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Originally Posted by galaxon00
Why do clients and providers put so much time into caring about the drama outside the simple act of making appointments?...
Why do some people on here let the drama effect them personally at the expense of enjoying hobbying?
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I never started out enjoying the drama. And often, I don't like seeing it at all. Sometimes, it's a lot of fun to read and sometimes, participate in. (Shame on me, right?)
But this type of world can be exceptionally personal. Giving of oneself, for whatever reason, is an emotional endeavor.
Although I see dramatics on all different types of boards, I see it more frequently (and with a lot more ugliness) on boards that deal with sexuality and the world's oldest profession.
I'm sure a lot of the negativity also comes from the mixed signals that everyone gives out about this world. The women are filth but we wish to give them our hard earned funds and fuck them.
We love you. You hate us. You love us. You hate everyone else. I love my four legged creatures but often, the two legged ones will cause me a lot of angst. He is great. That one is stinky. She didn't like me. She liked me too much.
All of us can go on and on. It's the human condition.
And you ask why? Surely you know the answer to your question as well as anyone else reading it does.
Best,
Elisabeth