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finnman · 12-01-2013, 05:57 PM

OK, So I have a former SB that has become a friend and we are both really frustrated with this whole business...

So for the hell of it, we are going to conduct an experiment to see if it might be a viable business proposition.

She does not really want to go full out provider status. I know both sides of the SD/SB thing and escort role...so we thought we might blend the two to see if it works....

We are looking for ten or so men, and ten or so women, to work with us to try a model where a potential SB can work with to find the right match for them, and vice versa...Our thought was to have her as the guys advocate, and me as the womans. We understand both sides, and can act as an ombudsman, or negotiator to see if the two interested parties match...

I was curious to feedback from the board. I know alot of folks in the community, so curious for feedback from the board. Or, if you are an interested party, PM me and we can discuss...

Happy holidays all, looking forward to responses...

Finn

Beagle · 12-01-2013, 07:25 PM

If I understood your post correctly, you want to help matchmake around 10 guys/girls? How is this any different from matchmaking websites?

Whispers · 12-01-2013, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by finnman

OK, So I have a former SB that has become a friend and we are both really frustrated with this whole business...

What business? Escorting or being a Sugar Baby?

So for the hell of it, we are going to conduct an experiment to see if it might be a viable business proposition.

It won't be....

She does not really want to go full out provider status. I know both sides of the SD/SB thing and escort role...so we thought we might blend the two to see if it works....

I'm sorry to say that if you think there is any blending pf the two you don't truly understand the SD/SB principals...

We are looking for ten or so men, and ten or so women, to work with us to try a model where a potential SB can work with to find the right match for them, and vice verse...

The odds of it coming from a group of 10 for one of them is pretty slim....

Our thought was to have her as the guys advocate, and me as the woman's. Why would ANY real SD want some guy in the middle of it?

We understand both sides, and can act as an ombudsman, or negotiator to see if the two interested parties match...

Do you? For grins and giggles lay out what you find to be a good SD/SB relationship...... And let the lady explain what it is that she is not finding for herself?

I'll bet you are both frustrated because neither has a true understanding of the dynamics of the relationship and has the wrong focus....

Finding 10 girls for your experiment needs to come from the pool of prospects...not here anywhere...... I'm sure you have learned that a "hooker on a retainer" is still a hooker and not a SB.... And a Stripper that still strips is just a UTR Hooker on a retainer......

Why aren't you presenting this in the SD Forum?

Real SDs are not in need of middle men......

Bobave · 12-01-2013, 09:53 PM

Whispers went right to the heart of the matter:

"Our thought was to have her as the guys advocate, and me as the woman's. "
Why would ANY real SD want some guy in the middle of it?

Not to be unkind, but it almost sounds like somebody is interested in building a stable and being a manager.

Guest062114-5 · 12-01-2013, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Whispers

Do you? For grins and giggles lay out what you find to be a good SD/SB relationship...... And let the lady explain what it is that she is not finding for herself?

I'll bet you are both frustrated because neither has a true understanding of the dynamics of the relationship and has the wrong focus....

Finding 10 girls for your experiment needs to come from the pool of prospects...not here anywhere...... I'm sure you have learned that a "hooker on a retainer" is still a hooker and not a SB.... And a Stripper that still strips is just a UTR Hooker on a retainer......

Why aren't you presenting this in the SD Forum?

Real SDs are not in need of middle men......

100% correct on every detail. Finding a successful SD/SB relationship is a very personal and individual matter. Plus, it generally evolves over time.

Being a SB or being kept, takes a special temperament...one most escorts and strippers don't have (or care to have).

SD/SB Speed dating? I don't think so.

Plus...yes, you do seem to be building a stable...what's your cut, or is this just for fun and research purposes???

Guest062114-5 · 12-01-2013, 10:36 PM

That said...I'll volunteer to participate...would you like my list of Sugar Daddy requirements?

And yes, I'm serious. But to warn you...be prepared, I don't settle for anything less than exactly what I want...and I have a ton of requirements...but once those are met, I'm extremely easy to be with and low maintenance. And I've got no gag reflex...

But I do have very high standards...

Gotyour6 · 12-03-2013, 08:07 AM

Lol,
Unbelievable

Guest062114-5 · 12-03-2013, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Lol,
Unbelievable

Yes...GY6...it's the funniest thing I've read in forever. Plus I love how he drops in with this great idea and doesn't even come back.

If I'm in, are you?n LOL

xoxo,
LMx

Whispers · 12-03-2013, 09:34 AM

I know the guy and think he knows better.

perhaps too much alcohol!

finnman · 12-03-2013, 09:08 PM

Im back and I am here...its a legit conversation...I never realized the frustrations these girls go through...I know it from our side, just throwing out ideas to help make the process better...

Thanks for the shout out Whisp, hope I can make it tomorrow eve, not sure I can tho....

Finn

Whispers · 12-03-2013, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by finnman

Im back and I am here...its a legit conversation...I never realized the frustrations these girls go through...

Such as? I can probably explain where it is their fault for either NOT defining their expectations if they have any...... or having unrealistic expectations and expecting them to simply be met.....

I know it from our side, just throwing out ideas to help make the process better...

Such as?.... How is the "process" flawed?

Guest062114-5 · 12-04-2013, 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted by finnman

Im back and I am here...its a legit conversation...I never realized the frustrations these girls go through...I know it from our side, just throwing out ideas to help make the process better...

Thanks for the shout out Whisp, hope I can make it tomorrow eve, not sure I can tho....

Finn

I hope I wasn't too rude or confrontational...I really am interested in your thoughts on this, but I agree with Whispers that it really doesn't make obvious sense to most of us who are familiar with this type of arrangement.

I'm open minded...try to explain and I promise to try to understand!

DiabloMactavish · 12-06-2013, 12:21 AM

I have had several successful SD/SB relationships, lasting anywhere from 6 months to 2 years.

I cannot imagine what kind of "negotiations" that you would offer that I couldn't handle in about 5 minutes of texting.

With all due respect to the ladies on here, the last thing I'd want as a sugar baby is a escort or a dancer.

It might just be my personal preference, but judging from the reaction of other forum members I'm probably not the only one.

10/10 as a pool of SDs and SBs is far too few to have a viable set of matched couples, in my opinion. I go through dozens of profiles on sites like seeking arrangement just to find a few girls I'm interested in messaging and go through initial screening.

Maybe that seems really picky, but it seems to work for me as I have had a fairly good track record finding SBs, all in all.

Best of luck to you though.