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Originally Posted by pornodave69
Any P411 member with at least a few OK's should not have to divulge any personal information. It defeats the whole purpose of using P411 in the first place. Their system is to verify that the hobbyist is legit and not dangerous based on other providers' experiences. That seems like a more secure and verifiable method of screening than knowing his full name and place of employment or any other screening questions a lady might have with no insight whatsoever as to how he handles himself with a lady.
If you're relying on the OK with the belief that the two of you will be compatible or you'll have a great time or something else, then you're using it wrong. You won't get that info from knowing any personal information either.
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I can't figure out this 'multi quote' function, so I will post twice. Sorry for the inconvenience.
Pornodave, you have to see it from the other side of the fence. First, say a guy has 10 OK's. Who's to say that he has seen 3 or 4 Ladies after that, and has not behaved?? How many Ladies has he seen who have NOT given an OK, for whatever reason. What happens if he misbehaves...what is her recourse? Call up one of his P411 references and yell at her? No. She has no recourse except to blacklist his ass all over the place. She may save another provider down the road, but she has no recourse.
Fortunately, for me, neither P411 or D-C is really 'regional' for me, so I don't get much from it. I WILL, however, offer a free trial to either site if we've met. We all have our own methods a of screening and we all have our own comfort zones and boundaries. For every 10 requests I get, only 3 are 'viable'. The other 7 have no interest in their safety, or mine. That's fine..go find someone else who won't ask for info. They better pray they don't walk into the middle of a sting!
For the most part, my visitors are Military or Businessmen, who have no issue with being screened, and I am told often about how they appreciate my attitude towards who comes to my location. They feel safer, I feel safer. Those who have no issue with a quick discrete call to work know I am serious about discretion and my surroundings, and they like that.
Ladies concerned with safety and discretion have much happier visitors. What can be better than that?
Everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and opinions, but, you know what they say about opinions!!
