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Old 09-13-2022, 10:05 AM   #1
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Default How often would you hobby if.....

So I'm new to the hobby and I've found myself increasing my frequency.

In the beginning I would do it once every 2-3 weeks.

Then slowly to every week.

To recently 2-3 times a week.....

Has anyone got tired or needed a "deload week" (phrase used in the exercise and training world) and just needed a week or two or longer off?

Or would you hobby every day if you had the time resources and financial resources?

I'm finding with the extra exercise and viagra my body is starting to feel the effects of this hobby.

Just gathering input from the more seasoned hobbyists.

Thanks!
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Old 09-13-2022, 12:49 PM   #2
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If what? Nice story.
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Old 09-13-2022, 01:09 PM   #3
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If what? Nice story.
How often would you hobby if you had no time or financial restraints?
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Old 09-13-2022, 01:45 PM   #4
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How often would you hobby if you had no time or financial restraints?
A fair question. Of course, there are more variables than that. One is how far I have to drive. Because if I have a few favorites in my backyard, and assuming as you suggest I have no time and financial restraints, then probably 3x a week. It is simply a physical stamina issue.
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Old 09-13-2022, 02:39 PM   #5
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If I had no time or financial restraint, I would still have to avoid the rips but I will hobby until my dick fall off and I may get a strap-on.
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Old 09-13-2022, 03:12 PM   #6
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3 times a day, before each meal.

When I first started hobbying (back when Reagan was still in office) the norm was 3-4 times per week. It has slowed down to 4-5 times per month. Nothing consistent, sometimes up to three times in one week then nothing for a week or two. Mostly due to lack of interest from the ladies.
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When i found the hobby I had fun serial times a week. I was interested in variety and service.

After a couple of months, I slowed down and became more specific on the providers looks and services. If we matched well, then I saw her a lot. If the session was meh...I was one and done.

Today it just depends on the provider. I have some providers who I see a couple of times a month others I see a couple of times a year.
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Old 09-13-2022, 04:40 PM   #8
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So I'm new to the hobby and I've found myself increasing my frequency.

Has anyone got tired or needed a "deload week" (phrase used in the exercise and training world) and just needed a week or two or longer off?

Or would you hobby every day if you had the time resources and financial resources?
Welcome to the game. Lots of variables can effect frequency even if one wanted to hobby daily perhaps it is finances, no one available or to your liking ( my issue) or perhaps the local site crashed. Again. ' Atmosphere' is a huge factor too, that is half the fun sometimes. I like being in sex clubs where you just pick and choose go to the room no bookings, no research, no waiting in parking lots, no hotels to worry about or cops etc.

I'm at this game since 1988 and since I started I liked to have a session 1-2 times a week and by 1990 I realized I can't afford to play the game daily, so I picked up international mongering and I haven't stopped.

I like instant availability, low prices per encounter, hanging out with other guys doing the same and I accept but hate the way it is here. Long story short; I found Germany in 2016 and I won't ever go elsewhere. 24/7/365; inexpensive, an atmosphere one can not describe only experience and it varies by location. For example I love Germany but if you gave me a free ticket to Latin America I'd cash it in and apply it towards a flight to Frankfurt. Been there done that, not my style was fun but simply training grounds for the show. I hit all the places in the world I wanted already for the most part. Now I found my ' Monger Nirvana' as it is called. Just to give you an idea I usually make a trip to Germany every 4-6 weeks and stay for 9-14 days and usually do 3 rooms per day on average, statistics show 2.6. ( Days off)

I take days off, can't perform daily 2X-3X and function properly w/o a ' pause day' ; this is when I spend the day recharging at a Termalbad. We don't have them. The term used when your Schwanz is overworked is ' Überfickt' translates to 'over fucked.' That is the word for ' deload' as you used. Can apply to a guy or a girl. However, once the pause is over; ready again!

80% of the days on holiday I make several rooms but when in the States for several reasons I reduce it and will do 2-3 appts a week; I simply can't help myself. ' Ich brauche Jeden Tag Sex.' Look it up..

Good luck and remember you are the boss doesn't matter if JoeBlow does 12 sessions a year or if JoeBlowII does 350+. Do what makes you happy. The world is your oyster. Good luck.
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If I had no constraints it would be every day multiple times.
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Has anyone got tired or needed a "deload week" (phrase used in the exercise and training world) and just needed a week or two or longer off?
unless you're in your 20s, you actually NEED one.
Starting out I would do weekly or multiple in a week (sometimes multiple in an evening!) and it was just out of excitement....the rush of meeting someone new and doing something naughty
It wasn't because I had to drop loads. My body needed time to recover.


Approaching 50, I biologically I should be able to replenish my body enough for a satisfying ejaculation every 25-28 days. Doing more than that is overkill even though I probably want to drain it via a quickie in the meantime.



Its hard to resist the 'new car smell' of the ladies and meeting new ones and what they could provide. Unfortunately, to get the best experience when you're peaking physically and at full sensitivity.
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Old 09-16-2022, 06:15 AM   #11
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There are hobby sprees where I’ll go three times a day for a whole week and times where I’ll go months without. Listen to your gut. If you need to take a break, take a break.
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Old 09-16-2022, 12:03 PM   #12
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Been slowing down lately, not a money issue or anything health wise just taking a step back.
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Old 09-16-2022, 01:21 PM   #13
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For me, the limiter is both resources and oppertunity.

I am retired on about half pay and live with family (which is fine with me).

My ability to hobby is limited to the cash I can sq1uril away surreptitiously and my limited opportunity to schedule time-away, off-the-grid and UTR so to speak.

Absent those limitations, I'd probably schedule two hour sessions with quality independent providers once or twice a month. At my age, and with my health issues now, that is about what I could handle I believe.
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If time & money were no object, six times per week.
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Old 09-17-2022, 05:05 AM   #15
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Iead some of these posts and think, "Wow, I am a poor SOB. I must be living at or below the poverty linw."

A quality Indy Provider will want $300-#500 per hour these days . . .right? Twice a month could be 12K a year. . . .and I prefer 90min to two hr sessions.

If you guys can swing it financially, more power to you. If you can step out effectivly multiple times a week, with or without big pharma, I envy your virility.
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