This Ought To Be Funny. Im serious though. Fuck.

[SashaSedusax]

So. Im PSE all the way. I know some providers are GFE & PSE. Cool. But me being gfe would make for a theatrical session. Anywhom.

Recently ive had experiences to where i have seen a hobbyist and had a bad session because he liked gfe and im pse. I never lead anyone to believe i can pull off a good gfe session and not look like an over reacting lame 'wannabe' pornstar. I genuinely dont like it.

Mind you i always stay the complete time. Usually a bit over. So the time of session is irrelevant here.

So my question is what should you do if you have plenty of reviews stating you like it as rough as possible - dont rub me , slap me type of deal. It doesnt work out as planned. Do you (providers) give any donation back. How much? If you stay longer trying to make it work and it still doesnt, then what? :

[essence]

Maybe over analysing?

Doing it by numbers is never going to work.

Try communication.


32 yes reviews and one no? What is the problem?

[TheCat'sMeow]

Depends if you have a conscience,,,A lot of whores don't.

[zero2010]

The $ is supposedly for time only right? Your clients should know going in what to expect, if not it's on them not you.

[Goodbuddha]

Plenty of yes reviews. Must be doing something right.

[Richiej281]

Originally Posted by zero2010

The $ is supposedly for time only right? Your clients should know going in what to expect, if not it's on them not you.

^+1

The guy probably didn't do his research. It takes like 5 mins to realize you're not gfe

[loveitdou]

+1
Guys need to do their research if they don't then it's not your fault.

BTW doesn't PSE include CIM? I think it should but as I told you before I do respect whatever you say.
You Naughty Girl!!!!!!

[Italia DiBella]

Originally Posted by SashaSedusax

So. Im PSE all the way. I know some providers are GFE & PSE. Cool. But me being gfe would make for a theatrical session. Anywhom.

Recently ive had experiences to where i have seen a hobbyist and had a bad session because he liked gfe and im pse. I never lead anyone to believe i can pull off a good gfe session and not look like an over reacting lame 'wannabe' pornstar. I genuinely dont like it.

Mind you i always stay the complete time. Usually a bit over. So the time of session is irrelevant here.

So my question is what should you do if you have plenty of reviews stating you like it as rough as possible - dont rub me , slap me type of deal. It doesnt work out as planned. Do you (providers) give any donation back. How much? If you stay longer trying to make it work and it still doesnt, then what? :

Sounds like he didn't research properly.

It can be awkward with misunderstanding s, depending on the situation Would depend on what to do.

Keep Rocking Beautiful

[Dorian Gray]

[Dogon]

As someone who likes it on that PSE/GFE edge, I understand that not everybody thinks the same thing when they use those acronyms, and that even so, I don't click with everybody. As long as a provider stays the whole time, makes an attempt, and provides, I'm never going to ask, expect, or want any donation back. I'd agreed to that price beforehand, and I'll just chalk it up to a lesson learned.

[AllisonofHouston]

Originally Posted by loveitdou

+1
Guys need to do their research if they don't then it's not your fault.

BTW doesn't PSE include CIM?

Well it does to me ...cim or cot ..either way I'm happy , but I agree guys shouldn't be getting upset if they fail to do their research .

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by SashaSedusax

So. Im PSE all the way. I know some providers are GFE & PSE. Cool. But me being gfe would make for a theatrical session. Anywhom.

Recently ive had experiences to where i have seen a hobbyist and had a bad session because he liked gfe and im pse. I never lead anyone to believe i can pull off a good gfe session and not look like an over reacting lame 'wannabe' pornstar. I genuinely dont like it.

Mind you i always stay the complete time. Usually a bit over. So the time of session is irrelevant here.

So my question is what should you do if you have plenty of reviews stating you like it as rough as possible - dont rub me , slap me type of deal. It doesnt work out as planned. Do you (providers) give any donation back. How much? If you stay longer trying to make it work and it still doesnt, then what? :

1. Never give the money back. Never. Especially if you've done an entire session.

2. Try to start communicating a little more with your new clients from now on. Once you've screened them, a little further communication isn't too risky. Something like, "Ok we are good to go and your session is booked. I just wanted to make sure you've read my site/ad/reviews and understand what kind of service I offer?"

For myself, it is easy, bc I directly ask, "what kind of session and what length are you interested in?" Since I am fbsm, my options are clearly stated. You could also try something like this. I was actually thinking this week, about mixing things up and either naming my session options or assigning them code names, for example, "The Alpha", "The Bravo" etc. I could put the session description next to it on my site/ads, then that way when booking, they can just say, "I'd like the alpha session please."


3. I have also had similar situations; a couple recently in fact. It was clear they either didn't bother to do any research on me, or just decided they were going to try and get what they wanted, never mind what it is I actually offer.

Have had this in the past as well, of course. In these situations, I handle each one on a case-by-case basis, depending on what is actually happening and how he is behaving. However, I am not above simply ending a session if he is legitimately being inappropriate, or just speaking up and saying a simple no, or, that is not the service I provide, I'm sorry. I've clearly stated that in my ads.

Just remember doll, you are the provider, you have the control. If he is operating outside of your comfort zone, it is up to you to let him know and guide the session back to where you are comfortable. You can do this in a gentle and tactful way. Also remember, that in the heat of the moment, sometimes men are simply men and get ahead of themselves. Usually a gentle reminder of such will help them to know they are beginning to cross your boundaries and they will reign it in.

[anita]

Originally Posted by zero2010

The $ is supposedly for time only right? Your clients should know going in what to expect, if not it's on them not you.

+1

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

1. Never give the money back. Never. Especially if you've done an entire session.

2. Try to start communicating a little more with your new clients from now on. Once you've screened them, a little further communication isn't too risky. Something like, "Ok we are good to go and your session is booked. I just wanted to make sure you've read my site/ad/reviews and understand what kind of service I offer?"

For myself, it is easy, bc I directly ask, "what kind of session and what length are you interested in?" Since I am fbsm, my options are clearly stated. You could also try something like this. I was actually thinking this week, about mixing things up and either naming my session options or assigning them code names, for example, "The Alpha", "The Bravo" etc. I could put the session description next to it on my site/ads, then that way when booking, they can just say, "I'd like the alpha session please."


3. I have also had similar situations; a couple recently in fact. It was clear they either didn't bother to do any research on me, or just decided they were going to try and get what they wanted, never mind what it is I actually offer.

Have had this in the past as well, of course. In these situations, I handle each one on a case-by-case basis, depending on what is actually happening and how he is behaving. However, I am not above simply ending a session if he is legitimately being inappropriate, or just speaking up and saying a simple no, or, that is not the service I provide, I'm sorry. I've clearly stated that in my ads.

Just remember doll, you are the provider, you have the control. If he is operating outside of your comfort zone, it is up to you to let him know and guide the session back to where you are comfortable. You can do this in a gentle and tactful way. Also remember, that in the heat of the moment, sometimes men are simply men and get ahead of themselves. Usually a gentle reminder of such will help them to know they are beginning to cross your boundaries and they will reign it in.

yawn!!.........so long winded....im sleepy now..........no ...im beat......cant keep em open.............

[dearhunter]

If you are not sucking dick to completion CIM/COF you are not PSE.