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Guests021916 · 12-10-2013, 06:09 PM

In the spirit of happier postings I have a question for providers. Occasionally I see a picture or avatar that I find extra special. I often like to compliment the lady on said picture. Do you resent the pm's wasting your time when sent with such a message? Sometimes these ladies may be out of my budget, sometimes not. I just want to tell them what I find compelling. Is that time wasting for you?

melannie_star · 12-10-2013, 07:35 PM

Honestly, I think everyones opinion may vary on this one. I appreciate the introductory pm's that may or may not lead to session. Sometimes it is through pm when you actually decide if you would like to make appt or not. I don't see any harm in it. Sometimes you may find by pm number 2 or 3 if actual appt will take place, or can just accept the compliment and say thank you

You are a sweet man though diddleman, so any lady should be lucky to recieve a a nice gesture such as yours.

OldGrump · 12-10-2013, 08:19 PM

diddleman, that's called a sales lead. In any business there is effort expended on potential customers that may not result in a sale. The providers who recognize and capitalize on that are the more successful ones here.

Even if a sale does not take place, the PM generates good will that can result in recommendations and referrals. It's all good.

Raquel de Milo · 12-11-2013, 01:04 AM

Compliments are always nice from a sweet guy like yourself

Eva Damita · 12-11-2013, 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by OldGrump

diddleman, that's called a sales lead. In any business there is effort expended on potential customers that may not result in a sale. The providers who recognize and capitalize on that are the more successful ones here.

Even if a sale does not take place, the PM generates good will that can result in recommendations and referrals. It's all good.

I agree...to a certain extent. The extent ceases if it's back to back to baaaaack tedious p.m's. leading to an impression of appointment interest. Only then does it become a waste. Some gents like to pm their fantasies for the fun of writing - back to back.

Compliments are always nice and non problematic to me.

Sami · 12-11-2013, 05:42 AM

I like to hear compliments like most ladies do, I am grateful to the guys who do speak up. After all we need to know if the photoshoot worked in our favor. I can usually spot the TW pretty fast, In fact I just posted new showcase pictures last night. I am very happy with them, but will you guys be?

Jessica Jade · 12-11-2013, 11:22 AM

I get pm's from men that live out of state that say they probably will never be able to see me but just complementing my showcase and I truly find it very sweet and flattering. I always send back a thank you and a smile.

ElisabethWhispers · 12-11-2013, 11:25 AM

It's never a waste of time to show some kindness, which I often feel is in short supply at times. So compliments are always appreciated.

I get a lot of PM's and e-mails from people who like what I wrote but they don't really wish to see me in the Biblical sense. Or like what others have posted, they're from another part of the country, etc.

It's never a bother. Always appreciated.

Nice topic!

Best,
Elisabeth

Guest092216 · 12-11-2013, 12:25 PM

I agree with what's been said! Being complimented is a very nice feeling. I love it! You are a very sweet for telling ladies how special they are. Thank you!

SexyPlatinum · 12-11-2013, 02:33 PM

Hey baby no that is not a waste of my time I love a conversation or compliment if anyone has a problem on that they are cold inside

pfmtony · 12-11-2013, 02:47 PM

I often send such PMs to test the waters. If the water is warm, sometimes I jump in. Some of the ladies that have responded can vouch for it. Two of the respondees are on my must meet list too.

I agree about the cold hearted assessment DLS gave. And I'm going to tell you if you get a cold or toi busy vibes from a provider stay away, far away. There are many great ones to visit instead.

I broke this advice last week and regret it. I should've seen melannie, THN, Jessica or DLS instead..... But I didn't. It would've been a way better use of my time.

Guest092216 · 12-11-2013, 03:19 PM

Ya but there ain't no pussy like new pussy.

cluelessn1963 · 12-11-2013, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Ya but there ain't no pussy like new pussy.

Yes... yes there are a few times I wish I had picked know pussy or even no pussy instead of trying the new pussy....

Know pussy does have its plussies :-)

Laura Lynn · 12-11-2013, 08:27 PM

I always appreciate a compliment on my pics and don't consider it a waste of my time by any means. I agree, it could be a good way to test the waters on someone new that you would like to see.

Jessica Jade · 12-12-2013, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by pfmtony

I often send such PMs to test the waters. If the water is warm, sometimes I jump in. Some of the ladies that have responded can vouch for it. Two of the respondees are on my must meet list too.

I agree about the cold hearted assessment DLS gave. And I'm going to tell you if you get a cold or toi busy vibes from a provider stay away, far away. There are many great ones to visit instead.

I broke this advice last week and regret it. I should've seen melannie, THN, Jessica or DLS instead..... But I didn't. It would've been a way better use of my time.

Or all of us at once