Courtesy maybe

[Diznutz]

I've never really posted anything here unless it's on the ISO thread but providers please finish the conversation if your not willing to see a client. I am a newbie to this site but not the hobby.. I've seen a couple of providers here but have not posted reviews (which I know affects my rep here) but I don't hobby but maybe once or twice every 2 months. I contacted a provider thru pm and "kinda" set a time for a meeting. She asked for a light screening which I perfectly understand and I gave her all the info she asked for. Was she satisfied with that info .. I don't know? she never replied and our meeting time has now passed... She has a number posted on her showcase but not once did I bug her thru her phone. I sent a couple more pms and no answer. Like I said I know am a newbie to the site and not posting reviews can hurt me but I know there are providers out there that are still a lot more easy to get in touch with. I took off of work early even tho she never replied just incase she did at the last minute so id be available and not waste "her" time. This is the second time this is happen.. Am just asking .. Is too hard to send a quick pm to a client and let him know that you will not be seeing him because of whatever reason?

[Dilbertgolf]

My opinion, if she found a reason to not see you, wasn't satisfied with the info you provided for screening or for whatever reason she didn't feel comfortable seeing you, she should have let you know or at least come up with some reason if not just to say "Currently, I am too busy etc". That's common courtesy in my opinion. However, and I'm not saying you are whining about it, you shouldn't have taken off or made extra plans away from work until you got confirmation of an appointment with her. I realize that just further frustrates you. My hobby time is limited so any time I meet a provider I have to schedule it within my working hours etc, so I understand where you're coming from there.

[Diznutz]

Thanks Dilbertgolf... When I wrote this I was a little frustrated but now am over it. I agree you live and you learn and from now on.. I'll be the priority and more careful in how I ago about making decisions that may affect my personal life. I just hope that providers be more courteous about our time as we are of theirs. A simple "too busy" would of been great. She did pm and me and apologize for not reaching out to me earlier.