Benifits of repeat visits...

[TheHorseTrainer]

I was talking with a few gentlemen last few days about the benifits of repeat visits.

I'd like to open this up for everyone to give their .02.

For me I know even tho I am able to relax and have a great time, once we've got that first date out of the way, we've enjoyed each other.. I personally get so much more eager to see you again.

Given hobby budgets I never expect a high frequency of visits. A repeat visitor to me may be once a month, once ever 2 months OR even 3 months.

I know for me the more I am able to connect over time with a gentleman the more open I am. The more I'm excited to visit again. The exploration becomes more intense. The more I know EXACTLY what a man like's. The freedom of converstation because we have built a trust completely increases with each time. A friendship developes. Secret lovers.

Variety is the spice of life for sure. I think others should go out and explore what others have to offer. It is so nice when you come back as well. I also believe we should enter a new person now and then into the factor to keep "emotions" in check. Humans are such emotional creatures that in this hobby world we have to keep our boundries.

What does this all mean to you?

[London Rayne]

I don't like all repeat visitors. Some are great, and some I prefer not to see again. I actually get off on touring a new city because I never know what to expect...love the thrill of it.

[Valerie]

Most of my biz are repeat visits....I see so many regulars and I love it, you really get to know what they like, establish a friendship, and just have a lot of fun together! .....

If I don't like someone I will not see them again...

[Sweet N Little]

The majority of mine are all repeats , each time just gets better and better!!! Having that comfort zone makes for the BEST ever!!!!!!! I can let go without all the normal worries of a first time visit and baby hang on for a hell of a ride!!

[TheHorseTrainer]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

The majority of mine are all repeats , each time just gets better and better!!! Having that comfort zone makes for the BEST ever!!!!!!! I can let go without all the normal worries of a first time visit and baby hang on for a hell of a ride!!

+1000

I feel the same way! Some I actually adore and love to go play with. There also is something to be said about the thrill of the first visit!

[lisa.lisa0302]

I do appreciate repeat visits, knowing what they like and how. Takes such a load off me. its a relief.

London, im also with you on touring, touring a new city, seeing new faces, its a like an adventure, a thrill...it keeps me excited!

[London Rayne]

As usual I am the odd ball. I prefer meeting new people lol. Too many repeats make it much like a relationship, and that's not what I am looking for. I have a few guys that are regulars back home, but it's more of an arrangement thing. I rarely see them more than twice a month for a set prepaid rate. One takes care of all my utilities, another pays my 3 phone bills, my CPA and Attorney get major props, and yet another is the Doc I have seen off and on for procedures. When I tour, it's for my mortgage and child's tuition.

Anyone I see in addition to them at home is quite rare, which is why I enjoy touring.

[Ed Highlight]

Repeats are way more comfortable for both!! No screening worries, no compatibility issues....if I want to see you again (and you want to see me) that usually means you like me (and that's very improtant to me) and I like you enough to repeat...that makes pleasing each other much more meaningfull and the lack of animosity or resentment or any of those negative things that can interfere with the pleasure are absent.

[shorty]

I love repeats!!!

[charlestudor2005]

I don't do repeat visits for a few reasons:

1. I haven't had the opportunity.
2. Too many fish in the sea. Why go back to leftovers when you can get a fresh plate from the buffet?
3. The experience would have to be good for me to do a repeat, and honestly, there haven't been that many of them.

[jughead1171]

I like familiarity so repeatjing with someone who I enjoy that enjoys me would be preferred.

[GenesisNicole]

Hmmmmm.

I'm sitting on the fence with this one.

I love the comfort of being with someone I have built rapport and trust with over time. And yes most of my visitors are repeat offenders. *giggle*

However!

I'm a social butterfly and love meeting new people.

I also love the anticipation I feel when I'm getting ready for the date. "What exactly does he look like? Smell? Feel?"

There's something about that feeling...

I love all "friends", new and familiar!

Genesis Nicole

[Cpalmson]

It has been a long time since I've repeated with a provider; although, not for a lack of trying. Just had a repeat opportunity fall through this week due to scheduling conflicts for the both of us. For me, I wouldn't mind repeating 2 or 3 times a year because I do like the comfort factor-- know what we like and makes the screening process a mute point. On the other hand like Charles said, there are so many fish in the sea, and I kinda like being into the flavor of the month. I can easily see myself repeating with providers but also seeing new talent when able.

[Chellablaine]

Not for me....I am into the new and strange. Also, repeats and the atf thing can feel like a relationship. Men try to find out more about me on a personal level. If I wanted to get that comfy, I'd be on a personal site looking for a bf. I'm more of a hit it and quit it kinda gal...even in my personal life.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Repeats are way more comfortable for both!! No screening worries, no compatibility issues

This is the main reason id seek a very good repeat over a new provider. But I will say there have been only a small handful of ladies I chose to see again....but there performance was so stellar it almost warrants it. They somewhat have that confidence during the session that aludes to it.

I think to some degree chella may be right as well, although I'm not trying to get in a providers business to no degree, after quite a few sessions mind wander and want to know more. But I always stay in client provider mode......and emotion is nowhere involved past just pleasing each other for the night.

I once had an ATF that hardly talked or anything mostly. But she was accommodating in almost every other category. So I don't think proding and probing a provider for info down the line is so much of an issue.

Regular ladies I see also are great references.....and at times when I'm verifying with another lady seem to give them enough info for them to make a very informed decision before seeing me performance wise. For some newbie ladies I may be high maintenance, and for some providers I might be thought of as a kickass time so it helps to have someone speak on what you expect to some degree.