Worth the money?

[likemhot]

Is seeking.com worth the money? I don’t mind spending money if it is worth it.

[Disco Stu]

I’m currently on it. I live in BFE so I pretty much have to search at least a 1.5hr radius to find many.

It’s interesting, especially for those “sugar babies” looking for allowances. I had one that wanted an online relationship that consisted of Venmo’ing her every month for “sexy pics.” That was a hard no. I’ve had some that said they have gotten $4-10k a month allowance for four visits a month. It amazes me that guys would pay that.

Also there are a fair bit of women acting like it’s a dating site.

Pay per meet (PPM) is what your looking for. Most of them are $300+ per meeting.

I’ve had several back out at the last minute which is annoying when you factor in travel time, hotel costs, etc.

Honestly I think it would be easier (and possible cheaper) to go the escort route if you’re just looking for sex. Especially if you live near a city that gets traveling escorts.

[kingly]

It depends really. It's really gone downhill recently in my opinion most are looking for someone to buy content or suffer from gps. But every now and then you find good ones so good you can get it for 100-200 and it's almost always gfe and hardly ever just an hour or qv unless they are professionals. The problem is weeding out the fake profiles, gps, and onlyfans creators to find them. If you live in the middle of nowhere might be worth it but if you live on the coast hattiesburg or jackson probably easier to get a provider than seeking.

[aNameinGulfport]

Depends upon what you want.

One time meet, OMG please don't meet with her again, then skip is your destination.

Create a "relationship", not a real relationship, just a regular enough meet that can be friendly (I got a room at the casino, you wanna play some black jack and then hit the mini bar), then seeking or another similar site is where you want to be.

[okraslayer]

I've had mixed results. Some of them are very new to this and you have to work with a little longer to get them comfortable with yourself and how this can play out. That's more talking online, small dates that end in making out and some intimacy...that eventually leads to what I'm after.

They'll go along with this for a while, then fizzles out or someone comes along offering 6,9 or lots more just to cuddle with them and then back to searching for me lol.

There are some that are in it just for the sex and the $$ is just sort of a side note, 1 or 200 is the most they ask for. They are unicorns in the sea of scams, of girls and over priced penpals.

So as others have mentioned is depends on what you are looking for. If it's a quick chat, meet up and get to business then no this isn't the site for that.

If you like the work and pursuing the girl to a degree to have like one gal you can see consecutively, maybe even be the only guy she does this with.. or least very few , then yeah the site can be fun.

As with everything keep your guard up, don't send deposits, pre pay and other normal stuff.

[Disco Stu]

Has anyone used Secret Benefits instead of Seeking and had much luck?

I’ve heard mixed reviews about it, and I’m not fond of the membership payment structure, but there looks to be a good amount of women on there.