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amber_hskpr · 09-11-2013, 03:53 PM

I need to get something off my chest here for a minute...
For you men who think that its ok to ask if we can do bb, its officially NOT ok.
If we have to do this for one, then we have to do it for all.
Its completely undermining us women.
We are here to provide a service....not to be your one and only personal whore.
And DONT try to act like you 'slipped' it in on accident. What the fuck? You think I was fucking born yesterday????
I have had this happen and those people will NOT be seen again.
I have pride in my vagina. Its clean, happy and healthy and I intend to keep it that way.
Treat me like a lady and I will make all your dreams come true. Piss me off, you wont be seeing this amazing woman again.
Thank You

Guest101114 · 09-11-2013, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by amber_hskpr

We are here to provide a service....not to be your one and only personal whore.

I have pride in my vagina. Its clean, happy and healthy and I intend to keep it that way.

Treat me like a lady and I will make all your dreams come true. Piss me off, you wont be seeing this amazing woman again.

Yes YEs YES!!.....I've been going through some CRAP with a few ASSHOLES as well.....glad I have a few friends who just wanna get a nutskeez and give me an "O" instead of acting like a DUMBASS

Sorry to hear someone is pissin' you off sexy lady

phillyintexas · 09-11-2013, 06:34 PM

Amber,
+1. Stick to "your guns". You need to protect your future. Phil

Samcro84 · 09-11-2013, 08:21 PM

I thought BB meant baseball, guess it has another meaning.

Mr.daddio · 09-11-2013, 10:47 PM

Sorry you have that question pop up.

I love you ladies, but I happen to think my dick is damn good looking. Don't need to chance that shit. Feels better? Damn straight. Worth the risk for either party? HELL NO!

Also...I love the fact that your vagina is "happy". I know I've come to be happy when I've seen it...

Bush Pilot · 09-12-2013, 04:07 AM

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Originally Posted by amber_hskpr

If we have to do this for one, then we have to do it for all...

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Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

Yes YEs YES!!.....I've been going through some CRAP with a few ASSHOLES as well...

Ladies, am I reading too much into your remarks; or is there a clique of assholes in our midst who are sharing info as to which ladies they've succeeded into either talking or tricking ("Whoops, it slipped...!") into BB?

(Off topic: Karla -- My, that's a cute bellybutton you have!)

pickupkid · 09-12-2013, 04:29 AM

Sorry that happen Sweete,,,there are a few bad apples around be safe

Guest101114 · 09-12-2013, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Bush Pilot

Ladies, am I reading too much into your remarks; or is there a clique of assholes in our midst who are sharing info as to which ladies they've succeeded into either talking or tricking ("Whoops, it slipped...!") into BB?

(Off topic: Karla -- My, that's a cute bellybutton you have!)

I've recieved PM requests for BBFS which obviously, I just ignore. I have also had some guys ask if they could just "slip the head in" or "get a quick feel" during the session and I've wanted to kick em' out the door but instead, very um, politely I reply "Sorry, I don't do that." Eww.

....and some guys wonder why I don't wanna see their naked ass again....ha!

Oh, hehe had to edit, my belly button says thanks for the cute comment(:

thatgirlbailey · 09-12-2013, 08:44 AM

I agree with all above. I will say out of the very few bad experiences I have had in the last six years one was a guy (I won't say gentleman) wanting BBFS after we were already BCD. Now I have been asked before but, this was totally different. He wanted to play just the tip and I said no I don't do that. Well he got angry and I had to very carefully handle the situation. Let's just say by the time all was done I had practically scooted all the way off the bed.

All I have to say is it is INSANE to want that. For all the guys know we are all riddled with disease and in my crazy head I think is he trying to purposely spread something or take a vendetta out on providers.

When he left I cried for about an hour it was that scary and it takes a lot to get me upset.

Hottassamelia · 09-12-2013, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by amber_hskpr

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I have pride in my vagina. Its clean, happy and healthy and I intend to keep it that way.
Treat me like a lady and I will make all your dreams come true. Piss me off, you wont be seeing this amazing woman again.
Thank You

Dakota123 · 09-12-2013, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by amber_hskpr

We are here to provide a service....not to be your one and only personal whore.

I have pride in my vagina. Its clean, happy and healthy and I intend to keep it that way.
Treat me like a lady and I will make all your dreams come true. Piss me off, you wont be seeing this amazing woman again.
Thank You

I could not have said it better myself!!!
I don't put up with a lot on this board....
Asking me for BB is the fastest way to get on my Blacklist!!!
Disrespect or vulgar talk to me is another way... I could keep going....
SOME men on this board think that they can treat us a certain way
because of what we do... and that is dumb!!!

Guest101114 · 09-12-2013, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by thatgirlbailey

I cried for about an hour it was that scary and it takes a lot to get me upset.

Awww, sorry you had to go through that....what a dickhole!! Probably an icky sticky diseased one at that!! Gross.

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Originally Posted by dakota123

Asking me for BB is the fastest way to get on my Blacklist!!!
Disrespect or vulgar talk to me is another way... I could keep going....
SOME men on this board think that they can treat us a certain way
because of what we do... and that is dumb!!!

For realz

Guest101314 · 09-12-2013, 09:24 AM

This post makes me angry! I don't understand that thinking. I cut off a regular because he would constantly text about wanting to try it and how much he's into me. Then wonders why i ignore his texts now. Maybe it's because you're creeping me out and I'm wondering if Ima have to kick your ass next time because you might try it. Think about it.

Be safe ladies!

TheDr · 09-12-2013, 01:06 PM

Aaalllrrriiighty then!! That's unfortunate. Must have happened more than once if you had to start this thread. Hate to hear that. Only my GF gets the real deal. All others get latex...

sms918 · 09-12-2013, 01:08 PM

I saw a post awhile back about self defense classes. I would definitely recommend all providers have some basic moves to protect yourselves. lists are good, but when your one on one, some of these guys are stronger and can be violent.

I'd say have a weapon, but you could be over powered and have it taken away
gun=death, best would be a taser if they won't take no for an answer(right to genitals)

but that's all extreme cases. like several providers have said, state no on services, if asked say no. both people are supposed to enjoy themselves, not just one. communication between both people is very important, and part of the experience.

It's sad when I read these posts and others about treating women badly. then
I watch the news and see the same thing. please be safe, I don't ever want to see or hear one of you got a disease or hurt.