Happy birthday Z! As I said before, you look fantastic for 35 

 as for the OP...
Darling, I understand this  as a "newbie" mistake.....but the discretion of many men, as well as providers, was at stake. Please refrain from mentioning said individuals in the future. As it is...we are just a group of people that like to buy lap dances 
There is a lot at stake in these situations; enough said. I am happy that you had a fun time - however, do not reference these individuals in the future. 
Have a happy Tuesday