Lana's Original Question
Lana,
This has been a very enlightening thread. Kudos to you for starting it. Kudos to the guys who answered honestly, I would bet that many more did not respond who could have.
As for the thread, I believe that your original question was: "My question to our wonderful gentlemen.......what does it take to feel more confident about yourself?"
Other than jokes, I did not see too much in the way of specific answers to her query. Some guys did admit to some self esteem issues. I admit that I have many of them, too.
To those of you who lack self confidence, is this why you hobby? If so are there any specific providers who make you feel particularly good about yourself and the time that you spend with her?
Maybe we should make a list. In Houston when I first entered the hobby there were a couple of providers (now long gone) who actually advertised that they specialized in guys like us. Unfortunately I was NCNS when I tried to see one of these ladies, so I don't know who accurate her ads were.
If there are special ladies who make you feel oh so good about yourself, what does she/they do that's different than what other ladies do? Or what is different about her manner/method/whatever that sets her apart?
And once you find such a provider, do you see her regularly? Exclusively? Or do you keep playing the field?
For many, especially those suffering a lack of self esteem, I would bet that a large part of the point of seeing ladies is to give pleasure as well as to receive it. Is this one of the hallmarks of those ladies who make you feel better about yourself?
Sorry if I dragged on, but as my handle indicates I am a curious guy and I would love to hear more about this subject.
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