Married, Divorced or Never-Married

[anaximander]

Been married now 21 years.
That isn't going to change.
Messing around is just that.
If she was taking care of business.....

Yeah, I'm a lying, decietful, manipulative, cheating,
asshole weasel-- so fuggin what. I do what I do
for pure selfish pleasure. The SO has dibs,
she just likes going 3-4 days between sessions.
Twice a week? Wtf? It ain't gonna last forever.

I will much prefer lamenting what I did in this life,
than regretting what I didn't do.

[London Rayne]

Well...at least you're honest about it and don't use the sad story bs to justify it. Bravo!

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

C,

That is not true. Maybe that is true with you but not to others.
A woman that puts a man/love before her child is an unfit mother. Period.

Anyways...back on topic, I don't care whether the guy is married or not. However, if he's super hot and
single like some of the guys I met in NYC ... makes for a good daydream and ego boost :-).

A child always comes first. No exceptions. No explaining it away. They should be the most important thing in your life. PERIOD!

[anaximander]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Well...at least you're honest about it and don't use the sad story bs to justify it. Bravo!

Pfft- I can only imagine what lame-o stories
you gotta hear.

This is adultery my love.
No need to tarnish it with self-deception.
I'm in it for the passion- not to cash in.
Lust is too tame a word.
Love isn't quite hot enough.
This is
OBSESSION


...these are the first days of my last days

[London Rayne]

Word!

[Guest020312-2]

I hope to get engaged someday. I would not like to be married unless it was common law from time spent together. I prefer my clients to be married so I don't get the clingers.. The ones who want to talk to you all day everyday. Usually the married ones have other things to do or don't keep their hobby phones on them.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by TabooTanner

I hope to get engaged someday. I would not like to be married unless it was common law from time spent together. I prefer my clients to be married so I don't get the clingers.. The ones who want to talk to you all day everyday. Usually the married ones have other things to do or don't keep their hobby phones on them.

Hey I'm not a clinger. I'm not married. I do love that pic of your ass though.lol

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I'm pretty sure she meant she would "NOT" choose her child over a man. Just saying...

Ahh this was a typo. I meant to say she would not choose a man over her child. I see where I made the mistake readng too fast. My friend London is a wonderful mom. That I know for a fact.

Oh and yah back to the topic, Married guys are easier to deal with because they can't pull that i'm falling in love crap with you.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Ahh this was a typo. I meant to say she would not choose a man over her child. I see where I made the mistake readng too fast. My friend London is a wonderful mom. That I know for a fact.

Oh and yah back to the topic, Married guys are easier to deal with because they can't pull that i'm falling in love crap with you.

I know you did. Shit Naomi I was thinking about marriage. Please excuse me while I go take this ring back.

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

...Oh and yah back to the topic, Married guys are easier to deal with because they can't pull that i'm falling in love crap with you.

And that is why you are such a great hobby wife!!!

[wcdann]

I have been divorced for over 3 years now and i would never think about dateing someone who doesnt put there kids before me plus id never be a clinger and i dont want to fall in love with anyone. Now between my work and raising my kids i dont have time for relationships thats why i became a hobbist. Now if i make some new friends during my hobby time thats great but i wont be calling them 24/7 or anything id respect there privicy

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by anaximander

Been married now 21 years.
That isn't going to change.
Messing around is just that.
If she was taking care of business.....

Yeah, I'm a lying, decietful, manipulative, cheating,
asshole weasel-- so fuggin what. I do what I do
for pure selfish pleasure. The SO has dibs,
she just likes going 3-4 days between sessions.
Twice a week? Wtf? It ain't gonna last forever.

I will much prefer lamenting what I did in this life,
than regretting what I didn't do.

I suspect your wife has the right idea. She turned you over to the providers, let them put up with ya.

[Chica Chaser]

Originally Posted by simpleton

This could be a thread that sparks would fly.

Nope, it won't. Stick to the OP topic, no hijacking. Start a new thread if your want to talk about another subject. This isn't really that difficult of a concept.

[simpleton]

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Nope, it won't. Stick to the OP topic, no hijacking. Start a new thread if your want to talk about another subject. This isn't really that difficult of a concept.

I worded that the wrong way. I didn't mean this thread. Just a thread with that topic. And it's not a hard concept.

[Chica Chaser]

Sorry Simpleton, I wasnt referring to your post in general, just using it to illustrate.