Why do escorts hate texts?

[bankai]

I'm new to this and still haven't went through the process of seeing a escort, I'm a little paranoid to calling and speaking to a escort due to a potential problem that can arise.

Anyways I usually send texts and most escorts kinda respond like this.

Me" Incall or Outcall for _____ session?
Them" xxxxx amount of dollars
Me" What does that include?
Them" ________

Me"

That's the conversation right there?

Honestly I don't even want to talk to escorts about location or anything but I want to get a feel for what's going to happen before I get there.

I don't know why seem to be very short when you ask a couple questions.

I know some girls charge for 30 and when you get there it's not what you expected, I expect something along the lines of GFE without the _______ touching and DATY but everything else is a go.

I like tits and like to kiss them, like a slim woman and like to touch but these women are very short and don't want to get into details at all.

[James1588]

Seriously? You don't know why a working lady doesn't want to discuss dollars and deeds in the same conversation?

Those are, you know, the elements of a "crime." Purely malum prohibitum, of course, but ... aren't you making yourself sound like someone who knows where every donut shop in town is located?

[Guest022718]

Dude.....

Its not the texting.....you're saying everything a cop would say to get them convicted for prostitution. They think you are a cop......which you may be for all I know.

Here's what you do: RESEARCH IS YOUR FRIEND.

1) I see you are from Miami. Go hang out in the S. Florida/Miami area for a few days. Watch who posts. Pay attention to the provider ads. When you see one you like, check her ECCIE reviews. You will see a list of activities during her sessions. This will give you some idea of the kind of stuff she does during a session. If you don't see what you are looking for after reading several of her reviews, pick another lady. Keep doing this until you find a lady who meets your requirements.

2) READ THE REST OF HER FRIGGING PROFILE! If she has a preferred method of contact, USE THAT AND ONLY THAT! Ok. Lets say she takes texts. Here's what you text her:

"Hello, my name is Bankai. My phone # is 999 999 6969. I would be interested in meeting you for one hour at 7 tonight, if you are free."

Thats it. You already know whats possible, and the cost, because you did your homework. You asked the only question you did not know the answer to.

3) Be prepared for some screening questions. If you don't feel like answering them, say so....apologize for taking her time......hang up.......and contact the next lady on your list.

4) YMMV! Once you are finally face to face, and the festivities have begun, you can ask about XYZ. If you act like an asshole, have bad breath, have not washed your ass and balls within the last 60 minutes, take a major 3-flush dump in her incall restroom, or just generally creep her out, you may not get the same level of service as the guys who wrote the reviews.

[anonymousgeek]

Wow, I would not want to talk to you either! Some good advice from hgritstoo. But your first problem was "What does that include?" Any escort worth her salt would immediately hang up the phone. You do not talk about services and price on the phone. Good luck and stay safe.

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by bankai

I'm new to this and still haven't went through the process of seeing a escort, I'm a little paranoid to calling and speaking to a escort due to a potential problem that can arise.

Anyways I usually send texts and most escorts kinda respond like this.

Me" Incall or Outcall for _____ session?
Them" xxxxx amount of dollars
Me" What does that include?
Them" ________

Me"

I prefer texts a gentlemanly and informative text.



bankai you're doing it wrong VERY VERY WRONG

[Alyssa XOXO]

Brush up on some of her reviews sweetie and your questions will probably be answered.

[Long nose]

One you've seen a provider bcd I don't think they care if u text them . I know I text after I have seen one bcd and its a lot easier to schedule 🍌

[bankai]

wel thanks, guess I'll stop my method and try the ones advised.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

1. I never, ever respond to a text from someone I have never seen before. Its a waste of time. Tire kickers send texts. Those who are serious either email or call. So from the first text you send, you put yourself in the "tire kickers" category, and she isn't likely to take you seriously.

2. It doesn't matter how you contact her - text, phone, email, or smoke signals. You broke the first and second rules right out of the gate. Don't ask about $$, and don't ask about services. At best, you announce yourself as a newbie who doesn't have enough experience yet. At worst, you made yourself look like LE. Even if she gives you the benefit of the doubt and assumes you are a newbie, you still shoot yourself in the foot. At the rate you are going, you are going to get yourself busted. When that happens, I don't want you to have been anywhere near my incall, lest you get a little too talkative if you know what I mean.

You are here on ECCIE. Use the site for its intended purpose. Research, read reviews, do your due diligence. Then you won't need to ask about services and rates, and you can use the PM system here to contact legitimate ladies with review histories. You will find that your success rate will increase significantly.

[Audrey Astor]

I prefer texts, but I would not respond to yours either. Grits gave you some great advice. Check it out, check out the newbie threads too, and if you follow said advice, you'll be off and having fun in no time.

[MochaNautteBBW]

I stopped accepting texts because I would get responses like:

"How much to fuck?"
"Can I c pussy pics?"
"How much for head and a titty fuck?"
"I like bbj. also do u do nasty things like anal and licking ass?"
" r u willing to do first time for free? or for electronics lol?
"We'll can I get a pussy picture I like to look at something before I eat it?"
" I'm just trying to get my dick wet."
" You wanna put that pussy cream in my face?"

These are just a few. Some were so vulgar that I deleted them without answering them. When I was a newbie provider, my mentors said to never get explicit over the phone or by email...and I never got explicit by email or phone. One of my former provider friends got arrested because she was getting explicit over the phone with someone she thought was a client....but turned out to be LE.

[JohnnyCap]

Goes both ways; on the way to see a provider I've more than once turned around and went back home because she wouldn't take my call. Texts only can hide things a voice might not. But sometimes its just fine; no hard rules.

[Guest050216]

He has been on-board since 2012. I doubt the "newbie" term applies.
Tire kicker is probably a more accurate term.

[Cpalmson]

I would agree with the advise given; however, I do see the POV of the OP. We were all new to this at some point and want to make sure our expectations are met while not being disappointed with the experience. I know for me, there is one thing (read my sig line) that is a MUST. Even after years of doing this and all research I put it, I'm still OCD about the one activity. Here's how I've tried to balance the research, communication and dealing with my must have activity. First, I do the research (reading reviews and even reaching out to reviewers for reconfirmation). I also look on P411 because most providers list what activities they permit/engage in. Second, I contact the lady with a brief introduction (usually by phone or e-mail). If they are an ECCIE member, I'm sure they look up my history to see the activities that I've listed on my previous dates. If they are on P411, I let them know I have a profile if they want to check it out. I make this first introduction very non-committal. I may ask her if the info on her in her ad or profile is accurate and up to date. After that, I may give it a day or several hours (depending on the time constraints). If I want to see the lady, I contact her again to set up the logistics. I've found that ladies are more apt to give more info out on a second contact-- especially if they have taken the time to research me. If I'm still concerned about my specific need, I will usually in a round about way ask without being direct Most of the time, I get an answer. You just have to take your time and not be rushed. Act like you've been around the block a few times. Be prepared for a lady who won't give the info you want. I've come to find out that the ladies who won't work with you are probably ladies you don't want to see anyway.

[AlexandraCole]

I (and probably many others) would never respond to a text/e-mail asking some variation of "what's included". I also wouldn't answer that question over the phone. Honestly, I'd likely block your number out of legal concern.

I'll answer a coherent, mindful text any day. But when I'm doing all contact with someone through text, my guard is up even higher.