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MsPrittiKitti · 03-11-2013, 08:56 PM

This is a 2-part question.

1. What does your "gf" or rather, your SO do...that you wish more providers would do?
And
2. What is it that you enjoy about a "gfe experience" that you wish your SO would do?

I'll answer :t

1. If this was a perfect safe world, and there were NO consequences from our actions, im sure "bareback" would be more than one persons answers. This isnt a perfect world...so letscnot get lost in the thoughts of bb.

....i think swallow too

2. Maybe guys wish their real lovers, would dress up or role play more?
....or maybe guys wish their real lovers wouldnt nag n would just f*ck....a lot! Lol

Lets hear it!!!

Marcus78 · 03-11-2013, 09:18 PM

1. You said it: bareback. Also, provide for free....or rather for dinner and a movie/a date night!

2. More BJ's (and swallowing to go along with it!) Never was into the kinky stuff or role playing, but a good rim job would be a welcome treat in my bedroom, even if it's not traditionally part of the "GFE" package.

Also, openenss to having a threesome with another girl.

mwsatx · 03-11-2013, 10:00 PM

1. Not sure I have an answer for this one. Providers do everything my SO will do and 1000x more. Since this is a fantasy, bareback would be nice as would true GFE. I'd love to meet a provider that really & truly enjoys kissing. And also one that would make me a sandwich.

2. Communication and openness. Willingness to talk about fantasies and desires, no matter how far "out there" without the fear of being criticized or being made to feel like a freak. Ability to let the problems of the day go away and focus on the intimacy and passion.

FootLong · 03-11-2013, 10:02 PM

1. A "Girlfriend Experience" (GFE) should, like an actual girlfriend, include kissing (DFK or at least LFK), and BBBJ. Bareback FS of course is not expected or desired in a provider.

2. Would be nice if an SO would provide with no strings attached...and cost less than a provider.

Guest120113 · 03-11-2013, 10:31 PM

!.) NO s.o. but when the last one was around, sure would have been nice to know he had a gf already that he lived with... I was basicly his provider, except instead of $$ he paid me in lies and false promises. BB of course. Wish the sob had done some actual oral work on ME rather than the other way around, but hell... ECCIE boys ( and gals ) have made up for the last 2 deadbeats with all the DATY goin on. So ECCIE... will you be my SO? lol.

2.) If I had an actual SO I cared for emotionally, I'd greek it up and swallow. In addition I'd showcase my "bitchin in the kitchen" skillset, and I would NO LONGER see men here, after of course, announcing a retirement, then UTR.

LOL

knotty man · 03-11-2013, 10:43 PM

1) Laundry
2) Leave

Mike6082 · 03-12-2013, 11:19 AM

GF wil do the dress up, role play, barrack, swallow, anal, sexy body, DFK. So far the only thing she has resisted on is DATO on me. She loves it when I do it on her.

GFE- I have found a few providers that will actually do everything my GF will do plus the DATO but that's not a big deal to me.

Some ask me why I hobby if I my GF will do all that and often to boot.

I have two answers:

1. Variety
2. Hobbying is cheaper in the long run

You're always going to pay one way or the other.
Make it a great day!

Travelingbro · 03-12-2013, 11:56 AM

1) BBBJ, BB, Kidding, rimming, ham & cheese sandwich, laundry and not to wake me in the morning when departing.
2) Greek, Greek, and maybe some Greek, rimming, 3 sum... and she has cost me more in the last 4 months than what I spent hobbying all last year. (all star weekend, Galleria, Northstoms, Macy's) Like the old blues song says " Well, I can't quit you baby, but I got to put you down for awhile" Otis Rush- Willie Dixon.

phillyintexas · 03-12-2013, 02:43 PM

1. Passionate kissing
2. More experimentation with role playing

DallasRain · 03-12-2013, 03:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by knotty man

1) Laundry
2) Leave

lol I hate hate hate doing laundry EXCEPT I love love love folding warm clothes fresh from the dryer!!!

I think that a good gfe listens intently where sometimes a wife will halfheartedly listen

MsPrittiKitti · 03-12-2013, 03:52 PM

awesome points!!!
glad i asked

polo1970 · 03-12-2013, 03:58 PM

Definitely BBBJ hell just a BJ would be nice. Before I started the hobby I had gone for about 4-5 years without a BJ!

Guest061815-1 · 03-12-2013, 06:39 PM

Q: What's the difference between a girlfriend, a provider, and a wife?A: A girlfriend says, "That's all?" A provider says, "That's all!" A wife says, "Beige. I think I'll paint the ceiling beige."

Willen · 03-12-2013, 10:21 PM

MsPK (whom I still have to arrange to enjoy).

The answer depends on the situation with the SO, if there is one. In my case the SO is 'nada.' Not her fault, exactly (OK it is mostly) but I've not had so much as a hand job since BC (i.e. Before Bill, who like me, did not have sexual realtions with that woman, ...")

Once upon a time, my SO provided a gratifying 'vanilla' experience, I'd had stayed with that if she had not lost interest. But once I found the hobby, it released my libbido. So now I LOVE to explore.

Will

oden · 03-12-2013, 10:22 PM

Communicate, take your time,kiss,feel like she is interested in helping you get her off ,she wants to get you off more than once, ok with bbbjnqns, wind down afterwards and make you feel like she wants to see you again. Oh yes, and you want to see her again more than anything.
Hard to pull off. No wonder they are so special.