The gentlemen on this board have no problems starting threads letting us ladies know how they feel about the way we dress, the way we answer the phone, the way we reply to messages, our weight, if we smoke , the menu, rates, etc. They have had free reign and I'm not complaining. But,
BUT, can you take it as well as you give it? we will see.
Ladies, we are in the business of pleasure, that can mean different things to different people. I try my best to be as attentive & open-minded as possible. I pride myself in being able give a client an out of this world experience and am disappointed when it doesn't turn out that way. But hobbyists, do you think that there is anything other than the monetary compensation, you could or could not do to make it a mutually satisfying experience?
I feel it is time to take a look at the hobby from a provider's point of view...
Let's start with
initial contact. I have heard lots of guys complain about the amount of time it takes for a provider to respond to pm's or emails. And I agree to a point. It's rude to not respond within a couple of days to a pm or email. I feel that if you want a more immediate response, you should call. That's direct communication. I think pm's and emails should be primarily for screening or checking in with an atf you haven't heard from for awhile.How are we supposed to get a feel for you with out speaking directly to you?
And between websites, posts, showcases and reviews, excuse me if I don't make it a priority to tell you what you could've read in the time it took you to compose the email. I'm sure I'm not the only MILF provider, which means my day entails more than making whoopie and preparing to make whoopie.
How many of you guys take into consideration our lives outside of providing?
Then there is the actual session. You guys are sticklers for punctual ladies, as you well should be. We certainly appreciate it when you guys are on time. But being early, is a completely different story. I can only speak for myself when I say, I use every minute to get ready. I consider being early without warning, to be rude. There is always something left undone, last minute perfume spritz, last minute make up fixes, whatever.
Now, Gentlemen, I am expecting some backlash for this, but I have to say it. I think it is funny how in one respect, like answering emails, our appearance, etc., you all are so quick to remind us we are on the job, we need to be professional. And other times...not so much.
I had a gentleman who would come see me who was a stickler about starting sessions on time. Now, I am not into rushing. You book an hour, unless you decide otherwise, you get an hour. I try my best to never make a client feel like this is a business deal. I hate clock watching and rushing. But in reality it is a business arrangement and whatever time we agreed upon should be respected. Which is why I take such offense to the
passive aggressive hobbyist. The guys who are purposefully difficult in the session, but come across as docile and unaware as far as their behavior is concerned,like go over the hour knowing the last thing I want to have to say is 'Time's Up' making them think I didn't enjoy our time together. If you are so adamant about starting on time, be equally so about finishing on time.
And just some food for thought: If you know you have a smaller package, maybe you could shave that bush down before requesting bbj for 30 minutes. Pubic hair in my mouth is gross. Just like you don't want mine in your mouth, the reverse is true. And if you happen to be a plus size guy with a petite member, let's stay away from those positions that only serve to make the situation uncomfortable. You know, doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, etc. It's not in going in, and I resent being put in a situation where I have to tell you that.
And the whole making me come...either be a tad more receptive on how to make that happen, or let's just focus on you.
And speaking of focusing on you, how ridiculous is it for you to want us to engage in certain acts, then when we refuse for health and safety reasons, you get upset. Please don't be angry because I don't want to risk infection or death.
Also let's cut back on the price haggling, the bearded daty, the accidental CIM, the surprise price cuts, the ridiculous requests, the condoms on the floor by the bed, and the wet rags on the floor.
And quit using my 'good towels' to wipe your balls! I put a towel on the counter especially for you!
Spending intimate time with someone that you may or may not be intimately compatible with, in addition to the fact that you don't want to make the person to feel like it's just for money or like you are not enjoying it, is difficult. Mind you, this is not always the case, but when it is, I think both parties involved should do everything they can to make the time as enjoyable as possible for both.
Respect the fact that we are running a business and our time is valuable. Not to mention the fact that we are sharing the most intimate parts of ourselves with you. I know I put forth a great deal of effort into not making you feel like a trick, I think it's it's only fair for you to put effort into to not making us feel like (a) whores or (b) like we were just molested.
Any Provider that's worth a damn, sincerely enjoys sharing herself with you, she enjoys giving pleasure to a gentlemen who can appreciate it and hates being too blatant with the business end of it. She loves the fantasy she creates just as much as you do. Come on guys...meet us half way.
PS,
If the shoes doesn't fit, don't get your briefs in a bunch.
If you feel like I'm talking about you, I probably am.
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