Open Relationship

[thewoodthatcould]

Where/what is the best place/way to meet people that are open to having an opwn relationship?

[Lena Duvall]

OkCupid.

[justjackie]

Colettes

[thewoodthatcould]

I used to have that app. I totally forgot about it. Thanks for the reminder!

[thewoodthatcould]

What's that?

[thewoodthatcould]

Response got cut off. What is Colettes?

[mover85]

It’s a swingers club.

[Guest021522]

Maybe try fetlife? They post in the events section a few times a month and you can probably meet cool people that way

[thewoodthatcould]

I'm on fetlife, but like most apps, unicorns and couples get preference for people's attentions. I don't have a chiseled body and a horse cock so I like being in an environment where I can interact with people and let my personality shine.

[thewoodthatcould]

In today's swipe right and klout culture, if you aren't able to catch someone's eye, then noone really gives a fuck about your personality.

[thewoodthatcould]

I like the dynamics of an open relationship because it allows each partner to find fulfillment in their various needs from various people. If you want arm candy going to an event, I'm not your guy. You want Mr. Hardbody, then again im not your guy. You want a good laugh, some affection, and a little better than average vanilla sex, then that's more my wheelhouse. You like getting out of the town, state, or country with someone that's more of a friends with benefits vibe, then I could be that guy. You want someone to pay all your bills or spice up your sex life with your primary, probably not the guy.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by thewoodthatcould

I like the dynamics of an open relationship because it allows each partner to find fulfillment in their various needs from various people. If you want arm candy going to an event, I'm not your guy. You want Mr. Hardbody, then again im not your guy. You want a good laugh, some affection, and a little better than average vanilla sex, then that's more my wheelhouse. You like getting out of the town, state, or country with someone that's more of a friends with benefits vibe, then I could be that guy. You want someone to pay all your bills or spice up your sex life with your primary, probably not the guy.

It sounds like you're competing with studs and want the women to settle for less? You're in the right place here, Just trick and go home and both parties are happy.

Better than average compared to whom? There's always guys that are bigger and pound harder so better than average isn't good enough. Keep on tricking and be happy

[thewoodthatcould]

Noted BLM. Trickin has gotten a bit hollow and I know a lot of us in the lifestyle/hobby compartmentalize the different facets of our relationships. If it's just a nut then I've got that covered.

[pmdelites]

open marriage does not necessarily mean swingers, fetish lifestyle, etc.

one could have an open marriage and do or not do those things.

thewoodthatcould, what do you understand open marriage (polyamory?) to mean?

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by pmdelites

open marriage does not necessarily mean swingers, fetish lifestyle, etc.

one could have an open marriage and do or not do those things.

thewoodthatcould, what do you understand open marriage (polyamory?) to mean?

I'll be down for open marriage as long as no other cocks are involved. Now I just need a wife and the other woman to participate with