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buzzkill9103 · 12-25-2011, 06:13 PM

ok i was wondering about this. i know many of u regulars on eccie have been with alot of providers. my question is are any of yall not worring about stds being with them. there are plenty of women on this website that i would love to see but having that thought stuck in the back of my mind prevents me from seeing so many of them. how do yall do it. does it scare u? especially with like cim, or bbbj, etc.i was just wondering this. trust me iv had my fair share of providers.

Wakeup · 12-25-2011, 06:29 PM

No...

buzzkill9103 · 12-25-2011, 06:44 PM

lol well said sir

Guest041413-2 · 12-25-2011, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by buzzkill9103

ok i was wondering about this. i know many of u regulars on eccie have been with alot of providers. my question is are any of yall not worring about stds being with them. there are plenty of women on this website that i would love to see but having that thought stuck in the back of my mind prevents me from seeing so many of them. how do yall do it. does it scare u? especially with like cim, or bbbj, etc.i was just wondering this. trust me iv had my fair share of providers.

It's a very big concern of mine as of late, I have severely changed my 'hunt'. I have lately only seen CBJ fems. It's just too risky. But to each his own. I will however see select fems who are reputable as well as very high standards on a BBBJ, DFK, etc. basis. Still, with ALL, there is a risk due to the prior 'gent(s)'. I do not judge anyone. Just seems to be a lot of newbies getting into the game for 'money' with no serious thought/precautions to the risks. I'm slowing down substantially and carefully plotting my next 'slay'.

As always, be safe but enjoy!

The G.O.A.T · 12-25-2011, 08:30 PM

This May be what you're looking for:
http://www.fasebj.org/content/15/10/1795.full

starflash · 12-25-2011, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by The G.O.A.T

This May be what you're looking for:
http://www.fasebj.org/content/15/10/1795.full

Couldn't have said it better..............

BDSaint · 12-26-2011, 01:02 AM

i dunno - I know plenty of gals who r not providers who prolly have more unprotected sex than providers who r having more partners.

The Squirtest · 12-26-2011, 06:44 AM

BK.......you have a good point and all of us, if we have a brain, think of the chances we take when we do these things. I know we run a risk outside of the hobby also, but there is no argument that opportunity presents itself more often inside of the hobby. Things can slip past protection and I'm sure std's can be caught orally. There is one more thing. I have been in the hobby for probably 15 years. In that time I am sure I have had unprotected sex with at least 10 different ladies. Some of them became regulars for a period of time. I am very lucky, because I never caught any thing, but that doesn't change the fact that it's going on. It's a dangerous hobby. Be honest about it and don't do it if you're worried, because you can control nothing. That's what you need to believe. I've had condoms break at least 5 times. I've had women put me in accidentally on a stripper slide, on purpose because they were so hot, and at times, I asked them for it. I'm not sure what "Be Careful" means in this hobby, because it's not an exact science and you can't control anything. I have a lot of trouble walking away from it too. I have plenty of sex outside the hobby, but it gets in your blood. It's hard to quit. I have slowed considerably, mostly because of the risks. Good luck! Be careful!

Jemma Martin · 12-26-2011, 09:11 AM

If guys are that worried about it then if you see a provider ask for cbj and don't do daty. I know most men don't like it, but if you're one of the ones worried about it then it shouldn't be an issue for you. I worry about that all the time because I do bbbj. Guys and girls need to go get checked at least every 3 months if they are in this hobby. I don't think any girl or guy should have unprotected sex with anyone in this hobby because of the risk of an STD spreading if contracted. Some STDs have smells in their private area. If a guy or girl has something funky going on down there then it's a sign to pass on bbbj and daty. Also if they don't look clean or have scars it could mean herpes. It's always safe to know about STDs. My advice is for people who are cautious to just read about it, and get the most understanding from it so they are prepared of what to look for, or even in case they catch it. It's all about safety in this business. Safety for the males and females. You just need to be smart. Health comes before anything!

Jack Flash · 12-26-2011, 01:26 PM

+1 to Jemma

Macie Madrid · 12-26-2011, 01:52 PM

Simple don't risk having unprotected activities at all. If, she will give you a bbbj then protection is definitely not a top on her priority list. Your mouth has the more germs than any part of your body!
And for those guys that are having unprotected activities and claim to have never contracted any thing, LUCKY YOU..HIV can take up to 10 years to detect.
BTW, std's don't have a face...so there's nothing to look for! HERE are some facts....
Most people who have chlamydia don’t know it since the disease often has no symptoms.
Genital herpes is a common STD, and most people with genital herpes infection do not know they have it.
These provider's know that providing bbbj to a client is dangerous, he will probably perform bbfs if it is offered to him. So, what makes a bbbj safe in any any form! BARE is NOT safe when performing anything especially when you provide several times a week...more risk..duh!
From the moment I started providing my first caution has always been protection. I don't want to wreck anyone's life due to a simple night of unprotected pleasure!
Someone needs to request a protected services section for providers on this site...NO PROTECTION, NO SERVICE!

chrissy · 12-26-2011, 02:53 PM

great!...ANOTHER thread thats going to make ALL the bbbj providers/clients go defensive..or bump the thread down as fast as they can..lol..

Porn star/girlfriend activities listed on a escort site doesn't make sense to me either? Hell neither does bringing up the "president" in an escort forum...But half the stuff here doesn't make sense to me...lol...

I think of the families when I do gather with a friend..EVERY one in our lives are affected by our secret/public actions..The light always shines through even the darkest places..

http://www.testimonyshare.com/my-std...former-escort/

http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/c...me-an-std.html

enderwiggin · 12-26-2011, 02:58 PM

Life has risks. Figure out what risks you're comfortable taking and go from there. And remember the ONLY form of safe sex is abstinence... *facepalm*

BMW · 01-11-2012, 01:53 AM

I'm actually glad you asked that question Buzzkill. I have thought to ask it myself on this site since you rarely see anyone talking about this. I've been curious to hear more what the men on this site have to say. I don't think most want to discuss the subject or shame to admit they may have contracted something from hobbying. I personally used to limit getting BBBJs from providers until I got to know them as good as I could to get a feel for their personal hygeine habits. It's not a 100% sure method, but its better than not giving it a second thought. I would even sometimes stop getting BBBJ when having a SO while hobbying. And then stopped it all together when I got married. The fear and guilt of what I could pass on to my SO, because I wanted to feel the real thing just became to much of a burden.

I always felt so stupid afterwards getting a BBJ, but would also feel very satisfied. Lol. I've been hobbying for about 17 years and had an STD 3 times from it. Twice from girls in SC and once from action off the street. These incidents were a long time ago and lucky they were fully treatable and I immediately made sure I told the provider about it so they wont keep passing it on. Definitely didn't get mad or blame them becuase I willingly took the chance as much as they did. I then tried getting a little smarter It got to when I did do BBBJ, I would start popping pills a few days after just in case I caught something treatable and then avoid contact with SO just to be sure. Guilt is a mother and it's terrible not knowing.

But I don't down anyone who doesn't fear taking the chance or anyone who provides BBBJ. I just always hope most get themselve checked on a regular, but I can bet few probably do. But the temptation to get BBBJ is so strong. I read a lot of these reviews and want to partake in it so bad like the past but I stay with CBJ, but when it comes down to it, I know what I have to lose if I pass something on to SO. You just got to decided what is important to you. So yes its scary. The women who provide these unprotected services on a regular are very brave because they are putting their trust that these guys are not going to knowingly pass something on to them. I just can't believe someone who does this for a living or so frequent doesn't catch something at some point and I'm talking about providers and hobbyist. Who knows, some may not even care about protecting others. Money can make you not give a damn about morals. And the thoughts of a nice bbbj can be too tempting to turn down. I fight the temptations all the time now, and its hard, but I just don't like popping pills just in case any more. It's just too hectic. And don't get me wrong, I'm quite aware that you can have the same issues from people not in the business, but this hobby is definitely a lot more risky.

landon · 01-11-2012, 10:16 PM

There is no doubt hobbying is dangerous like Naval Aviation. Your either in the program or your not. I like doing hot gals like a Naval Pilot loves flying jets.

However, I do everything covered and avoid sex with those I consider high risk. You really have know way of knowing who all they have done that week. Your romp with that extras girl at the club could be her 5th time to play today. Anyone can have it - the Chronicle report about 1/3 of state HIV in Harris county sobering.

I generally prefer SA gals or Strippers I meet otc. Currently I am rotating two gals both x strippers - one I have been doing three years. They are stable, responsible and not high volume providers.