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J'Fukka · 08-13-2019, 02:02 PM

I ask because I am a big fan of Jun at Jujubee. But I have read the reviews of Abby/Rata at Jujubee, and I'm very interested in paying her a visit.

Jun has asked me what other spas I have been to, particularly when the ones she worked at got shut down (first Illusions, then Bali). Maybe she's not the jealous type, and I'm overthinking this.

In your experiences, it is a problem for these girls when you see other girls at the same spa?

jmeoffe · 08-13-2019, 02:14 PM

No its not jealousy they don't care about being with you. They want the fucking money.

Hope that helps.

Mulberry · 08-13-2019, 02:19 PM

I believe in this regard women will be women... they are born jealous. So yes I’m sure she is. Combo of cash and jealousy. Interesting she asked me too. Which spa do I visit. I told her many. Just don’t name them. Or the ladies.

Heartsnatcher · 08-13-2019, 04:41 PM

My 6th sense tells me they are more pissed if you see some girls they see as rivals or dislike. Thet spend much more time among themselves than any particular guy, and frictions develop easily between girls or towards a spa owner. You are seen only as an income oportunity most of the time.

Bestman200600 · 08-13-2019, 05:50 PM

Yes they get jealous if your a regular and you see someone else. They are women and they have feelings.

Mr Sassinak · 08-13-2019, 05:50 PM

I would agree. Some of them are frenemies... others are more friends (or at least allies).. and still others are actual enemies.. (not enough to draw literal blood, but they won't be invited to xmas dinner).

So if you are raving about the first or third ones.. they definitely get jealous.. (had that issue with Sha Sha).. if its the second one.. then they sometimes may take it as a challenge to show you that they are better than X.. (or they have specific skills/abilities/talents that the other doesn't have).

In short.. before gushing or making a visit to another obvious.. do some "snooping".. you may find it worth your while in the long term. (and information is never a bad thing to have).

HSL · 08-13-2019, 05:52 PM

The woman/providers who work at spas are whores, by definition. They fuck u & any other guy black, white, asian, old, young, skinny or fat who pays them to do so. They only care if u go to other spas & fuck other whores because
1. They wanna know how much $$ u have so they can get more of it and
2. They wanna know how many other whores u fuck raw cause in the back of their mind they themselves r afraid of getting sum disease.

But bottomline, who cares wat they think & if u r so worried about losing ur gal, tell her she can secure ur future dollars by bringing in other whores at the spa for a 3sum or 4sum.

Cali-or-Bust · 08-13-2019, 06:58 PM

all of the comments havetruth in them, my vote is for HSL...he brought it home.
i’ve had cheating girlfriends and a whore ex wife that came unglued whenever i started to just talk to other women. there were 2 separate sets of rules, one they followed and the other in which they wanted to follow....they’re fucking crazy dude

by the way, rata said she’s promised to me. ; -)

MYQUEST · 08-13-2019, 07:09 PM

HSL, not sure how long you have been seeing the Ladies, but some will definitely get jealous as hell. As stated, those that have regular clients build a relationship, although admittedly a bit warped, and do the question think about who you've seen. I have been told by my go-to girl that if I see a certain lady...she will cut me totally off...she was even mad because she dreamed I was seeing another lady...she didn't see me for two weeks. She was that pissed. Happens more than one might think...women will be women.

BiggD6 · 08-13-2019, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by jmeoffe

No its not jealousy they don't care about being with you. They want the fucking money.

Hope that helps.

That was what I was thinking exactly! They are not jealous, they want to lock you up all to themselves, not because they like you and get jealous, but because they want your cash.

It amuses me when guys think there is something between them and the girl. Granted there are some genuine instances where they get together and even get married. But they are not special, they are not girlfriends, they are working to get our money and must run a tight ship when it comes to customer service with men.

HSL · 08-13-2019, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by MYQUEST

HSL, not sure how long you have been seeing the Ladies, but some will definitely get jealous as hell. As stated, those that have regular clients build a relationship, although admittedly a bit warped, and do the question think about who you've seen. I have been told by my go-to girl that if I see a certain lady...she will cut me totally off...she was even mad because she dreamed I was seeing another lady...she didn't see me for two weeks. She was that pissed. Happens more than one might think...women will be women.

I've been seeing them too long,so long enough to know that they r perfect actresses with an amazing ability to control & manipulate men who crave pussy but can't get it elsewhere. I know many of these manipulative whores personally but don't care about any of them cause I know their true motivation, they use us and we use them.

Just a couple of months ago I had one text me asking me why I came earlier to fuck another girl & I quickly shut her up letting her know I was not there. She said maybe she dreamt about it and heard my voice in her dreams, she apologized & that was it. Later that week I went to fuck her,bent her all the way over,pushed her head under the table and went as hard as I could balls deep and we then went to get a drink and a quick bite to eat.

Now if I'm like most in this board, I would have written about the experience as if I were writing a letter to Penthouse Forum, beat my chest cause I'm an influencer on a freakin whore-board and I got sum whore to buy me drinks & dinner after fucking her hard....but I have a life and I live in reality.

If anyone thinks & believes these providers get jealous please stay home,save ur money cause at the end of the yr I'll have some beachfront property to sell ya in Corona Del Mar that will only cost you $5,000, cash upfront for the transaction, of course.

TexasSausage · 08-13-2019, 09:11 PM

It’s all business. As long as you pay these whores, that’s all that matters.

CosbyCricket · 08-13-2019, 10:36 PM

Even as someone that is married to a (former) provider, I'll agree with everyone else. 99.9% of them just want your money. It is a business and you are a means to an end. It is very bad business for them to become emotionally attached to a customer. They are some damn fine actresses, though. It is definitely possible to become friends with them if you treat them well and visit often. Someone that respects them, doesn't tear them up, and is a reliable source of income makes their lives little bit more bearable.

Treat them well during the session and move on - because they sure as hell will.

Trey83 · 08-14-2019, 12:12 AM

All of my prior experience has been the following: you are not special, you are not the only one. Any other belief is complete fantasy on your part. I had several OTC relationships with providers before I went civvy and they only lasted as long as the girl was having fun or felt she was being paid enough. An honest accounting of how these relationships developed, lasted and ended will be hard to find among mongers here.

mikehammer002001 · 08-14-2019, 07:40 AM

I was satationed in the Philippines for years and v=bar girls (hookers) were very much jealous once you tapped one in a bar they felt they were the only one you could have after that (had many bottles thrown at me). Maybe it was (more than likely) they felt your money was their's. I get the same vib at the amps. Long ago at Smile I got the stink eye when I switched girls.