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pamelasosexy · 07-16-2012, 05:08 PM

What do YOU think?? I wonder if maybe some gals are concerned about becoming a new provider and listing with Eccie because of all of the bickering on here?? Don't we have enough going on in our town that is negative (take a look at the local news each day) and/or depressing?

Using words like "repulsive" that over-emphasize your "point to get across" instead of "a little different and not as attractive in MY eyes in the looks department" or "appeared not as advertised and a bit on the unattractive side to me" is just being mean IMHO.

We all have different tastes here but I don't think being rude or mean in our choice of words to describe a provider or client is something that ANYONE likes to read.(If it IS truly something that bad I would guess it should be listed as an alert possibly)

For instance I have stretch marks. I don't particularly find them attractive at all. Not many women or men do. But, and as an example, using the expression" Looking like tracks after a train wreck" is IMHO being both rude and harsh when a person could say something like, " Stretch marks in all of the places you"d expect after one has a child or children".
EXAMPLE:

I take my own pics which will change shortly here. I had some miss-diagnosed heart conditions and was placed on medication that had me gaining weight like a hungry hippo. I posted as a BBW and caught flack (which by the way was kinda nice) because most didn't think I qualified in that category. When I do have them taken by another source, I have in the past and will in the near future, be careful to let that person know that photo-shopping them won't be an option as I do not want to falsely advertise. I'm not saying that some providers do or don't use this technique I'm just saying that I won't.
Back to subject and question....

Unless obvious deception was at hand:

What do you all as both providers and clients consider as "terms" and "verbiage" that would be both FAIR and TRUE to use in describing "not so admirable items" in a post or a review???

(Now if something is grossly wrong that would be different. I'm talking here about things of a nature where it's a matter of personal preference.)

Oh yes, and by the way, most of us...providers and clients...can usually tell when someone is dogging a person in an attempt to harm their acceptance by others vs. giving out helpful information (whether good or not so good) to assist someone in the decision making process... so keep in mind :

"To belittle is 'to Be little'".

pamelasosexy · 07-17-2012, 12:22 AM

Funny.... 7 hours later and no replies... Guess I will have to reply soon.

Jay Walker · 07-17-2012, 01:20 AM

Don't take it too hard. You are a naturally full figured, mature woman. Continue to own it. You are not a 20 something covergirl, and that's ok. Almost every girl here will be criticized at some point.

I found you to be clean, outgoing, completely sober and coherent. Your incall was very tidy and orderly. Sadly, I find these things quite uncommon, so keep that up. It's refreshing. Oh, and before I forget to mention, I found you to be an incredibly enthusiastic and open minded lay.

If I could offer one piece of advice; you spent a good bit of time in the bathroom, grooming, while I sat awkwardly on the bed. Others have mentioned this delay to me as well. Of course, it's your prerogative, but it was just a little uncomfortable to me. I know it wasn't a ploy to burn time because you were certainly no clock watcher with me, and once you finally came out of the restroom, it was nothing short of no holes barred fun.

Again, you won't be for everyone, but given your services and rates, I can't imagine that you won't have a solid client base.

Stay safe, and keep enjoying the fun stuff!

Ebony Jasmine Love Austin · 07-17-2012, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by pamelasosexy

Oh yes, and by the way, most of us...providers and clients...can usually tell when someone is dogging a person in an attempt to harm their acceptance by others vs. giving out helpful information (whether good or not so good) to assist someone in the decision making process... so keep in mind :

"To belittle is 'to Be little'".

You kinda came full circle. I totally agree with this statement.

Clean, sober, and willing; what more could you ask for?

Don't sweat it Pamela. Some people like to make decisions for themselves and not go based on other peoples negative opinions. For every one who might dog you out, there is another one who is panting like a dog for you.

Brush your shoulders off.

John_Dough · 07-17-2012, 08:28 AM

The way Pamela takes care of herself , carries herself , and treats a guy is great. She defines sensual. Those that pick apart someone over a pimpe or stretch mark are so focused on just the packaging they don't know how to really enjoy the toy inside.

Eva Damita · 07-17-2012, 10:44 AM

Don't let it get to you...there are jerks everywhere...and honestly, I feel for SOME, its an ego thing to make them feel better about themselves that they're cheating on their wives, risking everything...
And its also a way to de-value us to sheild the fact that without us, there would be not as many happy laps! You are GORGEOUS mama! Just because some get ahead of themselves as far as criticizing providers, doesn't change the fact that you are you - beautiful.