CRAZY MEN THAT SPREAD LIES BASED ON THERE ASSUMPTIONS...

[BeautyQueen2716]

COME ON GUYS REALLY..WHOEVER IS SPREADING AROUND THAT I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO IS GAY,,PLEASE STOP,,,I HAVE A ROOM MATE,,OK......I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE OR BE EMBARASSED ABOUT,,EXCEPT THAT I AM HORRIBLE WITH TIME.....MY ROOM MATE IS BISEXUAL AND PREFERS THAT I TELL THE GENTLEMEN WHO ARE NOSY ENOUGH TO ASK ...I HAVE EVEN MOVED AWAY BECAUSE I AM SO TIRED OF MEN BEING SO MESSY AND WHINEY,,,,IM NO SUPER MODEL BUT IVE SEEN PLENTY OF MEN TO KNOW THAT I AM DAMN GOOD AT WHAT I DO AND PRETTY ON TOP OF THAT..PLEASE IF U ARE GOING TO POST SOMETHING OR SHARE YOUR REMARKS ABOUT ME OR ANYONE,,MAKE SURE U KNOW THE TRUTH,,,IF IT IS YOUR PERSONAL OPINION THEN I HONESTLY COULD CARE LESS...AND AGAIN I DO NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND,,,WHICH IS REALLY NO ONES BUSINESS,, BUT LIKE I SAID IM A VERY FORWARD AND OPEN GURL...I HAVE NO SECRESTS TO KEEP

[shayla84]

Dont let it get to you, you are able to have a boyfriend, this is a job not a relationship site and most the men are married so whether you do have one or not or if hes gay or bi thats your business sweetie. There are lots of great providers on here that are married and have spouces, as long as its not a problem for the sessions or anything its non of anyones business and you should not have to explain your self.
People on here can be asses and you will have to learn to have thicker skin sweets and not let people get to you trust me if you do they will ruin you and you never let someone else ruin you.
Do you, if your a good provider and dont cause drama the good men on here will continue to see you and dont care about your personal sexual life, its the assholes who do this and well wouldnt you perfer to not see them anyways keep your head up sweetie, and sorry this happened

[Centaur]

What shayla said. Who cares whether or not you have a boyfriend or a roommate? Your personal life is your business. What an odd and pointless rumor to spread.

Just a small piece of friendly criticism: all-caps is generally the internet equivalent of shouting and kind of hard to read. Just mentioning it in case that wasn't the desired effect.

Cheers.

[Pitfall]

Originally Posted by BeautyQueen2716

I HAVE NO SECRESTS TO KEEP

[onei]

You are a sweetheart and a beautiful girl. Your personal life is just that, personal. I've only seen you once, but, believe it or not, time was NOT an issue. :-) Like Shayla said, don't let it get to you.

[TerraFirma]

"IM NO SUPER MODEL BUT IVE SEEN PLENTY OF MEN TO KNOW THAT I AM DAMN GOOD AT WHAT I DO AND PRETTY ON TOP OF THAT.."

I dunno...you look pretty darned good to me
Best of luck sorting out the slander and libel. It's stinks to be mischaracterized.

TF

[Passion2015]

If we worried about everything people say about us we would not ever be lroductive or get anything done. I personaly good give a rats butt what people say oddo, if they are not paying my bills or feeding andclothing me who cares. Most people here both providers and hobbyist have nothing better to do than put somebody down for them I say, get a life, opinions are like butts, everybody has one some larher than others. Dont worry about what people say or do because life is to short. Enjoy and be safe!!!!!

[fun2come]

These threads always bring me to the 5 agreements and the one that usually always applies:
DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

Having said that please understand that some of us mongers get a little nervous when roommates (of any gender or orientation), bfs/gfs, handlers, pimps, or other affiliates HANG around.
This is when the Information Exchange in ECCIE kicks into full gear.

It matters not who is "lurking" around, it simply raises the spidey sense.
Just like if I would bring my body guard to a session and have her/him stand outside the door (well you'd probably want her/him instead of me anyway.... - good thing I don't need a body guard). Wouldn't matter how sexually oriented (s)he was, you'd mention that to somebody....

So I applaud your honest approach which you have maintained all along. Good for you, and like all the others said don't let it get to you how they judge your roommate.

[shayla84]

I would just suggest sweetie if you have a roommate or boyfriend or hubby or what have you have them leave the area, they should not be in the apartment or around the apartment, it should just be you and your friend of the time, it does make people nervous and with the shit thats happened to people its a logical concern, but having a spouce or what have you its non of anyones business.

[Centaur]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I would just suggest sweetie if you have a roommate or boyfriend or hubby or what have you have them leave the area, they should not be in the apartment or around the apartment, it should just be you and your friend of the time, it does make people nervous and with the shit thats happened to people its a logical concern, but having a spouce or what have you its non of anyones business.

Oh, I see. Someone encountered the roomie during an appointment. Yes, it's a bit of a concern, especially if you're seeing the provider for the first time. No one wants to take the risk.

[nuglet]

personally, if I were to have a guy walk in or show up, I'd leave right then. and take my non existent envelope with me.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by nuglet

personally, if I were to have a guy walk in or show up, I'd leave right then. and take my non existent envelope with me.

One lesson I learned is to check behind all doors and any suspicious "lumps" covered by blankets on the couch.

Had a couple of surprises that made me laugh and walk...If we aren't alone then I'm not staying.

[John_Dough]

And how is it tgat you know what all was posted ????

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by John_Dough

And how is it tgat you know what all was posted ????

The gay roommate is a member and told her?

[cinnamonshark]

Originally Posted by fun2come

...Just like if I would bring my body guard to a session and have her/him stand outside the door (well you'd probably want her/him instead of me anyway.... - good thing I don't need a body guard)....

So, I guess I'm fired then?