Some honest advice needed!

[sabrina nicole]

I first want to tell the board sorry for the post I dropped that really sounded like a ad.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=62210

If we as providers wanted to post a (realtime) ad can we do that with out it being a problem.

I know there is backpage but I have found alot of problems come with that way of posting.


I just needed some advice on this so I don't break any rules here.

I love this board and the member's I have seen from here has been alot of fun.

If anyone has some honest advice on the subject please pm me I am always trying to understand more about the hobby.

[Guest071613-2]

Sabrina,

You may post once a week in the provider ads section, and on the weekends in the weekend lineup. So you get to post two ads a week and get business from consistent, good reviews. Not a bad deal. To answer your question, no, there isn't a way to do it here in real time without it becoming an issue.

I'm not sure of other 'real-time' sites, other than CL and BP. I don't use them because it's nearly impossible to screen someone very well, in an hour. Sometimes it can take a day or two (or more, depending on who you are waiting to hear back from), so that's why there are problems with those kind of sites. You have a bunch of guys who don't want to be screened, and a bunch of girls who don't care/don't know how to screen them, amongst other things. Generally speaking.

But, to each their own advertising and screening methods. Eccie and P411 keep me plenty busy. Just hang in there, it gets better.

[am-a-pleaser]

Maybe if you participate in some threads when you're finding yourself with time and desire to see someone, you'll catch a guy's attention and he'll contact you. Also look in the ISO section. Some guys will start a thread there, looking for some last minute action.

[WarlockAahz]

And there's always the chat room. It's starting to get busy at times.

[Iaintliein]

Free advice is always worth exactly what you pay for it, but since you asked.

Some guys don't like to feel pursued, so you might ask your clients in advance. But for those who don't mind you could drop PM's to let them know you have an unexpected opening etc. I definitely would not recommend using the phone of course.

Regards,

[Jules Jaguar]

i noticed some hater activity in that thread when i read it the 1st time. im sure you didnt mean any harm and i feel your frustration it really sucks when its slow and who wants to return to bp? im still learning the ropes myself. dont take it personal ive noticed a few haters lurking around lately and its the same people doing it to all the "newbies" shout out to all the ladies who welcome the newer girls with open arms yall are great! haters not so much. sabrina im sure you will do fine we all have our slow nights and days but most of the time it all works out in the end chica

[lisa.lisa0302]

Say what! you noticed some hating! It was an ad! period.

I certainly was not hating, her threADS does not bother me. However she may get attention she does not want.

To Sabrina, its many places to advertise and put yourself out there. If its slow in one area, pack up and tour for a week or two. Guaranteed to bring in extra cash if you pick the right spot. Trust me

One of the haters
Lisa

[hotlips_houlihan]

Originally Posted by 214JULES

i noticed some hater activity in that thread when i read it the 1st time. im sure you didnt mean any harm dont take it personal ive noticed a few haters lurking around lately and its the same people doing it to all the "newbies"

Jules, It is nothing personally against Sabrina, but you know not of what you speak so please, stay in your lane.

She was called out on posting an ad here, she posted an ad similar to the thread you are talking about here, another "i'm slow is it location" thread here, a mod directed her to post in ads and not discussions here, yet it continues. I can post more if that isn't enough for you. Do you see the pattern now?

Sabrina

It's rough sometimes when different boards or posting sites have different rules. Hard to keep them straight sometimes. But as Dannie pointed out, we are already permitted to post 2 ads a week. Other than that, just post pertinent items in discussions and you will get noticed. Check the ISO section for guys looking and send them a PM or post in the thread. For real time, try escortphotos.net. I think that is what it is.

You are well-liked by the guys here, so you will do well. Just don't step on your sister's toes because believe it or not, we need one another too.

Good luck.

Meg

[Fiero]

Hi Sabrina,

First...you seem like a nice person and I was impressed that you have come back to this topic seeking to understand. I usually stick to snappy one liners but this topic has inspired me to jump in...

IMO...the guys know where the ads are and we know when they get updated. Posting a weekly and even a weekend ad is enough. I think just joining in on the board and being yourself is a great way to get known and generate interest from the boys. I know for me...it's often the regular posts here that motivate me to go seek more information on a lady and find her ad (in the ad place )

I think some of your peers raising the concern are helping you because the guys may not overtly tell you they don't like "subtle" ads (and they aren't subtle) but my view is that there are a percentage of us that don't care for it and from my view...you don't NEED to do that to be successful here. In other words...what you gain in the short term may hurt you in the long run.

I'm not trying to stir the pot and I speak for myself not all the guys because there are many men here with many different approaches and reasons for being here...but I thought I'd offer a data point from one mans perspective.

[Guest050911]

Sabrina,

This are what we call "Look At Me" thread... It is an ad...

We do want you to contribute to the board, and you do...

But this is unfair to other ladies that do follow the Ad Posting guidelines...

PPE

Everyone,

I think she has had enough of us telling her what she did wrong...

But Sabrina,

Please also try not to create a post that refers to a "Look at Me" thread.

Thanks,
PPE

[Jules Jaguar]

lol meoooooooow!
(shakes finger at myself)
good day ladies and gents

[tjs8488]

I don't understand the once a week rule hell I don't understand half the rules on here. So why can't the girls post more then once a week in each section? Also one more if a guy can post a "looking for right now" in the ISO section why can't the girls?

[guest031012]

If we were allowed to post ads as much as we wanted, some girls would FLOOD the board with their ads. If we each get to advertise once a week, it makes the ad section easier to browser for the gentlemen - each click is a new girl.

They do it that way so no one girl gets more exposure than others. It's fair in my opinion.

[Guest071613-2]

Originally Posted by tjs8488

So why can't the girls post more then once a week in each section? Also one more if a guy can post a "looking for right now" in the ISO section why can't the girls?

Because those are the rules. Don't like em'? There are other boards.

The fact that there is even a weekend lineup is a step up. Two or three years ago it was once a week.

Jules, no one is picking on anyone...those of us who have been abiding by the rules for years, get tired of girls coming in and disregarding them as though they have special privileges that allow them to ignore what has been so clearly stated. This ISN'T CL or BP, despite the influx of that quality of provider coming here from those sites, so that's where all the confusion comes from. Girls are coming here in droves from places with no rules, no regulation, and expect they can do the same here...even though these same girls complain about how crappy those sites are, they come here and want it to be the same set up.


*If you want to post an ad every two hours, stay on BP and CL, and don't complain about how shitty the guys are that see you from those sites.

*If you want to see a bazillion ads from the same provider every hour or two, stay on BP and CL and don't complain about how shitty the providers are that you see from those sites.



That's my two cents, take it for what it's worth.

[Guest101610-2]

Originally Posted by am-a-pleaser

Maybe if you participate in some threads when you're finding yourself with time and desire to see someone, you'll catch a guy's attention and he'll contact you. Also look in the ISO section. Some guys will start a thread there, looking for some last minute action.

OK GOD don't tell providers that. You must have not been around when the women posted nothing but look at me crap. I'm guilty of it too in the old days. DON'T post just to get attention. You will accomplish getting the attention, and it will almost always be BAD attention.

The rules are posted just like Danne has already said. I'm really starting to appreciate the iron fist in which ASPD was run sometimes.

The best advice is to be yourself. You just won't believe how transparent a look at me post is... even if you get one fish on your hook, you will run off another 10.



Here's a brief run down of the year newbie ladies...

Jan is busy. It stays that way till spring break. Then it's slow

Picks up again till schools out then it's slow (summer time is always slow. it's like that every year for most providers. If you are slow, it isn't you or your location, or anything else you can post about.)

School starting - busy

slows down around state fair time, then busy till holidays start .

The fourth quarter projections thread will be posted in August like it always is and I will make it a little easier to read.




One other thought... If you are slow, for goodness sake don't broadcast it. What guy wants to see a girl that can't attract attention selling pussy? You cut your own throat. I'd be willing to bet you stay slow till you can get these "look at me" threads away from your name. There are enough trip up's in this business without you throwing your own boulder in the road.

Relax.