Smh Smh Smh! Am I Rebel -r- Horrible Provider

[GingerCakexxx]

Why do i get called a bad provider on eccie
Because i won't do cim are bbfs
I heard this site was good
But everybody wants bbfs are cim
And i get called waiste of time
Because i say no!

Are get threatned with bad reviews
Because i want do those type of things

I just want to respected not threatened! Because hobbyist have reviews and big names!

I love to please and can be submissive and cater to fetishes!


Before eccie i was on Megapersonal i have over 17 good reviews and their oh2 nsa adultfriender and eccie members!

So i apoligize if you see my reviews are hear i say no to everything

When tbh! Bbbj is on menu i just ask can you provide papers because i can!

[PussySnob]

Well then get to rolling....

[GingerCakexxx]

Im asking a simple ??

Im not trying are wanting to ruffle any feathers! I love eccie its safe! And reliable! But if its alot of bbfs going on then i just want to know! Cause everyone asking for it are seem upset when i say no

[cage196]

If someone is really threatening you with bad reviews because you wont do something, best thing to do is RTM the thread to a moderator. There is a little symbol on the bottom left hand corner of the page that looks like a yield sign with a "!" inside of it. no one should be threatening you. Nice ass by the way..

[GingerCakexxx]

Thank you

[VeryClean]

GingerCakexxx, I'm sorry to hear that you've had an unpleasant experience on ECCIE so far. No one should be forcing you to do things you're uncomfortable with like BBFS or anything else you don't want to do. No one should be threatening you. That's completely unacceptable and shouldn't be tolerated. Your body. Your rules. Period.

Just stay firm and don't get intimidated. Not trying to defend the men on ECCIE but the truth is that, ECCIE providers are more likely to provide full GFE experiences compared to ladies on listcrawler or other sites. So a lot of ECCIE ladies do provide BBBJ and CIM even though it's on your personal NO menu. That may be why a lot of guys were asking you to do those activities. They're so used to receiving it from other ECCIE gals.

For example, the last three ECCIE gals I met, Cat, Blonde Barbie, and Chanel/Wetmouth72, all did CIM and BBBJ on me. Blonde Barbie and Chanel swallowed my seed too. They also didn't ask for any papers from me before doing BBBJ.

Guys might be hesitant to show you their papers (STD test results) because they may not want to share their real world name and other info.

All that being said, there are providers on ECCIE who are not GFE as well. Who don't do CIM or BBBJ. So you can just be one of them if you want. Just hold your ground and soon, the guys will get used to your boundaries. Please remember that there are many lovely ladies and respectful gents here as well. Best of luck and welcome to ECCIE.

[alaine]

A good place to voice your frustration is in the ladies only areas.

[TheOracle]

I think the main objective was to say, "Hey guys I'm not that bad" and counteract some negative comments and her "No" review. In the meantime it might also persuade a few of these kindhearted gents to pay her a visit out of sympathy for how hard she has it in these Eccie streets. Lol. Posting in the ladies only area wouldn't accomplish that.

[VeryClean]

Originally Posted by TheOracle

I think the main objective was to say, "Hey guys I'm not that bad" and counteract some negative comments and her "No" review. In the meantime it might also persuade a few of these kindhearted gents to pay her a visit out of sympathy for how hard she has it in these Eccie streets. Lol. Posting in the ladies only area wouldn't accomplish that.

I enjoy reading your posts, TheOracle, because they make so much darn sense. As always, you're spot on with your commentary in this thread too.

That is not a dig against GingerCakexxx. She's smart to post here in Coed where the men can read her post too. That way, like Oracle wrote, she can address the negative posts and No review written about her and neutralize them. She can also further advertise herself and possibly entice some men into meeting her.

She couldn't have done either if she had posted in the ladies's powder room or infoshare areas. The ladies would have given her some advice but in the end, advice doesn't pay the bills.

[L.A.]

Originally Posted by GingerCakexxx

Why do i get called a bad provider on eccie
Because i won't do cim are bbfs
I heard this site was good
But everybody wants bbfs are cim
And i get called waiste of time
Because i say no!

Are get threatned with bad reviews
Because i want do those type of things

I just want to respected not threatened! Because hobbyist have reviews and big names!

I love to please and can be submissive and cater to fetishes!


Before eccie i was on Megapersonal i have over 17 good reviews and their oh2 nsa adultfriender and eccie members!

So i apoligize if you see my reviews are hear i say no to everything

When tbh! Bbbj is on menu i just ask can you provide papers because i can!

So for a BBBJ you require std test results??
So your menu is your menu and as long as you are upfront about it there shouldn't be any complaints about what you offer. People shouldn't pressure you into doing something you don't want to do either but good luck with that because people are generally assholes.

I will say this: In my experience on eccie about 99% of the providers provide BBBJ as a standard practice. I don't know about BBFS because I don't seek that out and CIM isn't that important to me. But if you're not offering BBBJ without "papers" why would I see you when there are so many quality providers that have no problem with this?
For me if it's between getting a CBJ and staying home and watching porn, I'll choose porn every time. I feel like CBJ you really have no interest in me, or that you don't like what you're doing, etc. Just my $.02

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by L.A.

if it's between getting a CBJ and staying home and watching porn, I'll choose porn every time. I feel like CBJ you really have no interest in me, or that you don't like what you're doing, etc. Just my $.02

me too.. and I feel like I'm pretty much masturbating with a CBJ anyway. I can pull up free porn and save 2 hours of travel and session time.

I don't think guys should berate you for a non-conforming menu.. that is your choice. what I have a problem with, is the many ladies whose ads scream "open-minded, freaky, full menu".. and the lady will barely shake hands.

[Admiral Giggle]

Keep it simple.

If they send a pm making threats of a bad review if you don't offer what they want, rtm the pm. This way we/staff know to look out for a review from the guy.

Also post in the ladies infoshare but don't post the pm. Also, make sure you follow the masking guidelines if you decide to post a number.

If it's a text message or phone call, it's off the site. There's no way to prove who it is. We don't moderate the physical world, only the ECCIE site.

What people do in the privacy of their hotel room, car, bedroom is none of my concern. Maybe when I was younger I would watch in a closet or under the bed, but now, it's no fun.

[Spoogebob Cumpants]

The big D has been the bb capital of America for at least the last decade.
Know your market.
Of course you’re getting asked.
Try the Midwest, it’s less prevalent.

[walter25]

two observations:
1) you responded to both a GFE and PSE ISO thread...both of those would have an assumption of BBBJ
2) if you have a CBJ restriction you need to list that in your BIO. and list any other restrictions (DFK, LFK, DATY, etc).

[GingerCakexxx]

Im just healthy and big on being clean and having good hygiene...

I take care of my self inside and out and get check and tested regularly

So yes i will ask for papers doesnt mean i won't do bbbj are daty!

Just weeding out the hobbyist who dont care about safe play! Are just extra horny and dont care who they see are play with!

So i dont mind being a rebel and taking backlash

Beacause i won't swallow are let a gentleman cim..

Im not a provider for every hobbyist
And wont be pushed r forced to be some ones bare sex doll lol


Im learning the site and the people no hard feelings!

One Qv could turn any hobbyist into a regular!

So if u wanna have fun and safe play! Hmu and you might be the one addicted to my services are bbbj just have pride and care about your self!

Cause if u bash me for wanting to be safe and play safe!
Then that shows me you worried more about your little friend and not your life....

I will update my menu

Daty
Squirter
Bbbj(optional)
Msog
Lfk