn't something they'd wish to do. No is it's anyone's business to know why! Therefore, it's best that folks stop standing in judgment of the why. And respect their decision.
All these threads, harking on women who don't see black men, is petty. This hobby is about personal interaction behind LOCKED
doors with another human being (a stranger) and if a lady says *I don't wish to see black men* then there's a damn good reason a reason NO ONE should question. Let alone tell her she's wrong.
Her *choice* is NO different than men who choose to see certain types & races of women. It's called *personal choice for a reason* and folks need to let it go already!
Originally Posted by Fine_Wine
Nobody's justifying anything here. No one is saying discrimination is OK as long as you have your reasons. I'm trying to open up an honest discussion and better understand why some providers have this policy. I'm not here to judge anybody or talk about fairness or right vs. wrong. Your turning this into an ethical issue Anita and that's not what this is.