Speaking of Perceptions Women Folk . . .

[dumars]

How many of you women think some, most of us guys partake in this hobby because we can't get a girl friend?

I did, in fact, talk with a young lady about that very subject about a week ago and she was of that persuasion.

[terry88]

I can't get a girlfriend. I am married. She just hasnt put out in over a year and it is a lot cheaper to keep her.

[Guest123017]

I could be wrong but I would venture to say that there is a measurable amount of married men engaged in this hobby...

[dumars]

You would not be wrong.

Originally Posted by nudiej

I could be wrong but I would venture to say that there is a measurable amount of married men engaged in this hobby...

[DallasRain]

I don't dwell on that ... I just say that,for whatever reason he is with me,fuck yeaaahhh let's get it on!!!!

[Ellieinkc]

I don't make that assumption! As long as we have a good time, I am happy!

[dumars]

I don't either and I deleted the text string and done forgot what I texted back. I do remember laughing though. Oh, I did say something like that a guy my age would have a problem hitting on a "twenty something for a date", I think she agreed.

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I don't dwell on that ... I just say that,for whatever reason he is with me,fuck yeaaahhh let's get it on!!!!

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by dumars

I don't either and I deleted the text string and done forgot what I texted back. I do remember laughing though. Oh, I did say something like that a guy my age would have a problem hitting on a "twenty something for a date", I think she agreed.

Speak for yourself Dumars! Women outnumber men, it is no problem for a guy to get a date in the real world: even a date with a twenty something. During those two times after my first two wives died I literally had women knocking at my door. I know guys who are blind, in wheel chairs, crippled or just plain ugly that have found nice ladies to marry them.

So what is the problem? Really now, think about it! With so many desperate women trying to find any guy (preferably with a job) were is the problem?

In the real world, having sex with most women means more than sex, it means that you are somehow joined even if you are not married yet. (Surprise Guys) The problem in finding a life partner is to not have sex with a woman until you get to know her enough to either eliminate her from the list of possible future friends, or pull away and not call her again. None of us want a pissed off rejected woman coming after us while we are attempting to establish a good relationship with someone we find more desirable. In other words, use your big head for an evaluation, and don't let your little head do the thinking.

Guys still want sex, so here is the hobby. Except you still have the problem of evaluation. Some women are crazy, and some are hostile after the first few minutes even when you are nice to them. Let's reword that - most women are crazy, in one way or another. Let's face the real purpose of the hobby, we don't pay these girls to have sex with us; we pay them to leave us alone afterward.

The hobby is not about love, it is about the guys getting their rocks off so that we can think properly about our real lives. No matter how good it feels, these ladies are not in love with the guys, they want the money that a short visit brings them. Some of these girls are only in the hobby to have the sex they want, without having to care for a husband.

In the meanwhile, most of us would like for the experience to be nice. Thus, we share the information about who can provide that nice experience. No one likes to see the pimp, be robbed, ripped off or beaten.

We can all be nice to one another, or just leave. If anyone thinks of sex as a conquest or an achievement - think again.

JR

[RandB fan]

thanks

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Speak for yourself Dumars! Women outnumber men, it is no problem for a guy to get a date in the real world: even a date with a twenty something. During those two times after my first two wives died I literally had women knocking at my door. I know guys who are blind, in wheel chairs, crippled or just plain ugly that have found nice ladies to marry them.

So what is the problem? Really now, think about it! With so many desperate women trying to find any guy (preferably with a job) were is the problem?


JR, I was just about to go ahead and get myself the "I'm just here so I am not alone for the holidays (and the presents) sympathy girlfriend. But now, after reading this, I think I'll just get bullets, build a plastic gun with the 3-D printer I bought myself (so the girlfriend could give it to me) for Christmas and just end it. Man you know how to knock a guy down. I thought I was getting better renting but now I....


In the real world, having sex with most women means more than sex, it means that you are somehow joined even if you are not married yet. (Surprise Guys) The problem in finding a life partner is to not have sex with a woman until you get to know her enough to either eliminate her from the list of possible future friends, or pull away and not call her again. None of us want a pissed off rejected woman coming after us while we are attempting to establish a good relationship with someone we find more desirable. In other words, use your big head for an evaluation, and don't let your little head do the thinking.

Guys still want sex, so here is the hobby. Except you still have the problem of evaluation. Some women are crazy, and some are hostile after the first few minutes even when you are nice to them. Let's reword that - most women are crazy, in one way or another. Let's face the real purpose of the hobby, we don't pay these girls to have sex with us; we pay them to leave us alone afterward.

The hobby is not about love, it is about the guys getting their rocks off so that we can think properly about our real lives. No matter how good it feels, these ladies are not in love with the guys, they want the money that a short visit brings them. Some of these girls are only in the hobby to have the sex they want, without having to care for a husband.

In the meanwhile, most of us would like for the experience to be nice. Thus, we share the information about who can provide that nice experience. No one likes to see the pimp, be robbed, ripped off or beaten.

We can all be nice to one another, or just leave. If anyone thinks of sex as a conquest or an achievement - think again.

JR

[hunter2121]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I don't dwell on that ... I just say that,for whatever reason he is with me,fuck yeaaahhh let's get it on!!!!

Go Dee !!!

[dumars]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Speak for yourself Dumars!

Ummm, I was. Don't think I referred to anyone else in this string have I? I've only referred to me. Never suggested, insinuated or implied I was some kind of a norm for society. I merely expressed an experience I had a week or so ago.

You like putting words into people's mouths don't you? One of my high school math teachers called what you're doing as reading into the problem. Seeing something that isn't there.

[shayla84]

I know most the guys I see either got girlfriends fiancees or wives,

[Guest013121]

I only assume the gentleman knows proper etiquette and has my donation in hand.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by dumars

How many of you women think some, most of us guys partake in this hobby because we can't get a girl friend?

I did, in fact, talk with a young lady about that very subject about a week ago and she was of that persuasion.

Considering I have participated for approx. 5.5 yrs, I personally never met a client & thought " is here to see me because he can't get a girl friend?"
I NEVER even ask, even though, some deem it necessary to explain why they are getting their WORLDS ROCKED BY ME!!!!
WE are not cookie cutter women... we think differently, we dress differently, our donations & expectations are different. I can go on & on... BUT ultimately, I am so glad you cleared that up for the young lady whose perception was OBVIOUSLY distorted

[Mizzou82]

I can get a girlfriend, I just don't want one. The only problem I have with living alone is taken care of by the hobby, and better than all but a few civie girls I have dated