Point of contact.. Please don’t just text with a Hi

[Ultimate Jessica]

I have received text that just say hi or are you available.
If I have never met you please just know that I require the following so that if saves us both time. If we have never met and you cannot provide me with any of the following information after contacting me please don’t waste either of our times.
Thank you so much in advance,
Jessica

Can you tell me a little about yourself?
Username:
Name:
Age:
Height:
Nationality:
Occupation:
Interest and hobbies besides this one:🤣
Current reputable provider references for screening:

[winn dixie]

Tmi

But your rules to see you

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Good luck ..It's like draging out a whole strings of text just to get a Name or handle and city -time and how long of a appt he may want.
I do find guys who are a CEO Or COF-VIP of a company will fill out my screening and make it so easy and screening goes very fast and appt gets set!

The One word Text I just don't Reply!
He is just wasting his time.

[Ultimate Jessica]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

Tmi

But your rules to see you

Thank you for understanding.
It is Less information than p411 is requesting for gentlemen that have to pay to use paid website. I absolutely love P411 and it makes things so much easier for both the ladies and gentlemen to get through the screening process quickly. Just trying to help speed up any screening process that should be done before play therapy.
Xoxo,
Jessica

[Ultimate Jessica]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

Good luck ..It's like draging out a whole strings of text just to get a Name or handle and city -time and how long of a appt he may want.
I do find guys who are a CEO Or COF-VIP of a company will fill out my screening and make it so easy and screening goes very fast and appt gets set!

The One word Text I just don't Reply!
He is just wasting his time.

I completely understand the feeling about having to go back and forth to get what we need for screening and it is exhausting. I was hoping that if they knew what I was needing it will help cut down on that and they will see how quickly the screening can happen with the information needed to get things rolling.

[GuyEatingRice]

OP if you really think about it it's kind of pointless because anyone can just lie or bs most of that information. It's creating a false illusion of security for yourself.

[TalliaThomas]

Originally Posted by GuyEatingRice

OP if you really think about it it's kind of pointless because anyone can just lie or bs most of that information. It's creating a false illusion of security for yourself.

It doesn't take us long to figure out BS information.



Food for thought-- most of us are screening, at a minimum, to make sure we're not likely to leave the appointment in either cuffs or an ambulance. Beyond that-- some screen for compatibility so we aren't wasting your money or our time.

[Ultimate Jessica]

Originally Posted by GuyEatingRice

OP if you really think about it it's kind of pointless because anyone can just lie or bs most of that information. It's creating a false illusion of security for yourself.

When a pm is requested from the username given to me not sure they could lie about that. Same with providing me with current reputable references for I check that they are legit and that the contact information is up to date before reaching out to them for screening with the contact # that is provided to me. Most gentleman I have run across have been honest when it comes to this information so that they too can keep a good reputation in the hobby community..idk

IF YOU THINK YOU CANNOT TRUST A PROVIDER WITH THIS INFORMATION MAYBE YOU SHOULDN’T BE SEEING THAT ONE.

If they can’t be honest It makes it easier to weed out the ones that we prefer not to see..
I hope you have a wonderful day.
Thanks for understanding.
Xoxo,
Jessica

[DallasBella]

Yes. This is why I have pre-typed canned intro messages stating my rates location availability. And another canned pre-typed message that requests the screening information. I like to get straight to the point whether someone is serious or not.

[IrishSailor]

Sadly, my circumstances have kept me out of the game for a while now, but this was my standard text to a lady I was meeting for the first time.

Hello! My handle on the boards is IrishSailor. I'm interested in booking an appointment for an hour of your time on (date and time here) for an hour, possibly two. I'm a 46 y/o white male and my references are (provider name & provider name.) If you cannot meet on that day and time, please propose an alternate day/time and I'll see if I can move my schedule around to accommodate you. Thank you, I look forward to meeting you in person. In the meantime, have a pleasant day.

Now, at the moment, I don't have any current references. As I said, I've been out of the game for a minute. So, I would instead ask, "As I do not have any current references, do you have an alternate screening method with which I could satisfy your screening requirements and help you feel safe? If not, I completely understand. I won't reach out again until I can satisfy your requirements.

When I'm with one of you, I want to be treated well. Why would I start off by making you annoyed with me?

[ahab11]

Originally Posted by GuyEatingRice

OP if you really think about it it's kind of pointless because anyone can just lie or bs most of that information. It's creating a false illusion of security for yourself.

My favorite fake identity is Art Van Delay, CEO of Van Delay Industries. We manufacture latex, but I'm really an Architect and former Marine Biologist. Katie Cumms called me out on it and we had a good laugh.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica

I completely understand the feeling about having to go back and forth to get what we need for screening and it is exhausting. I was hoping that if they knew what I was needing it will help cut down on that and they will see how quickly the screening can happen with the information needed to get things rolling.

Yes but they can't even read a full ad to know what they need to send or what we need as screening if by email or text.
Can Have Red Flashing Light's on your ad they still can't read a full ad lol

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by IrishSailor

Sadly, my circumstances have kept me out of the game for a while now, but this was my standard text to a lady I was meeting for the first time.

Hello! My handle on the boards is IrishSailor. I'm interested in booking an appointment for an hour of your time on (date and time here) for an hour, possibly two. I'm a 46 y/o white male and my references are (provider name & provider name.) If you cannot meet on that day and time, please propose an alternate day/time and I'll see if I can move my schedule around to accommodate you. Thank you, I look forward to meeting you in person. In the meantime, have a pleasant day.

Now, at the moment, I don't have any current references. As I said, I've been out of the game for a minute. So, I would instead ask, "As I do not have any current references, do you have an alternate screening method with which I could satisfy your screening requirements and help you feel safe? If not, I completely understand. I won't reach out again until I can satisfy your requirements.

When I'm with one of you, I want to be treated well. Why would I start off by making you annoyed with me?

Only if it was this easy for us , but it's not!

You are the kind of man I want next to me when we are naked!

[GayleMeyers]

Originally Posted by IrishSailor

Sadly, my circumstances have kept me out of the game for a while now, but this was my standard text to a lady I was meeting for the first time.

Hello! My handle on the boards is IrishSailor. I'm interested in booking an appointment for an hour of your time on (date and time here) for an hour, possibly two. I'm a 46 y/o white male and my references are (provider name & provider name.) If you cannot meet on that day and time, please propose an alternate day/time and I'll see if I can move my schedule around to accommodate you. Thank you, I look forward to meeting you in person. In the meantime, have a pleasant day.

Now, at the moment, I don't have any current references. As I said, I've been out of the game for a minute. So, I would instead ask, "As I do not have any current references, do you have an alternate screening method with which I could satisfy your screening requirements and help you feel safe? If not, I completely understand. I won't reach out again until I can satisfy your requirements.

When I'm with one of you, I want to be treated well. Why would I start off by making you annoyed with me?

Thank you!
So many guys just ask things like, "Are you available today?" And when I reply, "Today is 24 hours long: could you narrow it down for me?" they get kerfluffled and run away ... or they ask what my schedule is like, and then I reply by asking when they want to meet and they ghost me ... I don't think it is safe for me to give my schedule to a total stranger.

Why is it so difficult to just give us ladies a specific time of day that you want to meet?

[Wile E Coyote]

I like to let a first time provider for me know who I am, what I like in a FS session I pay for and what days and times of those days are good for me within her working hours.

I weed them out for me accordingly depending on our communication or lack thereof.