A gentle note on comfort and communication

[MJewel]

I wanted to take a moment to share something from the heart.
Every session I offer is meant to be grounding, respectful, and supportive of each person’s comfort. I understand that preferences can vary—some people enjoy quiet, others feel more at ease with a bit of light conversation. I always do my best to read the room, but I also know I’m not a mind reader.

If you’d prefer a completely quiet session, please don’t hesitate to let me know—I’m more than happy to honor that. My goal is always to create a space that feels safe, comfortable, and tailored to you.

Thank you to those who offer grace, clear communication, and continued support it truly means so much.

[MJewel]

If you’re struggling with ED and prefer silence during a session, please say so. Don’t stay quiet and then leave a bad review.

I’m not here to judge you. I know ED can be emotional and sensitive. But I’m also not a mind reader. If light conversation makes you uncomfortable, I’m always happy to adjust but I need to be told.

Leaving a negative review without ever expressing your needs in the moment isn’t fair. I care deeply about the comfort and experience of every client, and I’m always open to communication before, during, or after.

If you want a certain vibe, a quiet space, or something specific that helps you relax, I’m here to create that for you. But silence followed by blame helps no one.

We’re all human. I offer respect, and I ask the same in return.

[CPT Savajo]

I thought good dick sucking skills could cure ED.

[CatMan4u]

MJ that post is well worded
and very politely stated I enjoyed my session with you

[MJewel]

Originally Posted by CatMan4u

MJ that post is well worded
and very politely stated I enjoyed my session with you

Hearted

[AgFox]

Wow! What a polite way to shame someone with ED.

[Cherokeechief]

Thank you MJ that clarifies a lot. Well said !

[Tocroc10]

It’s not about the topic or the amount of conversation. It’s about standing 3 feet away during the session and doing nothing about ranting. She sure doesn’t get it!

[MJewel]

I’m not for everyone - and that’s OK.

I work at a slower, more intentional pace. I’m a low-volume provider by choice because quality and connection matter to me. That means not everyone is going to click with my approach, and that’s perfectly natural. Nor am I going to click with just any random gentleman.

It doesn’t mean I’m doing something wrong. It just means my style isn’t for you and that’s not a problem. I believe in boundaries and I had to learn boundaries or get walked all over.

I value communication. If something ever feels off or unclear, I welcome honest, direct conversation. I’m not ranting, and I don’t take offense to grown-up feedback. I appreciate real talk.

We’re not all meant to fit everywhere. I’d rather be a right fit for a few than compromise to appeal to everyone.

[Layla.]

The first post was good the second was a little far… ED is SOOOO common no need to shame someone for it.

[Layla.]

The first post was good the second was a little far… ED is SOOOO common no need to shame someone for it.