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Ms. Milani · 03-05-2013, 11:12 PM

Hello everyone!
I am writing this thread to let everyone know a few things. I will no longer be offering BNGs. Nor will I be offering any sessions less than 30 minutes. Within the next 2-3 months I will phase out 30 minute sessions completely for new clientele. Only past friends will be able to take advantage of 30 minute sessions.

Also my "Deal or No Deal" special is over. Please disregard my weekend ad. My rates are now my regular rates.

I would also like to be very clear about something. I have heard from some griping about my rates. They think that because I've had a child that I am not worth that much. I'm assuming that everyone thinks I've become grotesquely huge and loose. I assure you this is not the case. While I may have posted before that I was "fluffy" I meant that to be funny. I only weigh now about 10 more pounds than I did before I got pregnant. So I'm not huge. My boobs have gone a cup size up and my hips a little rounder but I am still the Malaya you used to know. And I am no where near loose. My sweet spot is still very tight and it takes me a little bit to get used to playing. My rates are the same as they were back before I got pregnant. I tried to lower them and many took advantage of that and that is why the special was discontinued. If you think I'm not worth my regular rates then you're not the kind of clients I wish to see anyways. I enjoy clients who enjoy me.

I am taking steps in my life to ensure my continued success in the hobby. I appreciate understanding and hope that some of you make the journey with me. Old friends and new friends have all made an impact on my life. Some good and some bad but I've learned from every one of them. I've learned to respect myself and to not down myself because someone else doesn't like me. I've learned that I cannot please everyone (I used to try so very hard). I've learned to stay out of drama because it's not worth the headache. I've learned to love every inch of my body.

I want to continue meeting new friends and sharing the happiness I have within me. To make one smile brings me great joy. But I will not bend over backwards to please someone who mistreats me. I would like to say I'm one of a kind. I'm loving, caring, open minded, intelligent, sexy, and with just a little bit of spice to make things exciting. I hope that you will allow me to continue to share my happiness here on the board and for new and old clients my passion BCD.

Hugs and Kisses to All,

Malaya

Blckpr · 03-05-2013, 11:25 PM

Good for you sexy lady!

Fancyinheels · 03-05-2013, 11:42 PM

Sounds fair to me. Irish luck, Malaya, and congrats on the birth of the wee one!

big35hurt · 03-06-2013, 06:13 AM

Well said. It anyone dont like it tell them to move on.

B35H

rockerrick · 03-06-2013, 06:28 AM

Gee a new daily ad ? Ooops I mean ThreAd !

Guest101114 · 03-06-2013, 08:21 AM

It's your business...run it however you want

Ms. Milani · 03-06-2013, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

Gee a new daily ad ? Ooops I mean ThreAd !

I'm sorry you feel that way. I had no intention of it being a ThreAd. My apologies if this thread upset you in any way.

MsPrittiKitti · 03-06-2013, 10:21 AM

hey sexy lady!!!
some folks will consider any thread a lady starts as a "threAD".
some folks will "hate" just because and w/o any reason.
you dont have to defend yourself or try to figure out "why" some people do things, or say things...it just is.
the more you respond...the more "reason" (whatever it may be, will probably never know) you give them to "hate"
(i never say "hate" lol but it was the text messages)
i know its easier said than done...but dont pay it no mind.
if you give into it....this will easily be turned into a 5page thread....filled with drama, and the original post will be overlooked.

chin up babygirl!!!
wanna do lunch or something?
better yet, todays wed. megaplex, ladys day.....wanna go shopping??

Ms. Milani · 03-06-2013, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

hey sexy lady!!!
some folks will consider any thread a lady starts as a "threAD".
some folks will "hate" just because and w/o any reason.
you dont have to defend yourself or try to figure out "why" some people do things, or say things...it just is.
the more you respond...the more "reason" (whatever it may be, will probably never know) you give them to "hate"
(i never say "hate" lol but it was the text messages)
i know its easier said than done...but dont pay it no mind.
if you give into it....this will easily be turned into a 5page thread....filled with drama, and the original post will be overlooked.

chin up babygirl!!!
wanna do lunch or something?
better yet, todays wed. megaplex, ladys day.....wanna go shopping??

I'd love to go do some naughty shopping today! I will text you. Hugs and thank you for your wise words.

rockerrick · 03-06-2013, 10:31 AM

I read before the edit , so I will answer . I think you put too much into a smartass comment , I make them regularly . I don't read every single thread , and I have commented on other ThreAds ! Hate is a strong word that would require emotional attachment to achieve , and as you stated we have never met . I just comment because in every other city this is what you would hear , they will not pat you on the back . They will call a thread a ThreAd , when you post in a coed forum , you can't expect everyone will agree , compliment , or supposedly go out of their way to hate on you . And every time I've read stuff about a ladies vajayjay's it's been written by a pimp , ladies don't normally talk about that ! But the truth is it sounds as insecure as I sound
mean !

MsPrittiKitti · 03-06-2013, 10:36 AM

lol....rock. i was using the word "hate" in its slang context
but i totally agree...not everyone will agree, or like whats written.
malaya hasnt had her daily orgasm....you just have to excuse her for right now.

"we're" going to go fix that problem

Ms. Milani · 03-06-2013, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

lol....rock. i was using the word "hate" in its slang context
but i totally agree...not everyone will agree, or like whats written.
malaya hasnt had her daily orgasm....you just have to excuse her for right now.

"we're" going to go fix that problem

Aw yay!!!

dbeartx · 03-06-2013, 10:55 AM

I normally don't chime in on these... I never saw you before your pregnancy, and I've never had a session with you, but I have seen you (like laid eyes on you) and I think your gorgeous. I didn't introduce myself, but should have... I'm shy like that

It's a business, your business. Run it how you want to and don't apologize or explain. If you don't like a certain "customer" than don't see him or her i guess... The same goes for us "customers", if we don't like a provider, we don't have to see them. Just update your showcase with your rate, put it in your new weekly or weekend ad, and ignore the ones you want to ignore. Posts are not spoken word, so they lack inflection and meaning, that lends them to arbitrary interpretation and sometimes cause a bigger fuss than what you meant.

Side note, what is a ThreAd? Just an ad in a thread?

Ms. Milani · 03-06-2013, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by dbeartx

I normally don't chime in on these... I never saw you before your pregnancy, and I've never had a session with you, but I have seen you (like laid eyes on you) and I think your gorgeous. I didn't introduce myself, but should have... I'm shy like that

It's a business, your business. Run it how you want to and don't apologize or explain. If you don't like a certain "customer" than don't see him or her i guess... The same goes for us "customers", if we don't like a provider, we don't have to see them. Just update your showcase with your rate, put it in your new weekly or weekend ad, and ignore the ones you want to ignore. Posts are not spoken word, so they lack inflection and meaning, that lends them to arbitrary interpretation and sometimes cause a bigger fuss than what you meant.

Side note, what is a ThreAd? Just an ad in a thread?

Aw thank you.

And yes a ThreAd is an ad in a thread.

Guest120113 · 03-06-2013, 12:44 PM

Ok... I haven't responded here because I think you are a sweet girl and I know it is difficult for you to feel as though you are being judged. Let me state for the record this isn't an attack... just a logical response to the content in this thread.

You stated that some clients have acted as if your price is too high and jump on the assumption that your pregnancy is cause for them to feel as if you aren't "good enough" to warrant it. But you had a "name your price" special for the last week or two... I can't help but wonder what kind of clients you thought that sort of promotion would attract? I saw it and was scared for you... and cringed wondering what you were waking up to in your inbox. From your recent posts and the fact that the special is now over suddenly I can't help but imagine that the experience was not a pleasant one.

However... that doesn't mean the entire hobby world is ganging up on you or talking about how loose your pussy may or may not be. It doesn't mean you are undervalued as a provider or that the men have devoted all their efforts and energy to talking shit about you in the locker room. It means that you are... as stated... a business owner and frankly... you chose to run a terrible promotion. You attracted some sleazy pricks that have your head spinning and your self worth in question. Business owners make mistakes. Then... they learn from them.