Physical Representation

[newbieguy]

Maybe it's just me, but is it too much to ask for a provider to represent herself in a physical manner similar to how she does in her showcase or ad pics? When I contact a lady, it is generally because I'm attracted to her look; and that is often aided by how she dresses and makes herself up. Whether it be the bikini, the nightie, her hair, nails, the heels, her birthday suit. Whatever it may be, that's what I generally want to see. Ladies do those things for their pics to heighten their appearance and attraction. Is it too much to ask for those same things to be expected when she opens the door?

IJS

[JennsLolli]

I don't think that's an unreasonable request by any means. I generally don't wear outfits in my pics in person, simply because I'm afraid of being judged as having only one or two sexy outfits. (We all have our eccentricities, yes?) Really, requests like that help a girl out.

[Windinhishair]

If you think it's bad here try Match or POF.

[newbieguy]

Originally Posted by Windinhishair

If you think it's bad here try Match or POF.

Not sure what POF is, but I know what you are saying about Match. But I do believe in the saying, "what you see is what you get". I just wish that was always the case.

[Windinhishair]

Originally Posted by newbieguy

Not sure what POF is, but I know what you are saying about Match. But I do believe in the saying, "what you see is what you get". I just wish that was always the case.

POF = Plenty of Fish the free dating site where fit is code for 30lbs heavier than pics and average means obese.

[TemptationTammie]

If you have a specific request, ASK!
The lady doesn't know what you expect her to be dressed in if you don't speak up.
I have photos of myself in a corset, which I only wore for those pics. Plus I only wear the stockings upon request when I am at home. I don't take those items when I am travelling.
I do wear dresses though. I also prefer to be barefoot unless boots or heels are requested.
First time I meet a guy, I will not wear lingerie or answer the door naked even if requested. Those are for any subsequent sessions and only if requested.

[guest030715-233]

Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

If you have a specific request, ASK!
The lady doesn't know what you expect her to be dressed in if you don't speak up.
I have photos of myself in a corset, which I only wore for those pics. Plus I only wear the stockings upon request when I am at home. I don't take those items when I am travelling.
I do wear dresses though. I also prefer to be barefoot unless boots or heels are requested.
First time I meet a guy, I will not wear lingerie or answer the door naked even if requested. Those are for any subsequent sessions and only if requested.

I agree with much of what you said.

I try to always ask how a gentleman wants me to dress. If he has any special requests or suggestions for our time. I find that really helps. If he doesn't, I just go with whatever my mood is. I find if I feel good in what I'm wearing, the date will go better.

[guest030715-233]

OP- I agree with you, but I like for the gentleman to make suggestions or tell me. I'm good, but I can't read minds!

[readysetgo12]

Originally Posted by JennsLolli

I don't think that's an unreasonable request by any means. I generally don't wear outfits in my pics in person, simply because I'm afraid of being judged as having only one or two sexy outfits. (We all have our eccentricities, yes?) Really, requests like that help a girl out.

Jenns has many sexy and vintage outfits.

[melannie_star]

All my photos are taken by yours truly.. I always keep my profile updated with new pictures ! Getting all dolled up is part of all the fun when I am meeting you! When I look sexy.. I feel sexy.
When I feel sexy.. there is no telling how many pieces of furniture will be used.

It doesn't matter if it is the first time we meet or the 10th.. I never leave home without my heals..lol.
I pack light... .. nothing but lingerie and outfits to get your motor going.. not forgetting my toys.
The rest of my clothing is just to transport myself from one place to the other.
I sit around naked half the time anyway when behind closed doors.

Speaking of... My down south tour will start on Feb. 1st
Oh! I am excited... Austin here I come!!!!

[newbieguy]

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

OP- I agree with you, but I like for the gentleman to make suggestions or tell me. I'm good, but I can't read minds!

Hey Jane and Tammie. I understand what you are saying and sure, I've made some requests before in the past when there was a particular outfit I saw the lady wear that I like. I'm just saying, in general, represent yourself the way that you do in your pics. When I go to McDs and order a Big Mac, maybe I forget to tell them to hold the pickles, but when I open the box, I expect to see something that resembles a Big Mac, not a fish filet sandwich. Cheesy analogy, but the first thing that came to mind. :-)

I just want to see what you sold me on in the pics. Thats all.

[Bob McV]

Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

If you have a specific request, ASK!
The lady doesn't know what you expect her to be dressed in if you don't speak up.

I don't think the OP is saying wear the same outfit, but rather be as put together.

Originally Posted by newbieguy

Hey Jane and Tammie. I understand what you are saying and sure, I've made some requests before in the past when there was a particular outfit I saw the lady wear that I like. I'm just saying, in general, represent yourself the way that you do in your pics. When I go to McDs and order a Big Mac, maybe I forget to tell them to hold the pickles, but when I open the box, I expect to see something that resembles a Big Mac, not a fish filet sandwich. Cheesy analogy, but the first thing that came to mind. :-)

I just want to see what you sold me on in the pics. Thats all.

depending on the photos in question, this is in fact a very unreasonable request. Perfect 3 point lighting and 2+ hours in the make-up chair aren't going to happen in a domain hotel for a 1/2 hour session. That said saying something like "I like how you look in picture X I sure hope you are that well put together in person" might yield positive results.

As a photographer, it is easy to see the effort that went into some of the photos I see here (and the photoshopping effort in a few as well) I know there are some ladies I would love to see if they came with a real world blur tool!

Originally Posted by melannie_star

All my photos are taken by yours truly.. I always keep my profile updated with new pictures ! Getting all dolled up is part of all the fun when I am meeting you! When I look sexy.. I feel sexy.
When I feel sexy.. there is no telling how many pieces of furniture will be used.

It doesn't matter if it is the first time we meet or the 10th.. I never leave home without my heals..lol.
I pack light... .. nothing but lingerie and outfits to get your motor going.. not forgetting my toys.
The rest of my clothing is just to transport myself from one place to the other.
I sit around naked half the time anyway when behind closed doors.

Speaking of... My down south tour will start on Feb. 1st
Oh! I am excited... Austin here I come!!!!

Ladies that is how a pro thread jacks into a ThreAD! look for a PM soon!

[melannie_star]