Ladies, have you ever...?

[hotthencold2009]

First off I don't know how you girls do it. Call me a pansy or whatever but I get nervous whenever you come to my place. I can't imagine how you feel. I was thinking and it occurred to me, have you ever just put the profession aside and maybe tried to find a nice guy and see if there is any chemistry I guess you can say. What I'm trying to say is rather then thinking about how it's been or who your next call is going to be, maybe that really nice guy who's funds are little tight would love some companionship. Just a beautiful girl laying next to him watching a movie would sometimes do the trick (doubtful &#128521
Well that was on my mind and I can't wait to hear some feed back. Take care ladies and be safe!

[SA Angel]

Bwhahahahaha.

Be sure to let us know what sorta fish you catch with that bait.

TBH, if any of these women actually wanted a real boyfriend we'd have one.

[Quagmire007]

Originally Posted by SA Angel

Bwhahahahaha.

Be sure to let us know what sorta fish you catch with that bait.

TBH, if any of these women actually wanted a real boyfriend we'd have one.

The lady has a point....

[Ms Francisca]

Originally Posted by hotthencold2009

First off I don't know how you girls do it. Call me a pansy or whatever but I get nervous whenever you come to my place. I can't imagine how you feel.

If I feel nervous about a date, I don't do it.

I was thinking and it occurred to me, have you ever just put the profession aside and maybe tried to find a nice guy and see if there is any chemistry I guess you can say.

key word here is "Profession" and it has nothing to do with my personal life. My feelings/outlook on my profession, is the same as yours towards your profession. We both work to make a living. Would you put your profession aside and offer your skills to someone for free? I know it is difficult for most to understand, given the nature of this profession, but it is the answer to your question.

What I'm trying to say is rather then thinking about how it's been or who your next call is going to be, maybe that really nice guy who's funds are little tight would love some companionship. Just a beautiful girl laying next to him watching a movie would sometimes do the trick (doubtful &#128521

I completely understand what you are trying to say, and I also understand why you ask. My profession is extremely difficult in many ways. I can only speak for myself..... When I think of who my next call is going to be, I think about how I can make him happy. What conversation topics interest him, what type of clothing does he like for me to wear, does he like my hair pulled back, or curly and crazy. Beverage he enjoys, snacks, music....BCD, does he enjoy toys, candles, lighting.... A true professional escort takes into consideration much much more than just simply making you cum. I do my best to create chemistry, to make your experience with me enjoyable and most importantly, memorable.
Laying next to a nice guy that I meet outside of "WORK" Is wonderful!! but it is NOT my job/profession, it is my personal life, and it has nothing to do with my profession.

Well that was on my mind and I can't wait to hear some feed back. Take care ladies and be safe!

I hope I was able to help you understand a little better
Besos, Francisca

[Doglegg]

MsFrancisca hit the nail on the head concerning the perfect courtesan.

When the guest is happy and comfortable, the hostess is happy and comfortable.

The main reason I like meeting first.

[Nightshift83]

You pay them to leave not stay. With that being said, act like a kind in a candy store

[SARufus]

[QUOTE=Ms Francisca;1058507626]Originally Posted by hotthencold2009 View Post

key word here is "Profession" and it has nothing to do with my personal life. My feelings/outlook on my profession, is the same as yours towards your profession. We both work to make a living. Would you put your profession aside and offer your skills to someone for free? I know it is difficult for most to understand, given the nature of this profession, but it is the answer to your question.

Yes, I do offer my professional services for free. I volunteer my services to lower income for free. There are probably many other professionals on here that do the same.

[Ms Francisca]

Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

key word here is "Profession" and it has nothing to do with my personal life. My feelings/outlook on my profession, is the same as yours towards your profession. We both work to make a living. Would you put your profession aside and offer your skills to someone for free? I know it is difficult for most to understand, given the nature of this profession, but it is the answer to your question .

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Originally Posted by SARufus

Yes, I do offer my professional services for free. I volunteer my services to lower income for free. There are probably many other professionals on here that do the same.

Many ladies here are both professionals in the sex industry and in "civilian" professions, including myself.

Many have and do offer "Volunteer Services" in our sex industry profession.....
- Free sessions, xtra non paid time, discounts,....

Many providers live normal lives and volunteer for many organizations.
I for one have have taught ESL for a literacy program, volunteered for over 20yrs with several organizations for abused children.

Maybe I am wrong, but I think that when the OP said "put your profession aside and find a nice guy" he was not referring to "volunteer work" but more along the lines of quitting the escort profession for a non-Professional relationship.

To think that because we are Providers we do not have personal sexual relationships is silly..... We are humans, not sex machines.

Besos, Francisca

[Ms Francisca]

Originally Posted by Nightshift83

You pay them to leave not stay. With that being said, act like a kind in a candy store

And I charge to make sure you leave !

[Nightshift83]

As soon as I get strengh in my legs back I'll vanish

[italia]

Originally Posted by hotthencold2009

First off I don't know how you girls do it. Call me a pansy or whatever but I get nervous whenever you come to my place. I can't imagine how you feel. I was thinking and it occurred to me, have you ever just put the profession aside and maybe tried to find a nice guy and see if there is any chemistry I guess you can say. What I'm trying to say is rather then thinking about how it's been or who your next call is going to be, maybe that really nice guy who's funds are little tight would love some companionship. Just a beautiful girl laying next to him watching a movie would sometimes do the trick (doubtful &#128521
Well that was on my mind and I can't wait to hear some feed back. Take care ladies and be safe!

The one who wishes for saving every night is still looking for you. Don't give up, there is always someone looking for

Captain save a .... lady

[ck1942]

Always best to remember this is not a traditional dating site ala match.com etc., imo.

That said, yes, in my multiple decades of hobbying I can recount dozens of hobby relationships transitioning to traditional including a couple of marriages ... and of all of those relationships maybe four or five sustaining past the first year.

[Lil Oral Annie]

I agree with ck. This line of work for us ladies can be somewhat addicting. The money. The strange. I've tried the relationship thing and getting out of this work, but I think most eventually come back.

I think even for the true hobbyists this hobby/lifestyle can be addicting. Hard to get back into a relationship after, etc.

I'm not saying what you're looking for is impossible, but I wouldn't expect a lady to give you her time for free. If she does, consider it a gift, and don't expect it every time.

If you are looking for a relationship, I have had friends find their mates on eharmony, and they are still together. ♥

[lovelyevelyn]

Is said nice guy paying all the bills and extra? We all have our reasons for being here, and I'm doubtful any of us ladies are at a loss for suitors. Also, it's not impossible for us to have a boyfriend and hobby at the same time. Guys do it, so can we. Just saying.

[Samcro84]

^^^. Interesting point. Not sure if I was the boyfriend. Would be an interesting conversation about her day.

Sam