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Ladies we fall in love with you because we seek emotional intimacy
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Ladies we fall in love with you because we seek emotional intimacy
I've had providers ask me in private why do their clients fall in love with them? Why can't they keep it simple, basic, and instinctual. Well I'm no expert but in researching the issue I found that 2 PH'd researchers from George Washington U. found that many of us fall in love with you because we crave emotional intimacy for many different reasons....and many of us are in good company too because we all know the famous or infamous story about how the artistic genius Vincent Van Gogh chopped off his ear and gave it to an escort as a display of his love for her. In short we can't help it we've been doing this for millennia so ladies you will need to either 1.) genuinely reciprocate or 2.) keep on employing your counterfeit intimacy or 3.) get rid of us altogether and find someone that can get with the program.
See Van Gogh spoof below:
PS: I use words like we and us because I'm human too and susceptible to the same kind of feelings but you can bet your bottom dollar that a negro won't be cutting himself for you. lol
This is a good topic. I have experienced this awkward situation with clients before. I have a hard time trying to explain to a smitten man that they are in love with their perceived idea of me, which they have mostly encountered BCD. This thing of ours is about illusions, and need-to-know status communications. You can't truly know a woman until she is not on the clock with you on a continual and consistent basis. Even then, you may be approaching only friendship status 95% of the time.
For those of you who have felt overly emotional for your provider, unless she seriously reciprocates (and you wish to continue seeing her), I suggest toning down your forwardness. Otherwise, if she needs your business and doesn't cut you off despite the awkward position it puts her in, she will have to compensate by creating emotional distance and enforcing stricter time and physical boundaries on you.
This is a good topic. I have experienced this awkward situation with clients before. I have a hard time trying to explain to a smitten man that they are in love with their perceived idea of me, which they have mostly encountered BCD. This thing of ours is about illusions, and need-to-know status communications. You can't truly know a woman until she is not on the clock with you on a continual and consistent basis. Even then, you may be approaching only friendship status 95% of the time.
For those of you who have felt overly emotional for your provider, unless she seriously reciprocates (and you wish to continue seeing her), I suggest toning down your forwardness. Otherwise, if she needs your business and doesn't cut you off despite the awkward position it puts her in, she will have to compensate by creating emotional distance and stricter time and physical boundaries.
This is a good topic. I have experienced this awkward situation with clients before. I have a hard time trying to explain to a smitten man that they are in love with their perceived idea of me, which they have mostly encountered BCD. This thing of ours is about illusions, and need-to-know status communications. You can't truly know a woman until she is not on the clock with you on a continual and consistent basis. Even then, you may be approaching only friendship status 95% of the time.
For those of you who have felt overly emotional for your provider, unless she seriously reciprocates (and you wish to continue seeing her), I suggest toning down your forwardness. Otherwise, if she needs your business and doesn't cut you off despite the awkward position it puts her in, she will have to compensate by creating emotional distance and enforcing stricter time and physical boundaries on you.
This is a good topic. I have experienced this awkward situation with clients before. I have a hard time trying to explain to a smitten man that they are in love with their perceived idea of me, which they have mostly encountered BCD. This thing of ours is about illusions, and need-to-know status communications. You can't truly know a woman until she is not on the clock with you on a continual and consistent basis. Even then, you may be approaching only friendship status 95% of the time.
For those of you who have felt overly emotional for your provider, unless she seriously reciprocates (and you wish to continue seeing her), I suggest toning down your forwardness. Otherwise, if she needs your business and doesn't cut you off despite the awkward position it puts her in, she will have to compensate by creating emotional distance and enforcing stricter time and physical boundaries on you.
good advice though ....I fell in love with 2 providers and they reciprocated. it was me that pulled away. the last one though it did kinda affect me because I met her parents and she started holding out on her clients and she told me they could tell she was different. I still feel bad about allowing it to go that far and getting cold feet. she's such a sweetie and has a big heart. fuck me for that one.
Also, I believe some men crave (and choose to afford), IMMEDIATE emotional intimacy. Thus, they subliminally THINK providers are a way for them to cut corners to attain this with their choice of woman.
Also, I believe some men crave (and choose to afford), IMMEDIATE emotional intimacy. Thus, they subliminally THINK providers are a way for them to cut corners to attain this with their choice of woman.
OK you can go away now YM and stop fucking with my mind. you're irritating me....
I had a provider I saw that started to text me how she missed me, thought I was attractive, and caught herself thinking about me a lot, etc. I had to pull away as I wasn't able to trust her intentions. The attractive part gave her away cuz I'm one ugly SOB!
I don't know if it's the analytical person in me, but I'm able to fully separate this from love. Doesn't mean we still can't have a little fun though right 😉
Ladies we fall in love with you because we seek emotional intimacy
In short we can't help it we've been doing this for millennia so ladies you will need to either 1.) genuinely reciprocate 
