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urhuckleberry · 10-09-2011, 10:49 AM

I am scheduled for an overnighter soon with a lady I have seen many times. Though I am very familiar and comfortable with our "one-hour" dates, I am actually a little nervous about the overnighter! Can you say "giddy"??

Speaking to the ladies and guys who have done overnighters, what are some suggestions, success stories or train wrecks you have experienced?

Our "date" will include dinner, maybe a movie and lots of play time... other ideas on how to pace the night/morning?

Of course her time and companionship is the only consideration, but a guy can dream, can't he?

Huck

TechOne · 10-09-2011, 04:33 PM

Only once, but it was fantastic. 6:00 p.m.: Met at a lounge of her choice, she arrived in a taxi, took a seat at the bar. I arrived and made my approach in front of the other hungry wolves. One drink, off to the house for a romp, petting along the way, showered and dressed for a foreign movie, sub-titles and lots of nudity! Back to the house for another romp, then dressed for a quick bite of sushi, feeding each other, and back to the house for a few minutes in the hot tub, that spilled out onto the deck under the moonlight for alot of 69 and another round. Shower and watched a porn DVD then one more romp over the leather sofa before retiring to the bed for snuggling. Six hours sleep, a quick shower and refresher romp, then downstairs to cook, she follows, dressed only in one of my shirts, it never looked so good. Omelets for breakfast in the first rays of sun on the deck. Another few minutes in the hot tub, and then hoping the neighbors were not watching the floating 69 on a raft in the pool, (this takes two floats or one of you will drown!) conversation never ended, except for the o-ing. We cleaned up, dressed, she help put the house in order, we walked around on outlet mall for a little while, then she wanted to make my day with a real surprise so she suggested that we find a public place and have another go at it. We found a conference room in the cooking school level of the grocery store. How she knew that was there, I don't know! Lunch at an outdoor restaurant with a bottle of wine, she calls a cab, I drive home...and what to my surprise, she is sitting on the front porch in the rocker! Okay, this makes it official, she really knows how to create the perfect fantasy...one more quickie, a shower and a change of clothes and the cab arrives, and the date ends at 4:00

$1200 in 1999 in San Antonio, TX...Miranda, if you read this, call me, same number!

I have never found another that I have entertained the thought of an overnighter...

Lily Blair · 10-09-2011, 04:46 PM

But her a nice dinner.

Let her get some sleep. Specifically, don't try to wake her up at 6am just because you're in the mood.

Anything in between that is all up to you. Movies, wine, whatever. You'll have plenty to do to pass the time

TechOne · 10-09-2011, 07:21 PM

Yeah, and don't try to parade her in front of your friends, that's just tacky.

TechOne · 10-09-2011, 07:26 PM

This will not be your second or third date....more like after two years of monthly fun!

Ginger Doll · 10-09-2011, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by giteneny

Yeah, and don't try to parade her in front of your friends, that's just tacky.

I love being on parade, but I guess I'm just an attention hog like that. I know, I know...you'd never have guessed it, would ya?

Overnighter's are a lot of fun. I've had several. Balance good food, conversation, and mutually enjoyable activities with plenty of flirting to help create anticipation.

Make sure you include a well-documented follow-up for the rest of us. Inquiring minds want to know.

guest100913 · 10-10-2011, 03:22 AM

Some time during the evening, politely and casually learn from her whether morning activities are limited to coffee and a quick visit to the toilet before departure. Some ladies are not morning-friendly and it is best not to learn that at the dawn of a frisky morning. Better to have resolved it in your mind before falling asleep than having to face the unwelcome news as she is departing.

Adrianna xo · 10-10-2011, 08:36 AM

I LOVE having overnights! Generally My dat and I will cook something together or go to a nice dinner. Have a few drinks then head back to his residence or hotel room. I always pack a couple sexy outfits or ask if they have a preference before hand. I get sexy for them.. give them a nice massage then..well we all know what happens after that.

You can't forget to leave them satisfied once again in the morning. I've always had the best times with my over night clients. Deff. A recommendation for hobbyist who want a real GFE experience!

hornygolfer · 10-10-2011, 09:29 AM

My only experience was a disaster. All I can say, is I had seen the provider a couple times prior, but didnt really know them. Too much of a party girl that partied too much. Bad deal all around.

Adrianna xo · 10-10-2011, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by hornygolfer

My only experience was a disaster. All I can say, is I had seen the provider a couple times prior, but didnt really know them. Too much of a party girl that partied too much. Bad deal all around.

I'm sorry you had a bad time. Don't give up hope!

Ginger Doll · 10-10-2011, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by hornygolfer

My only experience was a disaster. All I can say, is I had seen the provider a couple times prior, but didnt really know them. Too much of a party girl that partied too much. Bad deal all around.

It made for a really funny story, though. Lol

Still, sorry that happened to you...

Believe me, that was the exception...not the rule!

Guest032112 · 10-10-2011, 01:20 PM

You have to be comfortable with someone for a planned overnight. Go with the flow - a bottle of pinot grigio, nice dinner, grill and/or cook together or out at a nice restaurant; movie theatre or at home/hotel, more wine, perhaps a trip to the jacuzzi or shower together.

Some of the most fun and memorable hobby memories have involved travel with an ATF to Vegas, shows, lots of partying, strip clubs, etc. Even spa time while I was working.

Be open with each other and understand the groundrules. Pace yourself. Its a hell of a lot more fun if you both get some sleep. You have to know someone pretty well for a wake up in the middle of the night fuckfest, but it's fun. I'd second the motion about morning sex. Know who you're with.

Most of all, HAVE FUN!!!

Guest032112 · 10-10-2011, 01:22 PM

Ohhhh, one more thing. Don't mix pinot grigio, Jack Daniels and a pitcher of margaritas. It reacts badly in the middle of the night . . . (yes, been there / done that with a current fav - you know who you are!

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TechOne · 10-10-2011, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by hornygolfer

My only experience was a disaster. All I can say, is I had seen the provider a couple times prior, but didnt really know them. Too much of a party girl that partied too much. Bad deal all around.

I tried once before, with someone I did not know that well, and too, got a "party girl" that brought blow into my home. She was sent packin' within the first two hours, without getting paid!

Guest010312-3 · 10-12-2011, 01:26 AM

Once upon a time........I did almost all overnights, they can be WONDERFUL or they can leave you watching evey minute tick away on the clock. The biggest thing is making sure you really know each other and that you are compatible for that length of time....just because you enjoy an hour or two with her doesn't mean overnight will be bliss. Most importantly discuss in advance each of your expectations for the night/morning. Have fun!!!