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Old 10-27-2012, 12:36 PM   #1
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Default Submissive Providers: More Difficult?

I was just browsing model portfolios on a well known civilian site and came across a couple of ladies with photos of themselves in restraints in their portfolios.

A common theme at that site is that ladies who pose nude, even many who don't insist on bringing an "escort" to the shoot. This is understandable of course, but it's something a provider simply can not do.

Being physically restrained obviously makes an encounter potentially more dangerous. I'm sure the ladies who play this way screen more than most, but how can they advertize? I think I've only see one or two photos in my years here and on the old board of providers restrained.

Just curious. . . now back to your regularly scheduled debauchery.
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Old 10-27-2012, 03:17 PM   #2
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It all begins with trust on both sides.........
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Old 10-27-2012, 03:32 PM   #3
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Are you wanting a female sub?
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Old 10-27-2012, 03:54 PM   #4
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Are you wanting a female sub?
Just curious really.
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Old 10-29-2012, 02:53 PM   #5
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D&S is all about exchanging power, and for that to happen, trust must be established. That's one reason that I consider P4P D&S to be more "D&S lite" - I don't see how the required level of trust for an intense scene can develop or the course of an hour or two.

That being said, I've been fortunate enough to play with a handful of providers who were delightful little subbies, even on our first encounter. I hope they're very good judges of character, and not just making risky decisions.
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Old 11-05-2012, 04:02 PM   #6
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I am looking for a female sub.
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Old 11-05-2012, 07:40 PM   #7
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blowpop...
If you play with the same provider multiple times, you can develop a relationship where power exchange and trust is heightened.
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Old 11-06-2012, 11:24 AM   #8
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I don't think I would ever feel that much trust with a client.
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Old 11-06-2012, 11:27 AM   #9
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Head down and ass up is enough submissiveness for me. Lol just thought I would add that's her ass up and not me before you started the jokes.
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Old 11-06-2012, 12:58 PM   #10
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A Provider turning her back towards me so that I can doggy her pussy or ass is about all the trust I expect regarding a business transaction.
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Old 11-06-2012, 03:24 PM   #11
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if i can get one to do the pornstar drool Im happy.
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Old 11-06-2012, 05:50 PM   #12
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Tempted to sell my S&M kit in a garage sell might be valuable that way.
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