Newbie Question

[grumpy2]

A question from a newbie and his dilemma. Newbie sends out a PM to a provider, provider responds back, since your new send me a copy of your DL (which if anyone hasn't looked at theirs lately) lists the home address. Also provider asks to send a link invite to a Facebook or LinkedIn page. Who sends a invite to a provider to join their Facebook or LinkedIn page? I understand its all about protecting one another but there needs to be a way to establish a link between two people so they both feel comfortable. Providing a DL, Facebook or LinkedIn invite is nothing short of crazy if your married but not so much if your single. Any thoughts?

[rooster]

Originally Posted by grumpy2

.....Any thoughts?

Yeah....don't fucking do it. Or tell her "you show me yours, I'll show you mine." Which will either make her come around or...go away....and no great loss, trust me.

There's tons of gals on here who will see you for a lot less proof of your legitimacy. Giving out this kind of personal info is nuts. See someone else. This one ain't worth it, no matter how hot you think she might be.

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[Cnymoose]

Newbie- I saw a lady for awhile, kept my info private, but found out after I stopped seeing her that her bf has been to jail twice for getting info on people and then attempting to blackmail them. You don't wanna go there.

[Guest072118]

Above advice is good... Specially for an unknown... then again most unknowns dont ask you a thing but what time!

There are some of us you can 'trust' with some sort of personal info, we dont have drama, boyfriends, pimps or any other sort of 'thing'. LOL. Jenna Jones, Busty, Sindi, Lexy, Lilly Gray, Jessica Moore and few others are non trouble good ladies.

Im sure the lady just wanted to see a page to verify you not be 'friends'. Shes looking to see you are not a cop.

A social media page or a job verification is how some screen.

Its a fellas choice on what he wants to provide but, most verified gals do ask for some sort of info to prove you are not a cop, their uncle, their boss, or alerted on/known to be a bad guy.

Participating/reviewing here can help the 'screening process'.

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by ElleW

There are some of us you can 'trust' with some sort of personal info, we dont have drama, boyfriends, pimps or any other sort of 'thing'.

...ps ...yer ...plastic man ...done have a great iso regardin this ...topic ...up in the ml

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Plastic Man

...ps ...yer ...plastic man ...done have a great iso regardin this ...topic ...up in the ml

Mock the 'trust' comment all you want love muff, my other honeys should be along soon to mock it as well.

The ladies above dont have a bunch of negative crap surrounding them and not on the team.

Good to know what you are talking about in mens lounge, is the topic going good?

[jokacz]

Trust No One

[blackops2424]

Originally Posted by jokacz

Trust No One

Agreed

[grumpy2]

After reading some of the responses, I decided to google my personal information on the internet. Information providers ask for and search themselves. I was shocked to see I was able to display my personal information. Information like address, home phone number, etc.. Now I know why some say don't provide personal information for verification. Thanks for the warning guys.

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by grumpy2

After reading some of the responses, I decided to google my personal information on the internet. Information providers ask for and search themselves. I was shocked to see I was able to display my personal information. Information like address, home phone number, etc.. Now I know why some say don't provide personal information for verification. Thanks for the warning guys.

We lost privacy a long time ago...

Lots of ladies dont screen so you wont have to give up any info. Backpage is full of them.

[bigdickdaddydom]

don't feel comfortable seeing someone that doesn't screen.

[Next Best Thing]

I have never once had a problem with a hook asking me for shit like this.

The chances of me providing a hook with anything any more personal than cash are zero.

A lot of the complaints that people post on here - I guess I've been extraordinarily lucky.

[prograde]

Who is asking for this kind of verification? It's probably just to chase you away, lol

[grumpy2]

Originally Posted by prograde

Who is asking for this kind of verification? It's probably just to chase you away, lol

The very first two I've asked for a hour were UBR and lillygray and they both want a DL, a link to either Facebook, LinkedIn, or work badge. I'm thinking to verify information on the internet to see where you live and get your home phone number. So far no one has asked to send a copy of a passport or birth certificate. Providing that kind of information other than showing up with a wallet full of cash doesn't make sense.

[Next Best Thing]

These hooks aren't worth it. It's that simple. Plus there are all kinds of girls who will fuck you any which way no questions asked no matter what they say on here.