No self respect

[Naughty_Jezabelle]

On my most recent review, a gentleman stated his opinion on me still providing while I am pregnant. He stated that I had no self respect because of this choice. I respectfully have to disagree.

Providing my job. It is my income source. It is how I pay my bills and take care of my responsibilities. Unfortunately, I am not a millionaire. Just because I am expecting a bundle of joy, does not mean that I have less bills or less things to take care of. If I had a "typical" career, I would still not be able to take a pause just because of my condition.

I have a high amount of self respect for myself. And personally if my self image was effected from providing, it wouldn't make a difference if I pregnant or not. I enjoy what I do. And have proven my level of service. Despite being 7 months pregnant, the amount of effort I put into each session or date has not gone down.

I respect that everyone has a right to their own opinion, but until you have met me please do not make assumptions on my self respect or judge my choices. There is no need to out right insult me and try to make me look bad because you don't agree with my choices. We are all in the same boat here, and you shouldn't throw stones when you live in a glass house.

[JusticeMutt]

We are so vain that we care about the opinions of those we do not care for

Don't let this guy get to you, no one cares what he thinks, why should you?

[Naughty_Jezabelle]

Because I care about my reputation. You have known me for a long time Justice, and you know how sweet I am. But that sweetness comes with being some what sensitive to negativity. But thank you for being there for me... always.

[BritishBabe]

In making a statement...It is always more politically correct to say "In my personal opinion". This poster did just that.

Jez, Sorry, to say I am playing both sides of the fence here. He made an opinion, and that's what boards are for. Then again, he made his opinion with out much fact. Let his comment be and you just carry on as you do.....with beauty & light!

[JSmith2010]

I wouldn't worry about it, hopefully just getting that off your chest was all you needed to feel better.

[oldtiger]

In my personal opinion: Fuck 'em.

[Naughty_Jezabelle]

That's pretty much all it was. Just a vent and saying what I needed to made me feel a 1000 times better. I know who I am and I know I am a good provider. We all need to vent every now and then

[JSmith2010]

When I first read this post I thought the comment was from the guy that reviewed you. In that case certainly his opinion is welcomed good or bad, but in this case it was just some random comment from some guy with barely any posts and like one review.

While this place is for opinions, it's not for random rude opinions from someone that hasn't even seen said provider. Opinions are good but being respectful is even better.

[Guest060513]

Originally Posted by oldtiger

In my personal opinion: Fuck 'em.

Dee eye double tee oh!

Jez hun, screw him. Sure he's entitled to an opinion. But seeing as a forum tends to be a sort of community and such, just cuz ya have an opinion doesn't mean it is always of value to the board or topic. Bringing a negative energy to the thread with out of place judgment & criticism was unnecessary, uncalled for, & brought nothing of value to the community when we should be loving & encouraging of one another. It is upon ourselves to try & be mindful of what we post, as it is here for all to see, and forever & ever too. That and it's just plain tacky & rude to make such a statement about someone else! So he may think you're lacking self respect (I'd still love to hear whatever his asinine supporting argument would be, hardly logical no doubt) but personally I already think he's lacking in far many more things to have the absence of couth to publicly say such a think about you when I bet he wouldn't do so if faced with you in person.
Besides, there are plenty of guys who are extremely aroused by the idea of sex with a beautiful bellied pregnant woman! It's not an uncommon fetish, if it would even be considered that. Either way, it's HOT. Not gross. And certainly not lacking of any self respect! Keep doing your thang momma, we love you!

[Pepper_Springfield]

Yeah fuck that asshole! Your body, your business! There are plenty of us guys and gals who luv ya anyway

[darter]

Originally Posted by BritishBabe

In making a statement...It is always more politically correct to say "In my personal opinion". This poster did just that.

I didn't see where he said "In my personal opinion". But even if he had, what right does he have to say she has no self respect? From what I understand, pregnant ladies hormones are usually raging, so why not continue to work? Not to mention guys that seek out pregnant providers, not my cup of tea, but to each their own.

I have yet to have the pleasure of seeing Jez BCD, but have met her a few times. From what I have seen, she is a very warm and caring lady that surely does not lack self respect or confidence.

Jez I'm glad you got that off your chest, don't let it bother you any further!

So to the guy that posted that in her review, "in my personal opinion" you are an ass.

[Likinikki]

In my personal opinion: Fuck 'em.

I think he lost his chance after that little naughty comment! (lol)

Jez, I completely get you...it's never a good feeling to be judged for what you do. Funny how some of the Einsteins can make the dumbest of comments. What the hell does he know about being pregnant or providing...and when has he ever walked in your shoes? Brush it off babygirl...only you know what's good for you!

In my personal opinion, he's dumber than an ass! An ass is actually quite intelligent...that would be an insult! (lol)

[darter]

Originally Posted by Likinikki

In my personal opinion, he's dumber than an ass! An ass is actually quite intelligent...that would be an insult! (lol)

LOL my apologies to the intelligent asses then! Guess I should have put a hole after it.

Damn nothing like being on top of and underneath Nikki!

[Likinikki]

[PaganGuy]

Jez, that guy is a grade A schmuck!
You're an amazing, intelligent, sexy lady with a wonderful outlook on life and nobody is in any position to judge you!