Is an hour an hour, with specialty services?

[Viola]

I am a niche provider (bbw) of some specialty services, and I am considering how best to promote those, while not getting myself ripped off.

For the Ladies: If you provide kink related services, are those your usual donation amount or some other amount?

For the Gents: If you prefer less vanilla services, are you willing to spend more for them, or are there certain things you expect to be part of standard service?



Are there any kinks/fetishes for which these items are especially true that cost should change, or what can be considered "standard?"


Thanks,
Viola

[Falcon58]

Originally Posted by Viola

For the Gents: If you prefer less vanilla services, are you willing to spend more for them, or are there certain things you expect to be part of standard service?



Thanks,
Viola

I like to think an "hour is an hour" unless she promotes her time differently. If the menu she chooses to promote does list out different upgrade options, then it is good for the client to know that before making his decision.

[Amelia Sterling]

That depends - what's your kink? More importantly, how comfortable are you with providing that kink? How much risk does it open you to, vs "normal" sessions?
Foot fetish is low risk; piercing, CBT, edge, or scat play are fairly high risk. An argument could be made for pregnancy or lactation play being risky; they are certainly rare. Look at what others have on their menu, and what others definitely DO NOT, and price accordingly. Money can be made, depending on how small the niche your kink is in, no matter what your size might be.

[Dorian Gray]

People.... actually.... pay.... for.... you....???

[Viola]

The concept of 'different strokes for different folks' must be lost on you :-)



At any rate-I agree with this level being a factor. Also, prep time, whether mental or physical.

Viola

[Glynette]

I don't advertise any services that involve kink, however if a request is made and I agree to oblige, I don't look for anything additional because I can always say no.
Things that require minimum training on my part such as dirty talking, foot and shoe fetish sessions, pegging, feminisation and cross dressing, don't make me nearly as nervous as getting involved in a dom/sub, bondage, or a excrement situation where someone could potentially get hurt or sick. That requires training and a strong knowledge base. None of it should be taken lightly or performed by someone who doesn't have an extensive background in it.

[enderwiggin]

What I'm hearing is "if the customer's into weird stuff, can I get away with ripping him off... just a bit?"

The answer is no.

[pyramider]

BBCR is not a kincky thing.

[Viola]

Originally Posted by enderwiggin

What I'm hearing is "if the customer's into weird stuff, can I get away with ripping him off... just a bit?"

The answer is no.

Wow, I hadn't thought about it from that angle. But there are differences in specialties as well-for instance giving panties to a fetishist vs anal fisting.

Xo,
Viola

[oktickler]

I get that your time is yours, and you charge for that. Myself, I'm an avid footman, I never want anything other that female feet to play with and tickle, and finish with a fj. Is this as much "work" for the provider as a "normal" session? Curious what you ladies think.

[Glynette]

I think that's on the softer part of the scale.

[SpiceItUp]

Originally Posted by Viola

I am a niche provider (bbw) of some specialty services, and I am considering how best to promote those, while not getting myself ripped off.

For the Ladies: If you provide kink related services, are those your usual donation amount or some other amount?

For the Gents: If you prefer less vanilla services, are you willing to spend more for them, or are there certain things you expect to be part of standard service?

Are there any kinks/fetishes for which these items are especially true that cost should change, or what can be considered "standard?"

The idea that any service you provide for $200/hr will result in YOU being "ripped off" is laughable

Could you charge more? Maybe, it depends how busy you want to stay.

Maybe you need a more open menu to stay busy, including kink. After all you're more of a niche within a niche don't you think? You're looking for a client who likes fairly big women and also has a "non-standard" fetish.

[Amelia Sterling]

I think for the extreme fetishes, the purveyor (and their appearance) is less important than the act itself. ESPECIALLY if it's an under-represented fetish. I, like most women, have no problem with a little slap-and-tickle, but maybe Miss Viola here is using the whole chicken. There's no way to know, since she hasn't said WHAT her kink is.

I'll direct your attention to Rule 34 of the Internet.

Examples of out of the ordinary kinks:
Baby play, involving nursing and actual diaper changing
Extreme piercing, hook suspension, or zippering
Extreme anal stretching, a la goatse
Yiffing
Two girls, one cup
Donkey show
... And the list goes on.

If NO one is offering that ONE thing that trips your mental switch, and all of a sudden one person does, that may be worth more to the fetishist in question. Personally, I'm not comfortable putting anything on my "menu" that I'm not 100% able to offer 100% of people 100% of the time. My time is my time, no matter what, and I will spend it in the ways I enjoy the most; luckily enough, those ways are agreeable to my partners. I'm not a terribly kinky, chicken wielding person, so I'm not going to engage in chicken wielding acts. Therefore, my donation request stays the same with no additional expectations... And there's a void of service available out there for a particularly enterprising, niche provider to fill.

[BFCjosh]

Some girls charge more for fetishes, on top of the services for their regular rate. Others have fetish only sessions that are slightly less than their rate as long as the fetish doesn't involve sex acts.

None of the people responding, including myself, are probably your target audience so the comments will be of limited value.