Safety & Advice (Newbie)

[ksmarine1980]

Newbie here looking for some tips and advice on how to remain safe. From what I've read it sounds like I should stick to verified providers with positive reviews, but how do I know if a provider has been verified? Are outcalls or incalls generally safer, and are there any specific areas to avoid?

I'm considering contacting a provider from the MP section, who has 7 or 8 positive reviews, but I want to make sure I take the proper steps to protect myself. Any advice or website references would be appreciated.

Sorry for the stupid question, just want to make sure I do my homework to remain as safe as possible. Thanks.

[KCQuestor]

There is no guaranteed safety, but there never is in anything you do.

To be safer, though, definitely see a provider who has been verified here.
Look for recent reviews.
Read about how she screens her clients -- if she doesn't screen, that means she is not being safe and that places more risk on you. There is a catch-22 there, though, in that someone who is a strong screener is likely to not be able to validate you as you have no references. Consider joining a screening service like Preferred411

Outcall (she comes to you) is definitely safer because it isn't likely that a police sting will go to a place they can't control. but that means you have to get the room (you aren't inviting her to your house, right?)

[ksmarine1980]

Thank you, Questor.

How do I know if a provider has been verified here? Does that just mean they have a positive review, or something else? Appreciate your advice.

[KCSmutMonkey]

Below their name it says 'Verified Provider' instead of 'Registered Member'.

[ksmarine1980]

Thank you Monkey. Am I better off emailing or calling, or does it make any difference?

The provider I'm considering is TempStress Tiff. Not sure if anyone has any insight...

[wildcat88]

You probably contact a provider the way she specifies in her ad. Most seem to prefer PM or email for initial contact.

[purplecloud]

Don't fall for the old "Sweetie, I'm allergic to those condoms:-( I'm gonna run out to my car and get mine. Be right back!" I call this The Topeka Trick.

[KCQuestor]

Not many of the Massage providers are "Verified Providers" here. I don't worry too much about the VP status if they have good reviews. Not everyone wants to participate in the board

[ksmarine1980]

Thanks Questor. Appreciate everyone's input.