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Originally Posted by pyramider
What I was getting at without stating it, a better strategy would be to rise above the perceived slight and move on. She lashed out, which is rarely a good strategy plus she should have received points for it.
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And he should receive none for showing a disregard for her as an individual, who's only intent was to be pleasant? Maybe the almighty hobbyists should set examples a little better than he did, rather than gather around and pat each other on the back.
You're a unique fella, kinda likable to most, and seem kinda harmless. However, tit for tat, ya know? As stated, you can wrap a turd in a pretty package, but that in no way makes it a more pleasant gift to open, than if presented less artistically. Sticks and stones may break some bones, but words can never hurt? Bologna! He should be pointed for indicating her value is less because he doesn't like something. His words may very well be the cause of a loss for her. Ya can't have one without the other. Or, maybe if you're an egotistical male, ya can......I dunno.....you tell me.
I told of an incident where a fella "erroniously" placed my name on a list, but it wasn't a list my name should have been on, period! He and I had never met. He was so sorry. And, I agree, he's sorry as any low life I ever encountered. I lost clients and had to put up with a bunch of idiots who misunderstood the situation. Not only that, but this idiot was eager to see me, before he understood that I knew it was him that put my name on a list. He can take his sorry and stick it where the sun don't shine, cause him being sorry, cost me biz. His words might as well have been, his hand in my purse. Because as far as I'm concerned, he's no better than a thief. He stole the truth from me, and my truths have monetary value. There is nothing in this illusionary world, that is truer than that. So, don't even go there about what words can do or not, or even the ones chosen. If they are hateful and slanderous, then they are hateful slanderous, regardless of their sound.
So yeah, if anyone holds her responsible, they need to hold him responsible. Period. I and others gotta take care of our biz and be responsible and own our actions, and every gent here should be held accountable when his actions are inappropriate and cause damage. If you are a coward and don't take responsibility, then do yo thing, coward. I don't let "good ole boys" decide my fate, how I should behave, respond to others, or even tell me what "My Job" is. I work......for "ME". I play with the gents, I don't WORK FOR them. I clearly understand how to take responsibility for my decisions, words , and actions. Many here, do not and think that's A-OK.
He got way less than he had coming to him, as far as I'm concerned. Just because we communicate differently, doesn't mean I don't agree with her 100% and then some. Do I hate the guy, no. But, I sure don't want to see someone who is a turd himself, no matter how polished his wrapped words are, get away with provoking and insulting another. Apparently, you do. Try not to worry with our strategy....stick to taint. It works for you, hon.
I am not angry, a drama queen, or a less than educated woman with no life experience, and I'll never be a "Yes" girl and allow men who pay for sex, tell me what the appropriate behavior, words, or actions are concerning "my strategy". I see men who can see thru the muck. So, thanks, but no thanks. Men don't own my biz, or any independent ladies here. They are gents looking to have some some fun and I can provide that, no problem. It's when they start stepping on mine and other ladies ability to do so, I start yelling, party foul! And there's a whole lotta that going on, so hey boys and girls......PARTY FOUL! LOL
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