So after traveling weekly to Dallas for more than a month I decided to get acquainted with one of the fine providers this city has to offer. I spent a couple weeks researching reviews, showcases, threads, etc. to try and find the perfect match. For me the huge musts were GFE/IOP so I based my choice off of reviews that seemed favorable. I narrowed things down and started PMs and chats with the lady I planned to meet.
Game night, everything starts out great. She shows up on time, better looking than her pictures and the cutest texas drawl y'all seem to have going on down here. Talked for probably 20 minutes just getting know each other before we started kissing and moved to the bed for some serious making out. Lot's of DFK and groping. After a bit different articles of clothing started to get removed and I as noticed there were no panties under the skirt, I headed south for some DATY.
Now like most guys I consider myself the greatest DATYer of all times. But I have noticed that it takes some time to find out how fast/slow, hard/soft, etc. my partner likes before my talents start to shine
Any ways, I was working for maybe 10 minutes trying to dial in the right coordinates. Started getting positive feedback - moans and groans, grabbing the back of my head, etc. Then I looked up. Her head was turned watching TV. At first I thought maybe it was just a momentary thing but I checked back and sure enough, she was tuned in and watching the show.
For me, this really kind of killed things. I get what the "I" means in IOP but this was hard to get out of my head. I quit after this and she moved on to some BBBJ which was fine but at this point my mind was getting preoccupied with this turn of events. She got out the cover and started cowgirl. Being married and an extremely infrequent hobbyist I don't come into contact very often with condoms. The stars have to be well aligned or my penis panics and thinks he's getting asphyxiated
Needless to say, things didn't get better. We stopped this pretty quick and went back to making out but I could tell my head wasn't going to let this go so we wrapped things up.
Now i'm trying to figure out where to go from here. Clearly the problem is in my head, she was nothing but sweet regardless of what happened. My actions items so far are:
1) Eat better pussy
2) Turn off the TV when naked ladies are in my hotel room.
After this it gets a little less clear and I'm looking for some opinions. Do I:
1) See the same provider again and hope the familiarity helps things along?
2) Try and find someone similar but new and roll the dice?
3) Abandon this whole notion of IOP/GFE and just concentrate on something nasty?
4) Take a hiatus and come back to the hobby somewhere down the road.
Anyway, pretty long winded, but thanks for reading and chiming in if you care to.
DATY & Storage Wars
