a question for the ladies on tobacco use

[calliemac775]

Hey ladies,
Just wanted to get a feel for something that has been ony mind. I'm a smoker ( cigarettes only) and I try to be sensitive to the fact that some ladies are not into that. The problem I have is that I live about an hour south of SA, so when I come into town I have a hard time not at least having one or two. I always try to keep gum, mints, etc. In the car and I always try to wash my face and hands so I don't reek too bad. Just how much of a turn off is it to you if you don't personally smoke? Can you smell or taste smokeless tobacco as well? I ask because I love DFK and GFE in general and I have noticed a reluctance at times for ladies to get to kissy face at times. BTW, I always shower and wear clean clothes before I make me hobbying trek into town. I understand that the easiest answer is to stop smoking, like I said I am just trying to find out how much of a turn off for GFE it is. Thanks in advance.

[tpepsi]

Major turn off for me. So I won't be kissing you. LOL.

Seriously, you may think the cig smell is gone, but its not. It lingers on your tongue.

Try keeping a spit cup and a bottle of listerine in the car and gargle repeatedly for like 10 minutes straight before you get there. Then chew some gum.

How you been brother?

[calliemac775]

Those are all good ideas T. I know from previous SO 's that the smell lingers ( quite vocally as well lol) but yeah I'm just trying to find a balance. I'm dipping more so maybe that taste is easier to get rid off. And as far as kissing you, it's like George Carlin said one time. " it all feels good in the dark! " I'm kidding.. I kid.... Maybe.
I been god brother, crazy overtime at work, but that's cool cuz it helps support my hobbying. Keeping an eye out for any interesting recon. I'll let you know if I stumble across anything

[captainrambone11]

Go buy patches.... Use them and quit tobacco. Wake up earlier than normal and throw one on first thing. Urges last about 5 seconds. Then you can focus on your serious urges. Or refine your provider search to "social smokers". But the ladies will thank you for not smelling and you'll thank yourself for quitting. Put that good money toward hobbying.

[calliemac775]

That's actually something I've tried already. Those little Fuckers mess me up. Even the low dose make me nauseous. But good idea. You're right as far as quitting. The money would definitely be better spent elsewhere. I've been dipping lately and it's cut my cigarette use down dramatically. And I don't actually dip all that much. So I'm kind of using it as a cessation aid. I think I'm just gonna have to man up and quit. Cold turkey is hard but I've done it before, and you're right, I'm sure the ladies will be more welcoming. I've found that DFK is a huge turn on for me ( more than even bbbj) and I'd rather enjoy that than a Smoke. Who'd have thought a board about escort client relationships would be filled with people who actually care about each other? Hahahaha, one more reason I'm glad I'm here.

[rockerrick]

I think your OP has your own question answered. It is likely a problem for non smoking women to want to kiss you, just like it would be for non smoking guys to want to kiss smoking women.
And I'd bet money the dip is a far bigger problem for them.
Just ask yourself how dependent on them are you if you can't take the 3 or 4 hours off to go see a hot woman that's gonna fuck you?

[NikkiWhite]

I recently quit smoking but even when I was a smoker it bothered me to taste or smell it on someone else.

[Guest061815-1]

Nicotine is the godawfulest most nefarious drug on Earth, and the toughest to quit. Want a real rush? Smoke a cigarette while wearing a nicotine patch. You could thread the sewing machine while it's running!

[savak]

Originally Posted by calliemac775

I'm dipping more so maybe that taste is easier to get rid off.

isnt that worse? especially if you like kissing so much...

you hold that stuff in your mouth and keep it pressed against your teeth and gums.

i remember seeing some pictures a way back where people who did that regularly would get their lower jaw fucked up real bad.

[calliemac775]

All of these are valid and helpful points. Ultimately quitting is the best and most obvious solution. And I have been cutting back. Until the day I. Am free of this nasty ass habit I just make sure not to smoke several hours before seeing one of these fine ladies. Thanks everyone for all the input. Here's to quitting. I've done it before and was good for several years. So back on TJE wagon I go.

[inspector farquar]

Many long time smokers can step out of the shower and smell of smoke from ten paces. Others, not so much. I'm not sure what causes the difference (years, amount, type), just that there is one.

[htownsa]

Pack a day smoker for almost 15yrs and started using e-cig 3+yrs ago with out a hitch. I indulge in a good cigar from time to time and may revert on a hard night out drinking. Hardest part is finding a set up that works for you. If interested just PM and I'll let you know mine. Only people that even know i have a habit are the ones i tell.

[Guest081519]

How about vaping?

While it may also pose a health risk (see below), if used at the lower voltage settings, it may be a good replacement to cigarettes.

http://www.medpagetoday.com/PrimaryCare/Smoking/49655

[HUMP!]

Callie,
Suggest you include brushing in your mouth hygiene regimen. With toothpaste or a fresh swig of mouthwash, brush that tongue thoroughly on all angles of that licker, scrub the inside surfaces of your cheeks. Perhaps you already include brushing. Drinking water plays a part, too.

[calliemac775]

Riley, I actually did try vaping. No matter the formula or type of device it never seemed to curb the urge. While I am using dip as a cessation aid now, I use the skoal packets so it's a measured amount everytime. It seems to really help. Down to half a pack or less a day now.
And yes Hump , I am very studious about brushing . Good point though. I'm just gonna have to relinquish the ones before an " appointment "