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Originally Posted by Savannah Moon
I have to establish a connection with someone..or it just isn't happening.
I have developed friendships guarded of course with some of the people in this industry... some have lasted for 6 years and some have dissipated but I can just kind of Presume that OP is stating that he would like to develop some connections with a few people instead of bouncing all over the board. Perhaps relationship was the wrong term to use.
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I know what you mean. I have only hobbied single, so never worried about blackmail. Over the course of a couple years, spent several $k on a provider. Off the charts IOP from the get go, why I saw her every time she was in town. Eventually started hitting the casino or dinner OTC. Great girl and we got along very well out and about, that is rare. I had no problem telling her who I was and she showed me her DL. Over the 3 yrs it turned into talk of dating and ended up just a deal where she wouldn't let me pay her and we would meet up in CoMo on the couple days she takes off between KC and StL. When she left the hobby, we talked a little about relocating, but were honest that there would be no strings or financial consideration other than sharing expense, just monogamy. Dropped the idea, didn't want to leave my family. You can make good friends. A Monogamous relationship I would think is next to impossible from both sides
