Suggestions on polite ways to end the date on time..

[OLindsay]

At the end of the date when the session is over how is the provider suppose to tell the client time is up without being rude. I don't end the date before the time is up, because they paid for my time, but sometimes there's clients that linger and I don't want to be rude and watch the clock nor do I want to say get heck out so how does ones stop this from happening? Open to all respectful advice and suggestions...

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Look at him and go

Seriously, guys ought to know about when their time is up and shouldn't have to linger. A direct yet cordial reminder that you have things to do should get him on his way.

Good luck, Lindsay!

[jk543_1]

Didn't they have a device on the Chappelle Show that would work? It played music and had a flashing sign that said "wrap it up".

[ISODT]

I've had several dates end early lately, and it usually irritates me a bit unless I feel it went well enough to warrant leaving as there wasn't any more I could do.... now on this end...? I would tend to agree with Wiz, we should know our time also (of course depending on what is going on atm... I may not have enough blood to my brain to realize much beyond the current activity).

[OLindsay]

Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

Look at him and go

Seriously, guys ought to know about when their time is up and shouldn't have to linger. A direct yet cordial reminder that you have things to do should get him on his way.

Good luck, Lindsay!

I have used that, I've had to go to the extent of telling a client that I had one on the way, which I don't like to do because I'm suppose to make the present client that's there already feel like he's the only one I'm seeing. I enjoy all my time with my clients but don't like to be rude cause that could be taken out of context. And thanks wiz your a sweetie.

[ChloeBB]

I would try saying WOW look at the time! Time really does fly when you're having fun! Then politely suggest that he could extend his date for X amount, or suggest booking a longer appointment next time.

[LeilaniBebe]

"Thank you for coming over I had a great time, so did you want to book more time?"

Then there are ones that are so nice, sweet and don't know how to take a hint, just be blunt and say "I have to go poop now so you got to leave."

[OLindsay]

Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

Look at him and go

Seriously, guys ought to know about when their time is up and shouldn't have to linger. A direct yet cordial reminder that you have things to do should get him on his way.

Good luck, Lindsay!

Originally Posted by LeilaniBebe

"Thank you for coming over I had a great time, so did you want to book more time?"

Then there are ones that are so nice, sweet and don't know how to take a hint, just be blunt and say "I have to go poop now so you got to leave."

Thanks for helping me I appreciate the great feed back.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by LeilaniBebe

...just be blunt and say "I have to go poop now so you got to leave."

And hope the guy isn't some scat fetish kinda fella...

[OLindsay]

Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

And hope the guy isn't some scat fetish kinda fella...

Eww Lmao

[naughtynatale]

I am with the Wizard... and Chloe gave great advice as well. You may also suggest, that is if you allow this, that they may use the shower to freshen up if they need to. That usually tells them time is up. When I first started I felt like you are feeling but as time went on it just seemed to workout the way it was suppose to.

Good luck hun.

[i'va biggen]

Originally Posted by OLindsay

At the end of the date when the session is over how is the provider suppose to tell the client time is up without being rude. I don't end the date before the time is up, because they paid for my time, but sometimes there's clients that linger and I don't want to be rude and watch the clock nor do I want to say get heck out so how does ones stop this from happening? Open to all respectful advice and suggestions...

I think in Lonesome Dove the gal had alarm clocks.